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Old 10-21-2020, 07:26 AM
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Congratulations for demonstrating the meaning of true selfless love. Although your experience was desperately difficult, you gave your heart freely..the epitome of selfless love.
I am also glad you are safely out of an increasingly difficult situation. Once again demonstrating the importance of boundaries of self-esteem. You may feel like you wasted the four years in the marriage but the life lessons you gave your kids are invaluable. You walked the walk my friend.
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