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Old 08-24-2020, 06:37 AM
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OP I am very sorry for what has happened. At the end of the day, it is what you consider cheating and what decisions you have made as a couple. cheating happens inside and outside of prison.

I know you're partly looking for excuses to excuse the behavior and the other part of you feels it is so wrong. I am guessing you were accused of over reacting or they may have given you the it is so hard speech etc.

Only you can decide what you can live with. You may need to reframe your relationship if you feel it is worth holding on too, but remember it is a 2 way street. One is good for one is good for the other.

If this is a betrayal you cannot move passed, then you need to rethink the relationship. Don't feel guilty if you disagree with it.
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