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Old 06-19-2017, 07:01 PM
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We check in on this subject frequently. I VERY early in our relationship dated other men, unknowing he had himself committed to ME. We are now a devout couple and welcome our 'check ins'. It's just that a check in, never gets ugly, out of hand or blaming. We are both adults and keep it in that level.

We check in frequently on all levels of our relationship. We feel it important to know/understand where the other is. Are each getting what the need to continue the relationship, are we connected, our goals etc.

Hang in there and stay sane. Don't let the situation corner you into making bad. Voices for ourself or the relationship

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