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Old 04-30-2019, 07:57 PM
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First things first: Breathe!! I'm not familiar with Australian jails, but I do know that feeling of helplessness and frantic energy going every which way till your head spins.

Some major things to take care of include making sure there is money on their books and your phone is set up for calls. Please read the forums to find out how to do those things in Australia. I wish I knew those answers, but I do not

If those things above are taken care of, write often! Other than that, Focus. Focus on something else, anything to keep you busy and your mind occupied. Work a 1,000 piece puzzle, clean out a closet, scrub the kitchen floor with a toothbrush if that's what it take to stay busy and to keep from going crazy with worry.....and Breathe!! Your partner will call you as soon as they can.

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