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Old 09-03-2018, 10:29 AM
Rigora Rigora is offline
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Originally Posted by bellie View Post

I donít think reality has hit. Friday morning we had a family. Friday night he was refused bail, likely to get 3-4 years.

I donít know what to do. I still think heís coming home. The only reason I wake up is knowing I have a little person to support. I honestly donít know what to do. Do I tell my doctors knowing Iíll probably lose it at one stage? How do you deal with a newborn and a Dad in jail?

Do you have a support system outside of your significant other? I was about 3 1/2 months pregnant when my daughter's father was arrested. I moved home with my Mother and it was such a huge help having her around. It was still scary, thinking about how I was doing this "all on my own."

As it has been mentioned, focus on you and your baby. The stress isn't good, pre or post birth!
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