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Old 06-08-2005, 08:56 PM
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We discussed this when our trailer visit was coming up. We want another baby, but we will wait till he gets home. It's not fair to him to miss out on everything, the first year has so many milestones. It would be unfair to the baby, not to be able to bond with daddy, and it would be unfair to me to have to hold it all down alone. He was very helpful when Starr was born. He got up for 3 am feedings, changed diapers, gave baths, everything down to cleaning the toliet! I couldn't have done it without him around the first time, never mind now. I say this because of the situation that we are in and him coming home in a max of 4 years, but if he had a longer bid, I might feel differently.
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