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Old 01-14-2020, 02:40 PM
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heh we were just talking about that.... Yup as I said before she did try and push me away. And she still does in small ways to try and take stress off me. She just recently tried to tell me not to bring food to her on Sundays when I was stressing during a call to find the appropriate ingredients.

It seems to be that she has not many tools to help support me, one tool she has is expectations. She can control something and if she can tell me something like to push me back, it in her mind takes some stress off me.

But I wont have it. I want to be there for her and I'm with her for a reason. I love her and will get through any small stresses. But if things were worse, I can see her pushing me away for sure.
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