Anyone call their man "Papi" or "Daddy?"
 

Are there many who call their guy "Papi" or "Daddy"?

I early on called my pen pal "Chulo", sort of as a surprise to him, and he wrote back and told me he liked "Papi Chulo" even more and wouldn't mind at all if I called him THAT. :D I'm all for keeping a Latin man happy (especially THIS one) :D, so I thereafter threw myself wholeheartedly into using "Papi" and "Papi Chulo". Once he wrote: "Who's your Daddy?" and I'm telling you, it made me weak in the knees just seeing it in a letter.

If you do say them, has he ever told you how your saying it makes him feel? How? I'd like to know what any guys have said about it.

What surprised me so much was how much I enjoyed saying them to him. To the point of imagining being able to say it to him during, ahem, "those" moments (you know what I mean :drool:) Does it do that to anyone like it does to me? Or am I just a big freak? LOL. Papi, Daddy, either one does it to me GOOD. :D:drool:

i call deont'e bay, babe, boo, pookie, and baby. along with a few other numerous nicknames. i havent called him papi or daddy, i dont like those names for some reason! i just love calling him those names or hearing him call me my nicknames because its like personalized, and i love it. its like i am his and he is mine. =D

JnJ2hearts1soul, I completely FEEL ya. It's an incredible turn-on to me. That surprised me so much because I had never used those words before he mentioned me doing it.

I think for him it probably makes him feel like a big, strong man with a woman looking up to him.

I think for me it makes me feel like I have somebody big and strong being protective of and caring with me.

Anyone agree or disagree from their own point of view?

i can't ever call him daddy because whenever I say the word daddy, i think of my father.....so it's kinda of gross. He loves it when I call him baby.

I called him Daddy once joking around and it kinda turned him on, but it did nothing for me. :shrug: I don't think I could ever say it to him seriously, it just sounds too weird to me. :o To each his own, eh?

I never called my father "Daddy". Ever. I've always only called him "Dad". So, "Daddy" is A-OK for my Latin guy in my eyes. :)

And yea, MissTara, I believe "Papi" is a cultural thing.......:) Maybe because Hispanics come from a traditionally patriarchal society? :confused: That's my guess. Maybe the Daddy-thing comes from the same, but non-Hispanic, societal reason (male dominance)?

I'm glad I put a "YUCK" choice in the poll for you all........:D I'm starting to feel like a freak over here because of you guys! :eek: Where are my Papi/Daddy sisters? LOL I need your support so I can feel normal again. :D

I, personally, find it disgusting, immature, and disturbing when people call their significant others those names. That's just my two cents...

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Ditto!
 

JnJ2hearts1soul.....I know exactly what you mean! :drool: :drool: Enough said about it though, I still have 5 months till he comes home.:drool: :drool: IS IT AUGUST YET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Froggyz Girl:love:

I never called any man in my life "Daddy" except my father, who died when I was 12.
I used to think it was weird to hear a chick call her man "Daddy" or "Papi".
But "USED TO" are the operative words...
I call my Love "Daddy" all the time now, and it gets me all weak in the knees...hell, it brings me to my knees!
Call it a "male dominance" thing if you want...a power trip...I don't know and don't care! He never asked me to call him that...it just sorta began somehow.
I love that submissive feeling...like I gotta make my Daddy happy and be a "good girl" for him.
But I also get that (ahem) "moist" feeling whenever he calls me Mami too!
Equal opportunity dominance in this relationship! :D
Mmmmm, mmmmm, mmmmm!!! ;)

I'm not into the Daddy thing either I'm hispanic so I always call my father Papi, once in a while I call my husband my "papichulo" but not just papi by itself it would gross me out thinking of my dad.

every once in a while I will but Papi in a letter but I dont ever call him that. He always writes "be good for daddy" but again I never call him daddy. I just call him babe or baby :D

I call my man daddy. I call my grandson daddy as he is the little man of his house. For me it's both cultural and affectionate.

Wow meganlea that's a bit harsh but I'm sure you've got your reasons, in any case you are entitled to your opinion so are all members and sometimes we just have to agree to disagree and I only ask that we do that respectfully...

Patty

I call him Daddy. My daughter thinks it's GROSS and isn't trying to hear that so I think I will save it for the bedroom. But I also call him baby boy!

Other than that I would just LOVE to call him!

Of course. That's why I said it was just my two cents -- which we're all entitled to on here. I'm obviously not the minority in feeling this way, however... To each his own!

I've always had nicknames for my guy like "Blue Eyes", but about a year ago he said he thought he'd like it if I called him Daddy. I immediately thought of my Dad and told him, "nope, can't do it hun". But he has mentioned it numerous times since then and refers to himself as such in his letters. After thinking about it I realized that I have never called my Dad "Daddy", so really it shouldn't bother me and honestly it does turn me on to call my man "Daddy":) So I've started to in letters, but have yet to actually say it to him. Maybe the next time he calls I will answer the phone "Hey Daddy" and see what kind of reaction I get:D

i have a myriad of nicknames i call my hubby, including Daddy. even though he's latin i don't call him Papi...it sounds so psuedo to me lmao. i have written it out to him in a letter though. i don't have an issue with any pet names...i gotta make it do what it do for my love.

Before my latin ex, I used to always want to be able to call a guy "Papi". I used it so much with my ex that now I think it sounds weird when I say it to my current man. I think I said it 1x or 2x and then I thought, damn this reminds me of my ex, so I don't say that to him anymore. He loves hearing "baby" so that's what I use.

Majority of people think I look latina so guys typically say "Hey mami" when they try to get my attention. I don't mind, I love the spanish language.

Now, the word Daddy is a different story - it sounds weird to me, I never called a man Daddy before because my mother didn't want my father to be in my life so I don't even know who my daddy really is. I don't care if other people call their man Daddy, it doesn't bother me.

I have to agree, I don't think someone should call their lover, daddy! To me it sounds preverted. My children call their Father, Daddy. Just too weird for me!!!!!!

I'd feel awkward with it and I think he would too, but I certainly don't think it's icky for others if the like it:)
There are some private ways we think of each other that I am sure some would find tasteless in their own right.
But I have a question. What does Chulo mean anyway? I feel so naive (blush)