OK HERE WE GO OUR VISIT WAS SO GREAT. I GOT TO SPEND 8 HOURS WITH MY HUSBAND IN A MATTER OF 2 DAYS. THEY BOYS WERE REALLY EXCITED ABOUT BEING ABLE TO SEE HIM. SO WAS I.

WE HAD SUCH A GREAT TIME TALKING AND JUST BEING WITH EACH OTHER. HE WAS GIVING ME A FOOT MASSAGE AND I WAS JUST REALLY MESSING WITH HIM A LOT. LET'S JUST SAY THE FIRST DAY IT WAS REALLY INTERESTING.

OF COURSE WE DID GET SERIOUS TOO. SO IT WAS BENIFICAL ON MAY LEVELS BUT HE TRIPPED A LIL CUZ THIS OFFICER WAS TALKING TO ME WHILE THE BOYS WERE GOING POTTY. THE NEXT DAY HE SAID THERE GOES YOUR BOYFRIEND WHEN HE WALKED BY. I JUST LAUGHED AND SAID OH YEAH ME AND THE BOYS ARE GOING OVER TO HIS HOUSE WHEN WE LEAVE HERE..

I HATE HOW INSCURE HE GETS SOMETIMES. DAMN IT IS NONSENCE. I HAVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING TO CUZ HIM TO EVER THINK I AM DOING ANYTHING WRONG. I AM JUST HANGING OUT BEING A GOOD WIFE WAITING FOR HIM TO COME HOME.. I AM NOT SURE WHAT ELSE I CAN DO TO REASSURE HIM SO I AM NOT GOING TO MAKE IT SUCH A BIG DEAL. IF HE IS TRIPPIN HE IS GOING TO DO IT REGUARDLESS OF WHAT I SAY SO WHY WASTE MY BREATHE. WHEN I AM STILL STANDING THERE AT THE GATE WAITING FOR HIM HE WILL SEE THAT I AM SERIOUS...

OTHER THEN THAT WE HAD A REALLY NICE VISIT. IT WAS NICE I GOT TO KISS HIM LIKE 15 TIMES.. WE ALSO TOOK OUR 1ST FAMILY PICTURE WHICH I AM GOING TO POST IN A LITTLE WHILE.. I LOVE MY BABY SO MUCH

Hey Shortie :)
I am glad you had a nice visit. I can relate with you as to the insecurities. My man can pull that same stuff at times. I find it works best to just listen..try to let it go and don't make a fuss much about it. I have heard everything from " you have NEW guys at your work now???!!", to " was that one of the kid's friends I heard in the background?", to " you better sit here ( in visiting room), that guy is a pervert and is staring at you>" Trust me, I am no Marilyn Munro and he has absolutely no reason to fret as I love him to pieces and am in for the long haul. Just another thing we go through and it helps to see that mine isn't the only one with the over active imagination..LOL

You take care,

Shannon

believe me, neither one of your guys is the only one with an active imagination...it is all about guilt, insecurity, and too much time to accomadate a wandering mind, in my opinion.
It helps to hear it from others that are experiencing the same though, because it makes it a little frustrating and I get less mad at him for thinking those kinds of things.

Before all of this happened it used to bother me that HE was never jealouse. Well he was but hardly ever admitted it. I kind of wanted him tobe atleast a little bit, you know it can make you feel good. Since he has been in he has become quite jealouse and even asks me all the time what did you wear to work or out with friends. I just always respond, I love you babe, no need to worry about what I wore cause even the thought of another man touching me makes me sick.
Another emotion on this rollercoaster I guess.

Yep, Juan does the exact same thing too. I will get a call and he's going off about something that made him mad and he wants me to do this and to do that and he is going to send me the info I nee and "if" I really loved him then I would....etc...etc...etc....etc...

Then, I would get the letters and nothing said about the conversation. Our roll is to listen, smile and go on with out lives knowing they are just venting.

However, I say "action speaks louder than words"...they will eventually see what we are about.

I'm glad things went good for you Shortie and your week ended better than it started.

Joy

Glad to know that I am not the only one dealing with that. I have to just deal with it for now but damn just cus some women can not wait does not mean that all women can not wait. At least give me a chance to show up I am really in this with you. I am very understand about it and I do understand that it is hard to sit there and wonder all the time... Damn I would be trippin too.