First I just want to say that I think this is Ironic for me Counting down to my man home coming and we met 10 years ago next month at a party called COUNTDOWN, I still have the flyer for that party, it's actually framed.:)

Ok, ok, so here it goes 25 DAYS!!! Ashtynn, it seems like the last few days have gone so slow for me that they were going backwards!!! I have completely lost my mind and I don't have time to lose my mind! I'm excited, nervous, scared and I feel like I am going to throw up and I still have 25 days, it's only going to get more intense. I can't even eat...

But I do have to say that I am looking forward to this more than anything. I know that his home coming is going to be the greatest time in both of our lives. I can't wait, let me say it one more time.....25 DAYS!!!:D

Oh, and Patty, the meeting at a party called Countdown and now having a countdown for his coming home, I think that is just another SIGN.....yeah, I'm still on that kick....ok, let me go, gots to go to work.

25 days!!!!!

Not long at ALL!!!!
Woo hoo :)

like whoa girl!!!
those days are going to fly, and girl eat!! im glad you started your countdown so we can have fun witcha :D just relax, those days are going to come and go so dont get all stressed, just have fun and enjoy cooking for one these next 25 days! lol countin down with yas!

Wow 25 days, sheesh you can do that standing on your head, although I wouldn't recommend it as it would mess up your hair! LOL

I hope they fly by, now remember, take your vitamins and get plenty of rest, I don't want to hear about you gettin' sick like I did just before he comes home.

All the best honey,
Patty

Look at how the time is moving! Awesome, you're getting so close! :D Everyday is one day closer honey!

Congrats to all and I wish you all the best!

Ok, do you guys ever feel like your mind is scattered all over the place? These last couple of days, I have been doing some really stupid things, sending letters with pages missing, throwing letters in the paper recycle bin at work and then looking everywhere for it, forgetting to send important WORK e-mails....this 25 days better go fast before I do something that gets me FIRED :eek:

Anyways, I just got approved for the vacation request that I put in for when he gets home at the end of the month!!! So that's just another thing that makes it more real....I got a letter from him and he is worried that I will change my mind about him when I see him.:confused: I guess I'll have to keep reassuring him until he gets here and he can see how much I love him.

Ashtynn, you are too crazy, that pic of you is so cute. I'll have to put pics of myself on PTO pretty soon, I'll just wait until I post some homecoming pics.:)

hey there girly! no i have not expeirienced any of that stuff but it will be ok! just try to calm down, you are going to ba a wreck when he comes home! well, my only thing is i have so much to do and so little time to do it in. i just have this problem that i want to look perfect, everything to be perfect, the house looking like paris hiltons mansion...bla bla bla...i could go on and on, but the fact of the matter is, he doesnt give a dam about any of that. lil secret...shhh...all he wants is you honey :D have fun with this countdown!! you talkin to the queen here girlfriend!!!! :thumbsup:

Thankfully I don't have to get my place ready, my roommate is my brother so I would feel pretty uncomfortable spending my first night with my man with my bro in the next room. I have a hair appointment tomorrow. I'm usually freakin' out over that since I used to do hair and can never be happy with my haircuts, but here I am not even thinking about someone putting scissors to my hair all that is going through my mind is 25 days....25 days.....25 days....25 days:rolleyes:

Wooooooooooo Hooooooooooooo!!! 25 days! Congrats :)

24 DAYS!!! :dance: :dance: :dance: :clap:

Awesome!!! Congrats and ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!!

Deb

23 DaYs!!! I just got to talk to him and he's countin down too!! Of course he is why wouldn't he, he's gonna be free!!!

Happy New Year!!!

Csmcgrl23 & ashtynn I am so happy for you guys!! I love these types of threads because it lets me know my day is coming soon!! Enjoy your "MAN" ladies!! :p :D

23 days! :D That's awesome! Congratulations!!!

3 WEEKS!!! 21 DAYS!!! That's it, OMG The time is beginning to pass really fast, at first it seemed like it stopped but I have been so busy the time is flying by 21 days....21 days....21 days....

hey sweetie! 21 days! that is exactly 3 weeks, how exciting and fun! hope you are remembering to breathe and taking those vitamins, everyone is sick over this way and girl we cant afford to get sick with 3 weeks left!! ilke whoa!! ~ash

Look at the days honey! Getting better everyday!

what's up girl! that's right..cant be getting sick! ;)

3 weeks!

18 days! wooooooo hoooooooooo :)

Man, Cali Sun I thought I was losing it for a minute, I read your post and I was actually thinking wooohooo 18 days...18 days...but it's actually 21, me and Ashtynn are real close.....21 days...21 days...21 days...21 days...

20 DAYS !!!!!!!!!! :yay:

Ok ladies, I woke up this morning freaking out a little bit....what if he DOESN"T get time served. I mean his attorney said "excellant chance, 90-95% chance" but you just never know really. These thoughts are really messing with me. I am getting ready, counting down and getting to excited for something that might not happen??? I NEED to block these thoughts out.....

20 days....20 days....20 days....20 days....

brownshuga27.....OMG hours to go, I'm gonna have to go to your countdown thread to see how you are doing.....how exciting for you, I feel like jumping up and down for you!!!!

You go girl!!! You are almost there. I am so excited for you. Hang in there love ya angie

Exciting!!:D:D:D:D less than three weeks!
I have four. Can barely believe it!

GET IT GIRL!!! 20 days hun...:D

yes..block those thoughts girl! ;)

whoop there it is!!! 20 days baby! its all about some fun times and butterflies now, girl i know i am feeling them too! i love that we are almost at the same # that makes things fun :D

:eek: 19 days....19 days....19 days....I am feeling all kinds of things. Yeah Ash the butterflies are going CRAZY!!! I just want to make the time go faster. I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself for the next 19 DAYS!?

I'm having trouble writing his letters and concentrating in general....he is having questions of what it's gonna be like for him when he gets home, he said go on PTO and get me some info, so that's my job today besides actual work:)

19 days...19 days....19 days....

GURL..YEA YOU ARE IN THE TEENS!! :yay:

I'm super happy for you!! :D Ash would say..I'm all about some countdowns. which is true! so now..go do your job for him! :p LOL! have a great day!!

drop it like its hot...drop it like its hotttttt!!! look at you go girl, in them teens! its all down hill from here :D

I have to thank you girls, without you guys making me laugh this countdown would not even be close to this much fun...I love it!!!! drop it like it's hot....wooo that one just made me die maybe I should go to the lobby of the firm right now and really drop it like it's hot!! :dance: No, no, no, I'll just keep my office door closed and do it in here, watch out now....:clap:

I know you are droppin it like its hot! i'm coming up in there to join ya! :)

girl for real..this is AWESOME!!

19 days..SAY WHAT NOW?? you killin it!! :D

Well I actually did the whop a minute ago and I have a Gwen Stephani song going thru my mind...."This sh*t is bananas b-a-n-a-n-a-s" now repeat ladies except louder...

"This sh*t is bananas b-a-n-a-n-a-s"

I'm losing my mind!!! 19 days....19 days.....19 days....

Kobe16 can I ask what it is about Kobe??? My Man LOVES the Lakers!!! We've had many a debate about your boy KB8!!

LOL! get ya dance on with Gewn! ;)

OK..dont lose your mind!! let me get it for ya girl!! :p YA just got 19 lil days!

So KOBE..I dont even know where to start! I mean..HE'S JUST KOBE! my fine man who looks soo good playin! DANG!!! :rolleyes: he's definitely good people! and he can PLAY! so what debates do yall have? I would love to hear!!

Well I don't want to upset you since you keep me laughing, Kobe is my LEAST favorite NBA player. I have NEVER liked him. Well he is getting his scoring title this year, that was his goal since Shaq left, his selfish goal, his team is only JUST above .500 doesn't matter how many points he scores if HIS team isn't winning....Let me not go on and on. My man LOVES the Lakers, he's a little lost this season since he is in Hawaii and doesn't get to see many games and he said the team looks so different.

Don't get me wrong Kobe has MAD SKILLS, I just think he is selfish....He's not my boy MJ that's for sure.....GO BULLS!!!! Yeah that's right, I'm diehard to the end, my boys SUCK!!! But I still have thier backs!!! My man said he will take me to the Lakers/Bulls game when he gets out! You should come to and see your man in person!!!

I will have to print this out and send it to Pat, he will love this, his sugar mama always going on about KB8!!

Ok, let me have it girl, give me all you got......

LOL Csmc! Naw its cool! I mean Kobe is my boy but I know he is selfish! :rolleyes: I always try talking to him about it..he dont listen. :p and yea, the lakers are definitely not doing good this year. I mean..THEY NEED SHAQ! and I wish some others were there too. so girl, I feel ya on that. I got MAD LOVE for Kobe..i mean..CRAZY LOVE but sometimes I'm like..WHOA Kobes! ;) he's still my man til the end. my brother super hates him now. gah..he was a diehard fan too..not anymore! BUUTT..


BIG UPS TO PAT!! GOTTA LOVE OUR MEN! :D

Kobe you alright girl!!! At least you aren't like alot of Laker fans that would swear to me until they were blue in the face that Kobe is the greatest ever....hahahaha don't make me laugh, I bet like your bro they are singing a different tune now. You just tell your man that I have a few words for him and to hit me up!!

Well let me just say this for my man GO LAKERS!!!!

(I tried to use purple and gold but it didn't work):)

LOL csmc!! :haha: good effort though!!

GO LAKERS!!
ya got 18 days mrs lady!!!! :D

ooohhh yyeeaahh!!! 18 days..18 days...18 days....this just does not seem real, I wish I could explain how I am feeling right now, it's crazy....Ash I'm glad you are feelin' it to !!

Hey Kobe did you see your man play the Mavs last night????

HEY CRAZY LADY! :p

nope..didnt catch it. I gotta get a cable cord for my room..but dont worry.. I let him know that so he's ok wit it! ;) we got that deep connection!

oooo...i didnt see his hot lil piece'a sumthin play last night but i sure wish i did, and girl you know marj doesnt actually watch him PLAY, but she watchs her some sumthin alright!! ;) haha now hummm....what song can i sing you about coming home for you to get CRUNK too...
evrytime i come around this countdown...bling...bling. pinkie ring worth about 50...bling ...bling lets ride thru this thing...bling...bling put rizzo's on yokahoma tires...bling ...bling. and ride up on out of them waiting days and in to his arms!!

girl, i am all about some blings today :D

GREAT STUFF ASH!!!!! Sometimes I watch him play..:rolleyes: :D

you are bling blingin like IT AINT NO THANG!! :p

*ahem*

YALL GON MAKE ME LOSE MY MIND..UP IN HERE, UP IN HERE
YALL GON MAKE ME GO ALL OUT...UP IN HERE, UP IN HERE
YALL GON MAKE ME ACT A FOOL..UP IN HERE, UP IN HERE
YALL GON MAKE ME LOSE MY COOL..UP IN HERE, UP IN HERE!!!

hehehe, thanks for helping me get my groove on:dance: :dance: :dance: I should be getting a call today and I'm gonna tell him all about you guys! (but I did in todays letter just in case I miss his call)

Oh since you missed the game Kobe I watched it just for you....the Lakers lost:( They are just as bad as the Clippers if you can believe that! I'm gonna see your man one day Kobe, I know I will. I ran into Shaq once, literally, biggest dude I have ever seen!!! I can't wait until my man comes home so we can watch a game together like we always used too. It won't be so bad now that both of our teams suck!!

Ash why don't you put a pic of you and Matt up?? Your son is too cute!!

18 days...18 days...18 days...18 days...:clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :yay: :yay: :yay:

17 days Csmcgrl!!!!!!!

So you've seen Shaq?? AWESOME!! My brother would super love to see him! Oh and me too..I mean..its Shaq. Austinsgirl went to a Lakers game and I was super jealous of her..she said Kobe has super skinny legs! :D :rolleyes: LOL!! I know the lakers arent doing soo well..I keep my baby motivated though!

have a great weekend girl!

Well living in LA sometimes it can't be helped but to see people, just on my drive home from work I look at the real nice cars to see who's drivin'...17 days!!! Yeah!!!

I'm a little bummed, having issues with a so called friend, her man came to visit her today from New York and last night they weren't sure if he was going to make his plane so she was going ON AND ON about not knowing and I mentioned Pat for a second and she said she didn't couldn't hear that right now, that I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!! :angry: I thought I would explode, her man can get on a plane anytime he wants to Pat can't, I had to kick her out of my apartment after that and I'm still po'd :mad: about it. I am going to talk to her after her loser man leaves.


17 days....17 days....17 days....17 days.....Have a wonderful weekend everyone!!!

2 weeks, 2 weeks, 2 weeks...2 weeks, 2 weeks, 2 weeks....2 weeks, 2 weeks, 2 weeks, 2 weeks....2 weeks, 2 weeks, 2 weeks!!!!:D :D


Holy cow batman, time is moving fast!!! Looking at my at my calendar freaks me out but in the best way....I can't wait to see my man!!!

Hope you ladies had a wonderful weekend, it's been raining in Cali for DAYS!!! Been stuck inside all weekend, I baked a cake and made playdoh and my apartment just keeps getting cleaner and cleaner.
2 WEEKS...2 WEEKS...14 DAYS...14 DAYS...14 DAYS...14 DAYS...

LOL Csmcgrl!! It rained over here like WHOA on Friday. so at least your house is soptless! :)

Girl that super sucks about your friend..man! but I'd do like you and talk to her lata.
so..I definitely watched my boy play friday! looking soo good..had them 27 points!! :D
now just to see him...:rolleyes:

YOU ONLY GOT 2 WEEKS!!!!!!

girl only 2 weeks, i know you are beside yourself, how fun! i think you need to pass me over some of that excitement though, i am as calm as the wind! whats the dam deal!?

Girl, look at those days! 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm doing a little dance over here for ya! :D Keep smiling and keep breathing, that's all that's gonna pull you through these last two weeks, honey.

Ashtynn, I am FREAKING OUT!!! I think there is something wrong with me, you need to give me some of your calmness. I don't know how I will stay calm the day he comes home, I can barely keep still now...14 DAYS??? WHAT!?!?

And Kobe16, it's a good thing they won then huh??? I'll watch the game tonight. They play the T-Wolves, Kobe against KG....oh the Lakers are goin' down tonight!!! GO BULLS!!!

lol, well i dont know how i do it...i think it is in my nature to be real laid back. :) i just know he is coming home and all will be fine. no worries or stress, i dont know though, i have my moments but then i call one of my girls or kick back some beer and sleep. thats just me. i think next week will be the kicker for me, right now its just la..ti..da..hum. lol girl you go on with that excitement, enjoy it!!! :thumbsup:

Well I'm glad that all I am feeling is excitement. It would be worse if I were worried or stressed out over it. I know it will be perfect when I am with him it's just leading up to that point, I feel like I will explode. I was just telling him last night that I'm afraid I might faint and I am not a fainter but the build up of excitement might just be too much when I see him.....OH MY GOODNESS hehehehehe I can't stand it I am so excited I'm about to run past all the cubicles at work well I'll skip and just smile and wave at everyone, :wave: :wave: well at least the ones that made it to work today...:)

12 DAYS!!!!

Unbelievable! My stomach hurts...hey Ash I was talking to my cousin last night and I was talking to her about Pat and she asked how much longer and I told her and you know what she said??? she was like "man, that's totally like WHOA!!!" I died laughing I thought of you immediately....now everytime I hear that I will think of you....12 Days...12 days...12 days...Like totally whoa for sure!!! (had to put some valley girl in there)

like HELLA WHOA!! how funny girl! kobe and i were just talkinag last night about how all of PTO is like whoa now! :D lol welll so we are at 12 days huh? how exciting!!! :D i know you are beside yourself, just take care of you girl, tanning, nails, pampering, exfoliating, the fun stuff...it will all fall in place ;)

12 DAYS! THAT IS EXCITING! I'M HAPPY FOR YOU!

17 days Csmcgrl!!!!!!!

So you've seen Shaq?? AWESOME!!

have a great weekend girl!

I've seen Shaq. :) I am from Florida and used to see him a lot in Orlando when he played for the magic.

Hey csmcgrl! yes yes..the "whoa" is back and super spreading! :)
girl 12 days aint nothing! I know you are getting antsy! :D

Phillygirl, Shaq is tha man!

12 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Look at those days go down...!

I'm having a moment of real excitement!!:yay: :yay: :yay: :p

12 days is gonna pass like nothing, less than 2 weeks and once my sisters baby shower is over with this Saturday then I will have nothing stressing me out that I have to get done so I am looking forward to spending all of next week having a party within myself.

Thanks everyone for countin with me....

Hey Kobe did you see your boy get 31 points the other night? And the Lakers came back to win, but your boy was on the bench and not needed when they took the lead, but I must admit that his 31 did help them win.:p I was sure they were going to lose!!! Oh well, I'll have better luck next time. I CAN'T WAIT TO WATCH A GAME WITH MY MAN JUST LIKE OLD TIMES!!!:)

Less than 2 weeks..WOW! Keep us posted God Bless the both of you!!!

11 days...11 days...11 days...


I wish I could take away one of those ones. I'm ready for this to be over, I'm sick of 3 minute phone calls so he can save his minutes (he's fed and only gets 300 min a month). It's like I know he will be home soon but I still feel so sad when I can't talk to him for a long time.

11 days...11 days..11 days...

I can do this, it's nothing right? it's over soon, it's over soon, it's over soon, that's all I keep saying but it still SUCKS!!! It's hard feeling so much at once.....11 days.

GIRRRLLL

YEA YOU CAN DO IT!! 11 days will be up and outta here!!!!!!!!!!! :)

Another day down! You're gonna be with him sooooooooooooon! :D

uh oh...10 days csmcgrl!! :D

10 days....10 days...10 days...10 days.... there's something about it being 10 days that makes it a really real countdown, ya know, 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5......yyyyeeeeaaaahhhh, I am starting to be so excited that I can't help but smile, smile, smile :D :) :D :)

I'm about to book a hotel room, I told my boss yesterday that I won't be at work the 25th thru the 28th, I had been approved but was terrified to tell the attorney I work for that I will be out for 4 days...but he took it ok but now I have to train someone to process the new lawsuits so that's another thing added to my list of things to do. But I'm really thankful that I do have so much to do because these next 10 DAYS will just fly by!!

:) :yes: :fb: :dance: :yay: :D :fb: :dance: :clap: :clap: :hifive: :rock: :yay: :dance: :) :D :fb: :dance: :dance: :dance: :beer: :rock: :yay: :dance: :fb: :eek: :D :) :yes: :yay: :fb: :fb: :yes: :yay: :D :)

OMG 10 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wooohooo! I just wanna do a little dance for you...okay, maybe I am doing a little dance already....but shhh, no one can know ;) ! 10 days...like woah! :D

do that dance sweetest!! ;)

Csmcgrl, did ya see my boy sprain his ankle last night?!! I bout fell out my seat! :eek:

Kobe! My man sprained his ankle a while back too!!!!!!! It seems to be a prison thing....he sprained it and he was really upset that he sprained it....hahaha.

whoop ther it is! soooo close, gorl as excited as you are you could start a fire with your energy!!! :fb: :D love, ash

Kobe! My man sprained his ankle a while back too!!!!!!! It seems to be a prison thing....he sprained it and he was really upset that he sprained it....hahaha.
LOL! mine sprained his too!! MUST DEFINITELY be a prison thing! but I was talking about KOBE ..LMAO! wait..did ya know that and were joking? i'm slow at times..:rolleyes:

No I didn't know you were joking. :( I'm slow at times too! :)

yeah Kobe I saw your man sprain his ankle, I didn't watch the game but when the news came on they were like "we have a breaking report: and they cut to the staple center to talk about KB8 hurting his ankle" Like it was the most important news of the night. But guess what the Lakers won without him like I knew they could.:)

Sorry he got hurt...not really, but think of it this way you will see him in regular clothes and they always look better dressed.;)

Kobe it's almost your birthday.....

Go Kobe it's ya birthday...
We're gonna party like it's ya birthday....
Gonna sip Barcardi like it's ya birthday...
And ya know we don't give a F%$@ cuz it's ya birthday!!!!:dance: :dance: :dance:

10 days...10 days...10 days...I am so excited yyyeeeaaahhh bbboooyyyy!!!!!

10 days WOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOO :) :) :)

HHEEEYYY CSMCGRL!!!! :)

YOU GOT 8 DAYS MA'DAM!!

Girl you are right..they do look better dressed! but Kobes look good either way..;) you knew I had to say that!!

Thanks for my bday song!!! :D :yay: I'm super about to PARTY!!

No I didn't know you were joking. :( I'm slow at times too! :)
aww..poor thing! :p I'm laughin WITH ya girl. Yea Kobes sprained his ankle..:(

7 days!!! One week!! :eek: :eek:

This is crazy, just crazy....time just keeps moving, what happened to the days that felt never ending...

7 days...7 days....7 days....7 days...

I hope you had a great birthday kobe16!!

hey there girly girl! 6 days to go! 5 days and a wake up :D just checking in on yas, makin sure you are ok :) have fun this week!!!!

what up lady!! still countin wit ya

6 days peeps.. :D

I had a great bday thanks! :)

Honey, 6 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Watch those days fly! :D

Man Kobe, you almost had me falling for that man of yours!!! That's a nice pic of your man I must say......;)

Yes ladies 6 more days...6 days...6 days...6 days...6 days....:eek:

I've been freaking out a bit but I'll get over it. I am SICK!!!:sneeze: :sneeze: :shake: I can hear Patty now telling me I should be taking my vitamins. I have been drinking OJ all morning and popping all kinds of cold pills and cough drops.

It's all good, my final test of patience I guess.:rolleyes:

Thanks for countin' with me ladies, I cannot wait for this all to be over with!!!! 6 days...6 days...6 days...6 days...:dance: :fb: :dance: :fb: :dance: :fb: :dance: :fb: :clap: :clap: :yay: :yay: :clap: :clap:

now go get better girl!! this day is almost thru..;)


Aint KOBES fine in this pic! DDDDDAAAMMMMNNN!!!

DAM, he does look good, why did you have to put that pic up??? you're making it hard for me to dislike him so much.

I was just writing to my man about his boys, how they can't seem to win 3 in a row and how my BULLS are making a comeback, just finished winning their 7th game in a row!!! :D :D

One of the things I look forward to the most is watching basketball with my man....6 days...6 days...6 days...6 days...

GO BULLS!!!

Hey sweetie, I haven't been up in your countdown yet!!!!! Congrats girly, that man is ALMOST home, to your arms where he belongs for reals!!!!!!! There's only 6 damn days left... ONLY 6 MORE!!!!!! That's less then a week girly... you go chick!!!!!!! I'm SOOOOO happy for you and I wish you and your honey the very best!!!!!!! Congrats to you... both of you!!!! Much love and hugs sweetie!!!! May God bless you and your love!!!!!

Ahh..you know you like him girl! :D

ITS SOO SUPER CLOSE FOR YALL!


GO KOBE!! ;)

Where's Kobe going??? He can't run nowhere.....:haha: :haha:

Please, Please, Please, do not get me started liking yo man!! I would never hear the end of it!!!
oooohhhh yeahhhh, time sure is flying, this day is almost over and it's on to the next.....6 days....6 days....6 days....I haven't danced in a minute, you girls have got to get me goin' again, help me dance this cold away......COLD BE GONE!!!:thumbsup:

Here's a "cold be gone" dance for ya sweetie... :fb: :dance: :dance: :fb: :dance: :fb: Shakin' out the sneezes and the coughs.... :dance: :dance: :fb: :fb: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: movin' and groovin' the stuffyness away too!!!!!!! I hope that cold me gone dance worked but just in case you needed a little more

I'll rock that whole damn cold outta here for ya.... :rock: :yay: :rock: :rock: :yay: :dance: :fb: :fb: :dance: :rock: :rock: :yay:

Now no more :shake: :nono: :no: icky feeling coldy germs :sneeze: :sneeze: ... ahhhhh, what did I just say... no more of that now!!!!!!! LOL, I really hope you feel better sweetie!!!!!! :D :p :) ;) :thumbsup:

Holy Sh*t!!! Tears, that frickin' worked!!! On the way home from work I was like, hmmm, I feel a little better! Then I could actually sing which I have not be able to do (well at least sounding decent) in a few days! Then I'm here and I had printed out your countdown thread to read it and I was reminded that you did a "cold be gone" dance for me and that sh*t worked!!!! I should feel at least 80% better by tomorrow.


Well I'm off to your countdown to tell you what I thought....What!!! I'm about to cross off today off my calendar, another day come and gone!!!:thumbsup:

CSCMGRL, now I KNOW you aint over there talkin bout my Kobes can run! :blah:

girl, its only a minor set back..he'll be back in full force!!!! :D
AND YOU GON LOVE HIM MORE AND MORE AND MORE!! Watch out there now!!

so that cold dance helped ya out huh, GET IT TEARS! LMAO!

you only gotta 5 days mrs thang!!!! DO IT BIG!!!!!!!!

LOL, so my cold be gone dance REALLY worked?? Wooooohooooo!!!!!!! I should do this dancin' thang more often!!!!! You ever need anything to happen, let me know... I'll do a little dance, shake my booty a little and vualla, your wish has come true!!!!! LOL, I hope!!!!! I'm glad you are feeling better though, you need to be in top condition for that man to come home because I can almost gaurantee you he's gonna wear ya out!!!!! And that my dear, is a VERY good thing!!!!!!! I can't wait for my hon to come home and wear me out!!!! I KNOW Ash feels the same way over there!!!!! Congrats hon, you're getting SOOOOOOO close... only 5 more days!!!! Just 5 more and he's here, in your arms to stay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm very happy and excited for ya sweetie, now be sure to take good care of yourself for that man cuz he's almost there!!!!!! :D :) :p ;) :thumbsup:

pump pump pump pump it up to 5 days!! yeeeeah booooyyy!!

5 days...5 days....5 days...5 days....


Well it's getting so close and I am a ball of nerves....I am trying my hardest to remain positive, I'm thankful that I have ou girls here with me helping me make it through these last 5 days....and I'm lucky that my friends here are trying thier best to keep me calm, telling me to think only positive, no thinking that he won't be here....at least my cold is getting better Thanks to Tears!!! Thanks so much girl, you don't even know, it was like a miracle I swear.

Hey Kobe girl, I will never ever ever like yo man, you deserve better!!!:) j/k, I know he's your man so I gots to respect that but it doesn't mean I like his a@@!!

Ash, you are the calmest person I know, well the calmest in this situation anyways. I'm not freaking out over how it will be when he comes home, besides our first few days together we haven't really made promises or plans that can be broken and let us down, it will be a go with the flow type of situation. I know he has alot to do to get back on his feet and on the right path so we have refrained from making any plans for the future until we know how it will be. I'm not worried about being let down or anything like that. I'm just nervous as he** to see him and even more nervous that I won't see him at all. I've only seen him once through glass in the last 2+ years so I'm seriously freaking out over seeing him and being able to touch him....yeah Tears, I know he is gonna wear me out....I CAN"T WAIT!!! Why can't it be Monday already so I will know for sure?????

5 days...5 days....5 days....5 days....5 days...5 days.....

Sweetheart... you'll be FINE... I promise!!!!!! There's nothin' wrong with being a little nervous about that man comin' home!!!!! But, he IS comin' home to ya!!!!!!! You've only got 5 more days, if he wasn't gonna come home yet, you'd KNOW it by now... SOOOOOOO, He IS coming home!!!!!!!!!!! :D I am SOOOOOO hella happy for you and you know we're ALLLLL here for ya to help ya get through these last few days of waiting!!!!!!! He'll be here soon girly, just hop on into Ash's thread and enjoy the hardcore rap scene that we've got goin' on over there... it'll help pass your time hella fast!!!!!! Damn, it's already noon over here... see time flies when you're havin' fun with the girlz!!!!!! You know we're here for ya!!!!! If you're ever freakin' out and you need to talk... just holla at me and I'll be there for sure!!!! Much love and hugs to ya sweetie!!!!! And hell yeah.... daddy's gonna wear you out SOOOOOOOOO damn soon!!!!! Are you ready chick-a-dee???? :D :) :thumbsup:

lol, girl its gone be all g double o d good :) i am pretty excited about seeing him and touching him too! its gonna be crazy! i am super happy about that moment and hope it is all good tooo, but i know it will be for me and for you :thumbsup: just enjoy it all girl :) and girl i am NOT calm ... go check out my thread for real! and rip it up with us! now!!!

I just want to thank you girlies for making my day....I loved laughing and smiling the whole day thru, even got me to bust a rap...in Ashes thread I think I lost track of what thread I was posting in, just following ya'll around. You guys are the best!!!!

I'll almost be sad when this countdown is over....NOT because then he'll be home with me!!! Ok let me get my groove on!

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5 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It will fly by !! Can't wait to hear the he is home update :)

4 days...4 days...4 days...

I'm feelin' it, keeping those what if's in the way back of my mind today, I woke up feelin' good, maybe cause he's gonna call today. I'm looking forward to my vacation time, woooohoooo, getting paid to spend time with my man!!! Nothing can beat that, that's for sure!!! I LOVE MY MAN!!!!! oh and I MISS HIM BUNCHES TOO!!!

well girly you only have 4 days left, when i hit my 7 day mark they went by so quick, i mean that like reall really really quick! ;) you have finally made it! you better get yo a$$ to washin sheets and dustin corners and grocery shoppining! go on with your bad self girl! are you going to get him? is he staying with you?

I been cleaning and organizing for a couple of weeks now for no good reason. He is not coming to stay with me. He's gonna be staying with his sister in Long Beach. But he will be over here so I am getting things in order. He's very organized and I'm not so I had to organize so he doesn't freak out and run away.:eek: (he knows how I am:) )

I am not going to pick him up....He will be flying in from Hawaii...sooo I got us a nice hotel room right by the airport that has a shuttle that can bring him to me. I will be the first person he sees as a FREE MAN. I tell ya, I cannot wait, I have been waiting for this moment for years longer than he has been in jail.....4 days...I knew when I woke up and was like wow, it's Thursday already and I know the weekend will go fast because they always do, especially since I will be keeping myself busy. I'm nervous, excited and extra happy. I might just be posting alot these next few days just to help keep my emotions in check.....Ash girl I am so feelin' you, I am so excited for you!!!!!

post away girl, thats what i do to keep myself occupied. well now i see why you are so nervous, see i am not going to get my man, his daddy is getting him, he is picking up his car and driing over to my place, so HE is gonna get the nervous feeling,lol. but see i also have his best friend with me on friday, so he will be there to calm my nerves and drink with me. :D and derek is a pretty chilled out dude anyways so that will help. girel my house is spic and span, not even a white glove could pick up dirt ;) i got it like that :D but ya, on the real, i am super excited and cant wait to kiss that man like WHOA! :eek:

Csmcgrl, its 4 lil days girl....JUST 4!!!!!

LMAO..he IS gon wear you out..and I bet you're ready for it!!!! :D
GET IT GIRL!!!!

yesterday was a trip...today's got to be even better!

Hey girly!!!! Just stay calm!!!! Everything WILL be ok.... that man will be home in 4 days!!!!!!! OMG, that is SOOOOOOOOO soon hon!!!!!!!! You deserve this one, I'm happy for ya!!!!!!!! See, I'm tellin' ya... keep those what if's as far away as possible!!!!!!!! WooooooHooooooo, just 4 damn days and he's in your arms for good sweetie!!!!!!!!!! I know the butterflies must be flutterin' their little booty's off in your tummy too so I'll tell them the same thing I told Ash's butterflies.... GO AWAY BUTTERFLIES!!!!!!!! Go take your flutterin' a$$es elsewhere!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D LOL, I"m really excited for you, Congrats and I wish you and that man the very best of luck!!!!!! :D :thumbsup:

I LOVE the BUTTERFLIES!!! That's the best part about it. I have known Pat for 10 years and I still to this day get butterflies, I hope they never go away....Just like my girl Janet says "These butterflies, they never lie" It's a sign of true love......4 days....4 days....4 days.....

ahh..arent butterflies GREAT! :p

I don't really like the butterflies personally.... the make me feel like I'm gonna blow chunks all over the place :yuck: ...... No, no thank you no butterflies for me up in here!!!!!! I'm glad you've learned to make friends with them but I only like pretty butterflies that are flying around me.... not in my tummy!!!!! LOL :D Can I just give you my butterflies when they arrive?? :D :p ;)

Totally, I'll take um, yeah I feel like I could throw up most of the time but I deal with it, since this is the only man I feel this way for I think it's totally worth it, he says he has butterflies too. Oh and Ash, he is gonna be the one that's really nervous too.....he has a 5 hour plane ride over the ocean with nothing to think about but me waiting for him at the hotel, he said he will have butterflies up until the moment he knocks on the door.

mmmmaaaannnn, I can't wait....I'm dying here girls, it's been a llllooooonnnnggg time!!!

Don't get me wrong, I get butterflies ALLLL THE DAMN TIME when it comes to my baby. I've been with him for a few years on and off now and to this day EVERYTIME I see him or I'm on the way to see him... I get mad butterflies... and every single time I'm on the way to visit him... I have to pull over and chill for a second because I seriously feel like chunks are gonna blow out like crazy. I've never actually thrown up but I ALWAYS feel like I'm gonna for reals when I see that man!!!!!!

well butterflies aint really my friends either! :D

BE EAZY GIRL! :thumbsup:

ok, I'm still writing letters to him AND I'm sending them. Any letter I send now won't get to him but I just can't stop....I guess I need to talk to him and tell him all that I'm feelin' right now so the letters is my way of communicating with him. I guess it makes me feel better even though he will not be getting them.....

LOL girl! that's funny..you are filled wit excitement! do ya thing! i might do the same thing too!

Hey girls...he just called me, we only talked for 4 min:( and he still hasn't heard from his lawyer. But he said something about them moving him upstairs or something like that, who knows what that means....I will talk to him once more on Sunday before he goes to court on Monday. Ya'll I'm gonna need you to help me thru the day for reals on Monday, it's the moment of truth. I will have to go thru the WHOLE day wondering what's going on, why does Hawaii have to be hours behind us....I will be off work by the time he is thru with court, then I don't know how long it will be before he calls. I HATE NOT KNOWING FOR SURE!!!! IT'S KILLIN' ME!!!

Okay, girlie!!! Is it okay if I visit your thread and do the cabbage patch for ya???? ok.... :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: heeeeeeeeeyy!!!!! hoooooooooooo!!!!
okay, girl...try to stay calm...try to think about other things....ok, I know that is probably impossible right now...but the best thing to do is just PRAY....
....and I'll pray for you too!!!!
He's almost home sweetie!!!! :D

3 days...3 days...3 days....3 days...3 days...3 days...

Wtg4MikeP Thanks you can do the cabbage patch in my thread anytime ya like. Yea it's impossible NOT to think about it believe me I am praying, I called all my girls last night and they are praying to or meditating (ya know the kinds we have here in LaLa land) but I was like what ever you need to do, say an ooommmmmm for my man, it's all good, I take whatever I can get....I'm just trying to stay focused, keeping the bad thought out....Let God control what that Judge will do on Monday!!!

3 days...3 days...3 days...3 days...3 days....hey 3 is my favorite number but with this countdown I think 1 will have to be my favorite for now....

Just 3 more days chick!!!!! Wow, you're gettin' REALLY close now!!!!!!!! I'm happy for ya, he's gonna be in your arms SOOOOOOO SOON!!!!!! Try to stay calm chicky... I know, it's much easier said then done at this point.... but TRY :D !!!!!!! We're just getting all our mens home one by one.... this is a HAPPY feeling!!!! :D I'm a do a little dance for ya.... :dance: :dance: :fb: :fb: :dance: :dance: :dance: :yay: :yay: :yay: :fb: :fb: :dance: :dance: Just get through the weekend and that man will be home with ya!!!!!! WooooooooooHoooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!

You know, I'm here at work, trying just to work and not think about it but I keep f*&kin' up on my work....I just did a letter and when it asked me to save I thought I hit yes but I hit no but didn't realize it until after I started to print out the letter and then realized I had the letterhead going into the printer the wrong way, so I open up the letter to reprint it and all the changes I made weren't there because I didn't save it right....my mind just isn't working right at all......3 days....please go fast, I don't want to do something really stupid!!!

Sweetie, it's just all the excitement of that man coming home and the fact that it's friday and we all need a damn break from work!!!!! Take a deep breathe and try to collect your thoughts. Stay calm and just remember that all you really have to do is get through the day because the weekend should be a piece of cake.... just clean and get everything ready for that man to come on home to ya!!!!!!!! It'll zip right by, for sure!!!!!! Keep your head up and just try to keep yourself busy so you don't freak out!!!! :D Much love and hugs sweetie!!! :p :D ;) :) :thumbsup: You'll be fine hon, I know it!!!

Well I just took a walk around the block to clear my head...it helped a little, I came back and found other mistakes I made earlier in the day...my attorney (my boss) has been a jerk lately and I don't need him to see that I'm makin' so many mistakes, luckily I'm catchin' um....I will be at work on Monday Tears...I can't stand to sit at home waiting for word from him so I figured it was best to come into work, but I'm kinda rethinking that....Pat won't be into town until either real late Monday night or early Tuesday...depends on how fast BOP processes him, and girl he IS NOT coming to my house...thank goodness for that, but it's already as clean as it's gonna get for now. I'm gonna spend all day baking because that's what relaxes me....I'm gonna make all my friends fat in the process....

3 DAYS GIRLL!!!!

I just had a fun lunch with my peeps here at work, bunch of youngins' talkin' bout their drama (what they think is drama) got my mind right off things....I'm doin' alright girls, I will be ok, I know keep busy, let me get back to work then.

CONGRATS CHICK!!!!!!!!!! He's home, he's home!!!!!! :D :p I hope you're having a blast with your love!!!!!!! Take care and make sure to keep us posted on what's goin' on with you and your honey!!!!!! Much love and hugs sweetie!!!!! :D :) :p ;) :thumbsup:

Congrats,
Even though these next 25 days are probaly going to be the longest 25 days for you, just keep in mind your pot of gold is only a arms lenght away.
EVERY DAY AWAY IS ONE DAY CLOSER..........

:( :( he's not home...I posted a new thread about the what if, so you can read there so I don't post the same story twice....thanks for counting with me girls, you really helped those days pass fast...I'm a little numb right now...I wish I was with him right now like I was supposed to be....:( :( :(