This has been such an eye opener for me.
My story is quite long but my boyfriend has been sent to jail for incest of 2 of his 3 daughters.
Very complicated story of false allegations that he cannot prove. He believes his wife has set him up to keep him out of their lives forever. He could have pleaded guilty & got off in 1yr. Now he has 4yrs, don't know how many to serve. His brothers are hurting too.
What happens when I & his brothers & other family believe he is innocent, he still has been branded. Is there any hope for us is the long run or should I just put it down to experience? I am 50 & divorced he is 43.
I am in victoria & he is in Brisbane ( Wolston). We continue to write & I see him when I can. My friends up there have been very supportive.
I'm trying to find a group in qld called cafsa inc. any ideas?
regards
Sandy

Hi Sandy, and first off welcome to PTO ((hugs))

I will try and get the information to you on CAFSA, and post it in here.
Your story is extremely sad, but one unfortunetly you hear alot. My heart truly goes out to you. Has he tried to appeal his sentence? If he has been sentenced to 4 years, he should get a sentence reduction soon. The do this, normally in the first week or so though of being in prison. You go in front of a sentencing board, and they reduce your sentence, as a incentive to stay on track, if he breaks any of the prison rules, this gets reviewed.
Always believe in him, and his innocence. It doesnt matter what other people think, its what is in your heart that matters the most. Also, become an active PTO member, you will certainly find all the support you ever need here, through the good times and the bad, we are all here for you.
Also, I suggest you check out the sex offender forum.... you will be surprised how many ladies are in the same situation that you are in.
I am so happy that you found PTO (((hugs)))

Cannot give you any information you wanted, sorry, but I wanted to welcome you to PTO. Its a wonderful place full of kind, generous and knowledgeable people who will do their utmost to help and support you when they can.

I am sorry about the situation your boyfriend is in! Its awful how frequently we hear of similar cases.

HI Sandy and Welcome to PTO!

I'm the Moderator of the Loving A Sex Offender Forum. If you will check out the forum, you'll find you are not alone. There are many members here who have a loved one falsely accused - some in very similar situations. Its NOT going to be easy to support your husband, especially due to his conviction, but you will find friends and supporters to help you thru this.

mrsd