Well I really need to vent.

My Husband has been home for 5 months now!
Well Since then his brother has been sent back on PV's twice. And every time he calls on us to help him out. I am so tired of it. On top of that he has a 14 year old daughter with a whole lot of issues. Her punk a** Mamma took off and left her in the city to fend for her self. She was staying with my mother in law. But she has such a smart and nasty mouth that we now have her.

I am so stressed; it’s so hard because my husband and I really want to beat her but. But we also know that she has been through a lot. Mental and I’m positive physical and sexual abuse.

Shes sexually active and gave us a scare that she might be pregnant.
Shes not and now Im taking her to the clinic to get on birth control. :eek: Wich I don’t really want too. Because she shouldn’t be out there like that. But on the other hand she is going to do it regardless of how we fell or what we say.


She needs a lot of counseling. We are in no way ready to take on the responsibility for this troubled teenager. We have are own children to deal with.
His mother and brother are just really taking it a little too far. It’s hard because what do we do. His Mother is with a crack head pervert. They have people in out of the house and my neice is all up in the mix with her fast butt.
Our kids are acting up because they are seeing her acting out.
My Husband said that this would be the last time we do all of this stuff for his brother.

Its one thing to be there for your family. But where do we draw the line.
They just don’t realize how much they are stressing our relationship and our family time. I think the big thing is his brother acting like we owe him.
Hes got me and my Husband running up and down the freeway all up in his personal affairs with his "women". And not once has he said thanks. Or even concidered that my husband wasn’t getting any sleep for a whole week. He works Grave yard.
Anyway that’s where were at right now.
Im fine with my Husband its just that his family has a lot of damn drama and they always run to us to fix it. Its exhuting. Im so glad that my side of the family doesn’t have this kind of drama. Because I think I would go crazy.

Oh ya and we might be pregnant I’m going to take a test next week!
Thanks for letting me vent this real life drama.
Blessings

Ram

When you started talkin about your niece, my first thought was how long until your children start acting like her. I feel for you. You are stuck in a bad situation that is not of your own doing.

Good luck on the pregnancy test!

Thanks Fly,
My girls have a lot more sense then that. There 9 & 10. The 10 year old has been coyping little things my niece says and she has been getting in trouble about it too.

Counseling and fast seems like the way to go. She (niece) sounds like she also needs alot of structure. If she is too much to handle, call child services. I wish you well. This is a tough situation.

Ram I feel you honey!! My husbands family is THE same way! Always run to him for help. Unfortuantely my family isn't much better. So we are always the one everyone calls when they need something. Like we don't have things going on in our life as well right??

I do hope things get better for you though. I will send prayers your way for your neice. Sounds like she needs some help and attention. Good luck with her and definetly good luck with the test!!! That could be another boat the two of us will be in together!!

Much love
Salena

Thanks Salena,

I just got back from taking her to the clinic. She is a trip.She came to work with me today before we went to the appoitment. She realy needs ballance, structure, understanding, and lots of love.
Still dont know what we are going to do though.
Thanks everyone for leting me vent it fells good to get it out. When me and my Husband talk it some times fells like thats all Im doing is complaning about his family.
I guess I am and I dont want to push him away either, cause that is his family.
Blessings all