hey ladies, how r u ? i know i havent posted in a but but ive been trying everything to save this relationship but not even a miracle would help

he only got worse..i get no time, he doesnt want to see me, calls me every name in the book, fights with me nonstop, takes such advantage of me, doesnt listen doesnt want to be bothered

this is not the man i have known since ive been a child this is someone i dont even know..he was unbelivable when he first got out but a few days pass and he turned into this man who has not one bit of respect for me

eveyone see's what a horrible person he has become, why ? noone knows, but ive been trying everything to make it work crying praying, he wants nothing..nothing with me

so i decided to end it, it hurts ladies..its so painfull..i cry and cry..i feel so weak..but i had to walk away..i had too..

i realized he just doesnt want me..it hurt..because he was the one ALWAYS pursuing me and now its over

i dont know how to move on, im takin it minute by minute,day by day..i just never in a millin years imagined me and him breaking up like this..i saw forever with this man..

I'm so sorry that things didn't work out as you had hoped. Ending a relationship is always painful especially when you had such high hopes. I know that at this moment it might not feel like it but I do believe that things happen for a reason. The problem with this theory is when we are going through it we are blinded to the reason. It is only once we have moved on to happier more productive times that we gain the introspection needed to see why we had to go through what we had to go through.

Wherever your path leads please know that you are not alone. We are here for you. I wish you many happy tomorrows...

Best of luck to you,
Patty

I am so sorry that you are going through this, and it is even harder that it all seems so inexplicable... take care of yourself and remember the pain WILL pass... we are here.

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i too am really sorry, he turned so nasty....

i think you are stong to walk away, not weak...

it is hard to leave a relationship that you thought would be forever, and out of know where the other becomes someone you do not like, nor even know....

it hurts to let go of the dream with him...i know..

but, that dream will be with someone who loves you good...
he sounds like he is using drugs or something..

a much better path will open for you!!!
you can pm me anytime!!!
much peace and love to you
francis

i am so sorry this has happened to you. you did the right thing by ending it. cause by the sounds of it, it wasn't going to get better only worse. he didnt deserve you anyway!! it's his lost. you deserve someone who's gonna love a respect you. i just dont understand how a person could be so cruel to someone who's been there for them. i know this hurts but try to move on with your life, cause he's not worth your tears!! good luck to you. keep your head held high.

I am sorry you have to go through this after the time you stood by his side!!! Just keep your head up you sound like a very strong lady in my eyes!!! Just remember that everyone here at PTO will help you when ever you need it!!!

I am so sorry you are going thru this! you know what is best and you know what you need to do to let your heart heal. many prayers for peace comin' your way sweetie. :( -Aimee

You are a very strong person. You did everything you could to save the relationship and it didnt work. The appopriate thing was to end it and you did. I wish you the best. I hope you will still hang out with all of us.

Your story is something I fear. We were married and divorced before he went in. What if he comes out a horrible person. I pray each night.

The Lord has something so much better in store for you. You just wait and see.

ONE

i am so sorry you are going throught this and we will be here to help you

im sorry girly. its his loss. hang in and keep your chin up

I'm so sorry.You are not weak at all, it is a strong woman that walks away when she isn't getting the respect she deserves.
Hang in there honey HUGS

Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. All the postings above said it all. You are a strong person to move on when you hurt so much, but you have to do what will help you survive. I also think it sounds like he is doing something (maybe drugs) and his vision is clouded. Sounds like you have gone the extra distance, and it is his loss. Good luck to you.

I feel your pain and I am so sorry you are having to endure this.

I feel there are many of us out here who have this fear after standing by our loved ones while incarcerated and have them to come home and turn into someone we have never met before and poof the relationship as it once was is gone.

Just keep on keeping on, taking one minute at a time if you have to and let time pass.

Remember PTO is here for you. My very best to you.

I am sorry you are going through this. Everyone has said all the words out of my mouth so won't repeat. Just remember some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers.

Good luck to you

oh honey, I'm so sorry, I cannot imagine what you must be going through.
We're all here for you and you'll be in our thoughts and prayers ... Stay strong, you'll pull through.

Ohh sweetie, I'm so sorry!!! :( I too, think you are strong, definitely not weak! And you will get through this. You know we got you!! PM me anytime too. I'm praying for you!

Honey, I am so sorry to hear that! I can't believe he's been that way. You're right though, you had to walk. Just take it as it comes, you'll pull through somehow. We'll be here to help you through this one, girl.

Schnuckums:

I am really sorry to hear what you are going thru. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time of your life. You are a strong woman and I give you a lot of credit for walking away. You deserve to be treated like a queen and be given all the respect in the world from your man, and I am glad to see you are not "settling." It can be hard to end a relationship, especially with a man you are in love with, but through it all, always remember.... THERE IS A BRIGHTER DAY AHEAD!

:grouphug: ::hugs:: Marie