:new: I know all y'all know about my drama.
Well I got GREAT NEWS this afternoon:yay: :yay: :yay: :beer: :beer:
I spoke to SCARY's lawyer. First of all I called him last week to find out when his new court date is for the simple assault with his ex-fling. I told the secretary I can't deal with having to deal with this BI**H in our life anymore. And the only reason we are is because of this upcoming court date.

WELL...He fianlly called me back today!!!!

His end of the case was thrown out, for lack of evidence.

She on the other hand is facing simple assault charges, and I saw the police report....put it this way, she don't have much of a defense. An off duty cop called 911 after witnessing her beating him in the face. But you know what SHE is no longer my problem~~~~AND SHE WILL BE OUT OF MY LIFE!!!!!
Love you guys :thumbsup: for all your love and support!!!!

Great news!! I'm happy to hear it.

That's great news, now she doesn't have anything to use against your man so now you can tell her where she can go....back to H e double hockey sticks. I'm so excited for you, now you guys can move on without worry and without the drama, lets hope the judge throws the book at her!!!

Good news :)

It is GREAT NEWS!

I thought him coming home early was good!
Well, it was, but we knew we still had to face this bull**it, now we are free to be....
And if she wants to still persue the nonsense....
Then it's her A**!
and she has nothing to bite us back with!
I feel like someone has uncuffed me.
And for the 1st time in A LOOOOOONG time, my man was able to relax and sleep good last night.
He actually said to me, "well, what we do now?" We are so used to having drama that we don't know what to do with ourselves~no drug addiction, no cheating issues, no loser friends leaching off of us, no major court dates, legal issues, or him facing jail time.
And in between all of that we had a pregnancy, bought and gutted a house, remodeled it and then sold it, we are not moving again anytime soon....so the biggest thing we have coming up is buying a new truck after the holidays... Our life went from a tornado of craziness~to boring....But I'd take boring any day of the week....

oh sweetie!!! that is awesome! so is she gonna get put away? how did last night go? fill me in girly :p ~ash

Congratulations and yes I believe I would settle for boring anyday compared to what you all have been thru lately. Dont let her sneak up on you all. Jut remember calm before the storm. (not to try and ruin your happiness but just beware).

Have a great BORING weekend!

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oh sweetie!!! that is awesome! so is she gonna get put away? how did last night go? fill me in girly :p ~ash

Last night went good. Our kids gave us like 3 seconds alone with each other, but that's OK. He was happy about his case being thrown out.And I was the one who got to tell him the good news.
She was not brought up hardly at all last night...A weird thing happened though...someone called with the wrong # and the caller id read a number that was her's exactly except for 1 digit....I told him this is God trying to test my patience.
Believe me it was so hard! not to talk about her, b/c of her involvement with the case. And in the back of my mind I find it hard to believe that he didn't call her to tell her his end was thrown out. But I didn't even ask.Girl I was grittin my teeth and clenching my fist. He was in a weird mood last night, and I thought it had something to do with her, but again I didn't ask. This morning I asked him if he was in a better mood, he said yeah, that last night had nothing to do with me, it's just that it's weird adjusting to the reality that everything's gonna work out legally, emotionally, and physically. He hasn't had that in a long time, and he's almost afraid to be happy about it yet....
He's trying to keep a positive mind and I'm gonna try my hardest to go with the flow, but the trust factor is something that needs to be rebuilt.

As far as she goes...I wish they'd ship her cross country...but no such luck. She has no prior arrests...so they ain't gonna hit her hard at all. My hopes is that they at least keep the charge on her record, no matter what the sentencing is for it, b/c with her job, she needs to have a 100% clear record....LOOKS LIKE NO MORE STEALING THE PILLS FROM THE PHARMACY NOW BIT**!!!!
Thanks for looking out for me ladies!

I am so happy for you guys. Now you can move on and be happy. The both of you need to sit back and relax. Find a babysitter and the two of you just stay home and have a romantic night.

Let God handle her...he will make sure she gets what she needs.

Salena

Good to hear. Good luck!