Hi everyone,

I have not been able to participate in this forum for awhile but beleive me my heart is with ll the fmilies and inmates at the USDB. It was 20 years ago today that I walked out SOUTH GATE, and have never been back as an inmate. i was back in 1988 and 1993 to speak to the inmates and to celebrate the 7th Step Foundation Inc. 25 and 30 anniverery. Parents and spouses, never give up on the person you are waiting and worrying about. Someday this will be behind you all and life wil be good again. When they get out be supportive, but not enabling, be understanding and patience.

I know it maybe hard for some of you but I hope you all have a great holiday and your loved ones come home soon. I any would like feel free to contact me and I will try to respond as soon as possible.

Peace & Love

Jerry Lehmiller USDB #55952:)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I will never give up waiting for my man. Spending the rest of my life with him is what I live for. I am sure you were an inspiration to the inmates you spoke to.

BigLee, thank you for your caring thoughts and support. Because you have been where our loved ones are, you know how much those of us on the outside are needed. Yes, it's hard to even think of this season as one of joy when so much is missing and every action feels forced and empty. But, I know the future will be better and can't wait for the day when I spend it with my ENTIRE family, including my son. Thank you, also, for going back and being a part of the programs that offer guidance and support to inmates. Your input here is invaluable. Have a safe, healthy and happy holiday.

Lisa.

Thank you and congratulations for not being a statistic and returning. May God continue to bless you.

ONE

God Bless You and Happy Holidays
I will stick by my son even if no one else will, its just so dam sad,Thankyou,

If I can be off assistance to any of you that have loved ones in the DB please fdon't hesitate to contact me. I spent the first 30 years of my life being a taker, I woud like to spend the remaining years of my life being a giver. The harderst time for my mother when I was locked up was Christmas. I remember hearing the pain in her voice when I called, and experienced the love in her letters and cards. There is nothing stronger then a mothers love.

Please have a good Holiday inspite of your situation. My prayer will be with you all.
Peace and Love

Lee - you definitely are NOT a statistic and for that, I commend you. You are here to show that the odds can be overcome if the person is determined. Thank you for being here and showing support.

Pam

Lee - you definitely are NOT a statistic and for that, I commend you. You are here to show that the odds can be overcome if the person is determined. Thank you for being here and showing support.

Pam
Pam thank you for your kind works. I try to live my life as an examle for other to follow, this time in a positive way. When I ws paroled in 1984, Lloyd parkinson the Director of the 7th Step Program at the time told me something that I never forgotten. He said my staying out on prole in not only important for me, but it is very important to all then men & women that I am leaving behind. Because how I do on parole and in live from here on out cpould determine if they will get a chance to experience parole as well. That has always be big motivating factor in my success. If there is anything I can say or do to hel please feel free to contact me. I am very greatful for my mother who always supported me, right or wrong she was there. Never give up hope, because that is the only thing that keep me going was the hope that someday I would get out of there, and I did.

Peace & Love

Lee