I tried to call him yesterday, to wish him A happy thaksgiving. He picked up the cell phone and hung it right back up. I can take A hint ya know, but it would've been nice to just hear him say he didn't want to be with me anymore! I'm absolutely devistated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:cry: :cry: :cry: I just can't believe he did this to me. It just doesn't seem like him at all, but after only 4 months in could prison really have changed him?! :shrug: My heart is broken!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

J

What a !@#$%^&*( jerk! I'm sorry to hear he did that to you. You deserve better. Hang in there.

I'm sorry you had that heart breaking experience. Could he have possibly met someone else that he is now involved with? That's what it sounds like to me, and if that is the case, he should be polite and tell you. Men can be such dogs!

Don't take anymore crap from him. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to have someone in your life that puts YOU above everyone else. God wants this for you, and HE will make it happen, in HIS time. In the meantime, hold on to the promises of God.

I'm saying a special prayer for you.

In Christian Love.....Pipkin


(sometimes I just hate men! )

<<huggs>>> im so sorry you are going through this.. i wish you the best.

I am so sorry you are going through this. It is horrible. ********************{hugs for you}}}}}}}}}}

((hugs)) I am so sorry he's being suck a dorkus melorkus !!! UGH!

Hang in there. Everything happens for a reason. There are brighter days around the corner.

I'm sorry your going through this.And if he did meet someone , who knows how long they will stick around.,If he starts calling and wanting to talk to you in the future, just tell him ..Excuse me I dont have the time right now.And see how he likes it..What an ARSE!!!!:angry:

ugh, what an idiot!

This is terrible. Why all this? It just irks me when a grown man can't come right out and state the case.

I'm sorry he is being such an a$$ , You really are better off without someone like that..

You made the effort you are the bigger person. I 'm sorry that this is turning out this way. Pick yourself up dust yourself out and prepare for bigger and better things. You deserve it!! If you ever want to chat I'm only a PM away...

Hugggz,
Patty

How RUDE and immature of him.

I would just hold your head up and move on. He is not worthy of another minute of your time.

Sorry you had to experience this. As HotlatinaMILF4u said- you made the effort and you ARE the bigger person!

:grouphug:

How long were you together before he went in? Four months does not seem like such a long time that he would forget how to treat people. There is no excuse for rudeness. Good luck to you!

Hey honey! I am so sorry to hear that he is treating you this way after you stuck by him during a hard time in his life. You diffently deserve better than that. I can't imagine why he would treat you like this after what you've done for him but remember... he needs you, you don't need him. When he comes back tryin to talk to you tell him not to let the door hit him where the good lord split him. Stick in there everythings gonna be alright. Keep your head up boo....

love christina:grouphug:

Thanks ladies for all of your words of encouragement! Like I said in my post, I can take A hint. I just would've perfered him to actually tell me he doesn't want to continue the relationship!!!!!! I wish it would have ended on A better note, but it seems that he doesn't have the guts!!!!!! The only truely sad part of the end of all this is that I know longer have A reason to be here at these boards with all of you!:( Thank you again for everything, good luck to all of you. I hope you get everything you've hoped for out of your relationships!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

J

Hi mamaJ, Please don't feel as though you have to leave. You may be able to help others through similar things you have been through....or perhaps you could start writing to a pen pal...

I agree with KEZCAT, please don't feel like you have to leave b/c things did not workout with you two. You never know what impact you may have on others just by sharing your thoughts and experience!

"I can take a hint"

I loose connection on my cellie all the time so it has to be more going on than one phone call. I would have called back again... and again. Make it plain... you know what i'm saying. If not, I'd leave a voice mail message suming up my feelings and then tell him to be blessed. I know it throws me off balance when things don't go the way i want them too, but you will get yours (and he his) if you continue to have love in your heart for YOURSELF and others.

Im so sorry.......((((HUGS))))

im sorry ur goin thru this..my mans been locked up 2 yrs..nd hes totally changed..i kno wut ur goin thru..belive mee...he doesnt wanna talk to me much eaither..PM ME IF U NEED ME..WE CAN TALK BOUT THIS..

Hang in there, things will get better. You seem like a nice person and it will work out somehow. So, don't feel so sad, alright? Pm me anytime you feel like talking. I'm only logged on here about twice a week but I will get right back to you.
Love, Sheila :(

Hang in there, things will get better. You seem like a nice person and it will work out somehow. So, don't feel so sad, alright? Pm me anytime you feel like talking. I'm only logged on here about twice a week but I will get right back to you.
Love, Sheila :(
Thanks so much for the kind words. Wish I could say it all worked out, but it's totally over. We haven't spoken in A month, but it was for the best! Any man who can't allow someone the validity of her own emotions isn't one I want to be with!!!!!!!! Thanks again to everyone here!!!!!
J

Thanks so much for the kind words. Wish I could say it all worked out, but it's totally over. We haven't spoken in A month, but it was for the best! Any man who can't allow someone the validity of her own emotions isn't one I want to be with!!!!!!!! Thanks again to everyone here!!!!!
J
MamaJ - but you're still willing to hang with us ? #looks hopeful#

F

I have a few guys I have been trying to get pen pals for.... How about it?