Well ladies the time grows close 2 months 20 days left. I'm so nervus we have never beeen together yet I hope he likes me after the fact. I'm so much older than he is. he is used to dating younger not older. I hope I can hold a candle to these yopung pretty women. wish me luck

I wish you the best of luck
I have never been with my loved one on the out side so I totally understand your FEAR I recently married him at the Aspen Unit here in phoenix we have been together pretty much 12 years on and off
he has been locked up 13 we started as pen pals and we are now husband and wife

you need soem one to talk to pm me
what part of az are you in??
hugs
ruth

I can relate to your fear. I have never been with MyGuy although we lived together as "friends" for a year before he went to jail ... we've been best friends for over 5 yrs ... but when he comes home .. just about the same time you refer to.... about 65 days ... we've made the committement to each other...it's our time.

I know he cares about me .. I know I've always loved him... I just know I have to take it one day at a time .... no one knows the future ... all we know is our heart.

I wish you the Best of Luck ;)

Being in love is about accepting the person for who they are,,, you have to have faith in your feelings and in his to know that there is nothing to fear and much to enjoy with his release....
Love is somehting special that is hard to find .. when you have it then it all fits right...
Believe in each other and all will be well

Just keep your fatith up and know that it's u he wants not some young chick, mine is similar my guy and i were friends for a year and then i becmae more to him while he was there, see my profile in Az, any how I am 10 yrs older too and he gets out in May and I am just as worried that he'll feel the smae way after he sees all the cute girls out there so i can surly feel for you, any how pm if you want and we can talk more. thans Debi

HE LOVES YOU!! BE HAPPY AND ENJOY HAVING HIM HOME!!:)

I know exactly how you feel, I am 10 years older and we have never been together on the outside. However, my situation is a little different as we were able to spend time together while he is incarcerated as I worked there for awhile, but living together is another thing entirely. He had to grow up very young, due to the situations he was faced with so he feels much older than he is and usually dated older women. Everything will work our for you, I'm sure, but it is normal to feel the way you do. My suggestion is to talk, talk, and talk some more about your doubts and that will help clear the way.

Offenderlover

im scared also i knew my future husband for just a short time when he got locked up we found each other years later through letters.......i was a teeny tiny blonde when i knew him on the outside............ive been to see him and we are getting married i have gained weight due to two major surgeries but he says he loves me anyways i fear that he will want someone younger and thinner when he gets out.........i know its just me we females need to remember these men will always remember what we have done for them letters calls money support everything if we stand by them when they are most needy they will always remember that my man will be home in 180 days it seems a lifetime away but its really not i know he will never leave me......im being foolish but sometimes i cant help worry.......i wish everyone the best of luck..........enjoy the time u have with your man when hes home...............i am.........