MyLife1020592
01-15-2003, 09:13 PM
Hi all. Well I went to the hearing oday. I have never in my life met such rude people. Needless to say that Craig is in there for a DWI and one of the parole ladies that was there is mother against drunk driving. She already had it in for him.
Craigs mother was killed by a drunk driver when he was 7 years old. She threw that in face and kept talking about it for about 15 minutes. He has always had a har time dealing with that because he seen the whole accident. He remined realy calm and I was very proud of him.
I am his home plan. 5 years ago I had a domestic violenc charge againt him. I moved out and we went our seperate ways. I had seen a big change in him and that is when we got back together. She told us that they may not approve me as his home plan since he had that charge. The further asked if we had any kids and we said yes 1. She said that if they did approve the home plan that we would I have to go to counsling. We have no problem with that. Then she said that she doubts they will. I can't believe that they would deny his home plan with us being that we are getting married and have a child. I would think that they would want him to remain living with me and our child. I thought that they were really big on the family thing.
They asked me about the assault and I was very honest. I told them that he was abusive 5 years ago but he has made a tremendious change in his life. They asked for my comments and all I really said was that he has done a lot for his sobriety by admitting himself into 2 treatments.
I am not sure if I said anything wrong or not. I talked from my heart. I guess what I am wanting opinons on is if anyone here thinks that they will not approve me for his home plan giving all of our circumstances. I just cannot see them taking him away from me and our son.
Thanks,
Jamie
Craigs mother was killed by a drunk driver when he was 7 years old. She threw that in face and kept talking about it for about 15 minutes. He has always had a har time dealing with that because he seen the whole accident. He remined realy calm and I was very proud of him.
I am his home plan. 5 years ago I had a domestic violenc charge againt him. I moved out and we went our seperate ways. I had seen a big change in him and that is when we got back together. She told us that they may not approve me as his home plan since he had that charge. The further asked if we had any kids and we said yes 1. She said that if they did approve the home plan that we would I have to go to counsling. We have no problem with that. Then she said that she doubts they will. I can't believe that they would deny his home plan with us being that we are getting married and have a child. I would think that they would want him to remain living with me and our child. I thought that they were really big on the family thing.
They asked me about the assault and I was very honest. I told them that he was abusive 5 years ago but he has made a tremendious change in his life. They asked for my comments and all I really said was that he has done a lot for his sobriety by admitting himself into 2 treatments.
I am not sure if I said anything wrong or not. I talked from my heart. I guess what I am wanting opinons on is if anyone here thinks that they will not approve me for his home plan giving all of our circumstances. I just cannot see them taking him away from me and our son.
Thanks,
Jamie