On Sept 26, 2004 my boyfriend of 8 1/2 years was sentenced to 4yrs 4 months. Before I had a chance to visit him once more in Sac county main jail they shipped him to RCCC...then before the scheduled Saturday visit they moved him to DVI in Tracy.
I've spent a lot of time over the last couple of weeks reading through this web site and absorbing a lot of information. You guys are lifesavers!! I'd hate to think of how frustrated I'd be by now with no clue of what was going on or what I could do for him. He's been there for 3 weeks now and I've gotten a couple of letters from him...He's hoping to get sent to New Folsom or Mule Creek. It seems to me like they go out of their way to send you somewhere as invonvenient as possible, so I told him to request Centinela and maybe through a little reverse psychology......who knows.
The one thing I do know is that I won't see his face again until he's released. Considering we were 2 of 4 co-defendants, I now have a recent felony conviction, I am on Formal Probation and also attempting to complete 60 days of Sheriff's Work Project. I think that meets almost all of their possible reasons to deny visits.

What I want to know is if it is possible for us to get married under those circumstances and if we were able to could they still deny me visits??

I remember reading some messages from other women in and around Sac w/their men in or just out of DVI....if you guys are still out there and ever actually get together for that cup of coffee let me know...

Thanks again to everyone!!

jennifermarie

Welcome to PTO Jennifermarie,I'm glad you found us,Your going to love it here!

welcome! glad you found PTO but sorry about your predicament what a difficult situation. But you are not alone you have much support here at PTO!
Truly Patty :grouphug:

Welcome to PTO :)
Myself and another member in the area have been discussing coffee but so far our schedules haven't permitted! One of these days......

hi welcome to PTO.. glad your here . =)

Hey there Jennifer, like Valerie said, 'you are going to love it here' I have been on this site for a few months now and don't let a day go by without checking in. So much information, and so many great people who are willing to share what they know. Oh and by the way, I am in Sacramento too, so keep me in mind for that cup of coffee.

I am so sorry that you might not be able to visit your hunny, but I am in Sac to , if you ever want to talk, just pm me, I'm always here, and welcome to Pto.......any kind of support you need you will find it here ....

Welcome to pto Jennifermarie :wave: pto's great! It provides alot of support and usefull information. Yeah, me and calisunshine have discussed having coffee because I too am from Sacramento. pm me if you or the other member in post from sac's interested in hooking up. take care and again welcome....Tori

Any news on meeting for coffee?

Hey Valivee just pm me when you want to hook up for coffee. "k" Tori :)

Hi Everyone,

My sweetie Marty was at RCCC and transferred to DVI on July 12. Can you believe he is still there? Anyways, says it looks like he will be sent to Avenal, on the transfer list but no date yet. I kinda wanted him to go somewhere closer, but of course seems to never work that way. I got approved for visitation the week before Labor Day and have been visiting once every weekend. I have to admit this site has been a lifesaver to me, if it wasn't for all the wonderful peopel on here sharing their feelings, frustrations, their everything I would have gone insane. I have really good days and then really bad days, but all I have to do is log on here and I feel better. It's good to know that all these feelings are normal. Today was one of those good days, I was able to make an appt to visit on Saturday after dialing non-stop for 1 1/2 hours, and I got 2 letters from my baby. I wish everyone else a day like this one and many more. As far as coffee or brunch or anything, we should all just pick a day and a location and just show up.....meet like at the Tower Cafe or something.....