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hopeless55
09-23-2004, 03:35 PM
If I have to do one more load of laundry I am gonna scream. One more carpet to vacuum and I am gonna throw the vacuum out the window, can't vacuum if you got no vacuum (hope I'm sane enough to open the window first, those are those damn tripple payne pieces of gold), . If I have to go to the store one more time because I ran out of spray and wash or food or something and find that the one thing THE ONE THING I need is not there. well it could get ugly.
If I have to spend one more day without you .........
I MISS MY BABY!

AEMS
09-23-2004, 03:40 PM
Hang in there...I know days like that suck, but it will get easier. Try to relax and do something you enjoy doing. Maybe write your sweetheart a letter. THat always makes me feel better. When you write her try to write positively and think of happy memories the two of you had and the future you will have together. By the time you finish the letter you will be feeling much better! Good luck and stay strong! Don't throw you vacuum out the window! LOL!

mygirlisinjail
09-23-2004, 04:00 PM
Hang in there, buddy. I get pretty frustrated too, sometimes. But like AEMS says, you gotta stay positive. I always write my girl a letter (or card or postcard) when I'm feeling like that. I'm just careful not to dump my frustrations into the letter. My girl is a really positive person and I know that she wouldn't appreciate my complaining. Also, I don’t want her to feel guilty or think that it’s her fault in any way that I’m feeling like that.

Yeah, I miss my baby too.

hopeless55
09-23-2004, 05:22 PM
I know I know but I am going into my anual burned out stage that happends 3 or 4 times every year I am gonna pick my hair out one by one.

rottn
09-23-2004, 06:17 PM
Your not alone. I don't know how many times I did something and just about cried, feeling like I was just so alone and this drove it home.

Tuco
09-23-2004, 06:18 PM
I can see you really do miss her hope55, and you're doing all the right things it seems to me, the house and kids's clothes are clean. You're standing strong and supportive. Its not always easy, but know it will be over someday soon.

dlyles
09-24-2004, 10:28 AM
I hear you mygirlsinjail. I don't burden my wife with the stress of having to do hair, cook, clean, pay bills, meet with teachers, VACUUM, etc...Sometimes the weight of doing everything when I was only doing 40% b4 is a lot. But I don't tell her, because she starts to feel guilty. I told her that one of her best friends hasn't been there for me, the kids and more importantly my daughter (who could use a female role model) and she was mad at me for bringing it up. She said she can't do anything about it and I need to gripe to someone else. At first I didn't get it and got mad, but she explained that not only can she do nothing about it, but her friens not living up to there word is worst. BTW, I've since spoken to her friend and she's definately starting helping out as best she could and I made it a point to tell wifey.

hopeless55
09-24-2004, 11:45 AM
dyles my prayers to you I have a daughter who so needs a woman in her life I see it and it hurts for both of us. I get small amounts of help from CHurch but that 10 yr old needs a full time mother. My Love has the same frustration as your wife, and I do understand and thankfully so do you.
Peace