I Have A B Oybriend In Prison. I've Been Noticeing A Differents In Him. I Asked Him He Got So Mad And Told Me No.i Saw The Scar On His Arm At Visit. It Was Very Freash And He Still Said No I;m Not On Drugs. He Is Using Heroni. He Is Shooting It Up. His Friend Told Me That He Is Doing It Alday Everyday.he Just Won't Admit It To Me. I Don't Know What To Do. He Needs Help Right Away. But He Won't Tell Me. I Know Its Real Bad. He Even Od On It Two Weeks Ago. What Shell I Do.please Help Me.

don't send him any money!!!!

and, decide if you will stay with him if he is using?!

my heart goes out to you!!

some times addict don't get clean until they loose everything....unless, they die first..
this is really serious!!!
you both are in my hopes and prayers
francis

I agree with Francis!! Don't give him any money to buy it with.of course they only trade in items but he has to buy the items for the dealer.It is a serious matter.You need to decide if your love for him is strong enough to endure.If he is on the needle it will be even harder for him to quit.This is a deadly game he is playing.No one comes out the winner.I am so sorry this is happening to you! I will keep you in my prayers!

Cut off the funds.
C Mom

Defentitally cut off the funds!!!

Oh wow. My boyfriend is a herion user as well. I just asked him last week if he was able to get needles in prison and he said he has never come across them before, but he has come across herion. They only advice I can give you is to not give him money, and attending Nar-Anon meetings help as well.

Wow- like everyone else has said- don't send him any money.
That's the first thing.
And, you have to decide what YOU want to do. If he isn't even willing to admit that he is using, then he definitely isn't going to admit that he needs help- right now.
And he definitely needs help. This is something that HE needs to do for himself, and the only thing that you can do right now is take care of yourself. I hope that he realizes what he is doing to himself- but until he does, you can't force him. (no matter how much we wish we could!)
Stay strong and take care of yourself!!!

I agree with friend 22 dont sent him or anyone else any money expecially if it's by the 50's cause then your supporting his habbit. if he's really into it then he will deny it be care ful and i wish you lots of luck with him

wow i'm sorry to hear your b-f has choosen this road. i myself have been down this road with my hubby for several years now. he goes in and out of prison because of his heroin use and this last time he was shooting up so much before prison that i myself turned him in to save his life and then i turned my back on him for awhile. he had to dry out inside and it was horrible for him, but fortunately for me he has now seen the light and realized what he is missing in his 2yr old daughters life and has decided to stay clean and recover from his demons. it's a hard decision but it's one he will have to make on his own since he can get heroin inside he has to be ready to quit. i wish you the best and hopefully for his sake he realizes what he has. stay strong and if you ever need to chat email me...Tonya

Yep, ditto, no more money for him!!!

Don't give in to him, and don't listen to his denial girl. My husband is using and has a
habit that costs us so much money a month that it is causing so much unforgiveable
heartache. Don't put money on his books. Period. And don't send him stamps either.
They can use the stamps the same as money. And girl from my stand point it just isn't
worth it. Especially for him. When he paroles, get his azzz into a drug detox program
immediatley and N.A,. too. Suzi

If I were you, I'd start sending him recovery literature.

Go visit NA and AA meetings in your area...and get the free literature.

You can even contact the H&I Committees (Hospitals and Institutions) and ask how to go about getting Recovery Books into them (the Big Book of AA and the Steps and Traditions, The NA Basic Text, It works how and why, etc)

Just start sending him stuff. You're planting a seed.

I wouldn't send him money either. Why should you pay for his high. But you CAN help him by trying to support his recovery!

I am so sorry you are going thru this right now........like the others said, "No MO Money!!!!!"...
Save it for YOURSELF!!!.......He may try to sweet talk you into more, but be strong!!!!!!!! You can do it!!!!!.......You derserve so much better.....please find your self-respect and let him get his own money....

He has alot of horrible choices to make right now, and so do you....
Protect your heart, Hon, Because he sure isn't.

Take care, and PM me anytime....
S.
If I were you, I'd start sending him recovery literature.

Go visit NA and AA meetings in your area...and get the free literature.

You can even contact the H&I Committees (Hospitals and Institutions) and ask how to go about getting Recovery Books into them (the Big Book of AA and the Steps and Traditions, The NA Basic Text, It works how and why, etc)

Just start sending him stuff. You're planting a seed.

I wouldn't send him money either. Why should you pay for his high. But you CAN help him by trying to support his recovery! :thumbsup: