My baby doesn't have anymore phone minutes until the 1st of the month.:cry: Some of the times, a nice counselor or someone of power will let him make phone calls if they are important.
Because I can't physically show my baby my love for him, I make sure to make it extra creative when he gets mail. I know how much he looks forward to his mail, and in a way he kind of shows off (I got more mail than you did. haha I guess they really dont have anything else to do:( ). He always thanks me for sending him so much love (he usually gets 3-4 pieces of mail from me a day).
Anyway, my baby calls me sounding kinda upset telling me his counselors about pum him on mail restriction.:confused: I'm like, "why." He says "because of the hearts on the back of your envelopes.":heart: I always draw or cut out hearts and paste them to his envelopes, and since his 30th birthday is coming up mid August, I've been a card a day so he can have 30 cards by his 30th b-day:blush: (yeah Im in love). They always let them (the envelopes) in, but lately I've been using thicker paper, so I guess they (the guards) are getting cautious. No problem, I wont paste the hearts anymore.
But then he says, "they also said you sent a naked picture with you and some other dude!!":angry:

:mad: :hmm: :mad:Why would they say this? :mad: :hmm: :mad:

Now as it is I wont be able to speak to him until Sunday.:( And he's probably in there worried and paranoid, I mean that is a horrible thing to do to your boyfriend and prision.(sending him a picture with yourself and another man NAKED!!):eek:
And now I'm thinking, I know I didn't send the picture so who did?:confused: Either way the picture has to be sent back to the house. So I check the mail today, and its a picture of me standing by the TV with a shirt and a thong.:shrug: Maybe I shouldn't have sent the picture, but why blow it out of proportion!!

We have a lot in common! This September is my man's 30th birthday and I am sending him 30 cards as well. My man is also one of the ones who recieve's a lot of mail and a lot of the other inmates are jealous as well. As far as your situation goes, I dont know why they would say that. You know they like to blow things out of proporation just to put fear in their hearts. The people who work in prisons are very cold sometimes. I hope everything gets straightened out soon. I'm sure if he was upset about this picture of you and a man he would have said something, right?

That is rediculous!!!!! Once answer to why they would do this, BECAUSE THEY ARE A**HOLES!!!!!! I mean come one, what type of game are they playing.. I hate Co's and counselors who are freaking crazy.. Ok, let me calm down.. lol.. I hope this all gets straightened out between you and your man.. they are just trying to mess with your guys' relationship.. don't let them bring you down!!

you do have to be careful. I'm guessing he's in a federal prison (I'm waiting for my minutes too) ... you can't have anything pasted on ... I've been in this thing for 13 years. I know it's a pain in the ass but it happens. The CO's and the investigators will sometimes use those tactics if he is under investigation .. then they "reward" them with extra phone calls to call home and check on things. They try to get information like that. I know they have used some pretty low things on my husband ... he has spent as much as 7 months in the hole for not cooperating with their investigations .. they told him all sorts of crap.

Bottom line ...just wait it out. Over the years to come it will be like this as long as he can't be home to watch your every move. Just love him and be supportive.

what nasty tactics!

my husband had a counselor like that before, and they just do it for fun and to f*** with you
and him cause some of those CO's are just sleeze balls, it will be okay!!!