I was just sitting here thinking about yet another Holiday season upon us! It seems to take the most from me. I end up in depression, feeling alone and frustrated most times. It takes alot to get my butt in gear and start feeling the spirit of the season. I don't think I am alone....for us who face these hard times!

While writing, I find my self speaking of the sad feelings I have. But then realize I will not be helping my loved one with his own.

Lets share some ways to bring some smiles to others and most importantly to our loved ones locked away at this very trying time of the year.

I received a card yesterday....and inside they simply wrote

" That which challenges me the most, strengthens me!"

I found it to be a great quote....one that I pondered on all day!

I always adopt an angel. I pick some names off a christmas tree at the mall and buy presents for these children. I come for a large family and always look for 4-5 kids in one family and buy for them. I am blessed financially more than most and have no children. I am not very close to my family so this is usually the only christmas shopping I will do. This year I am doing christmas shopping for Amirs family. I have enjoyed shopping and have taken pictures of each of the things I bought and I am planning on sending them with pictures of my holiday decorations and some of the town lights. I try and make keep my mood light and festive for him, but it is hard. I am not really feeling festive this year.

Jana

Diane, I know exactly where you are coming from, I too find myself wanting to write of my feelings and realize that it will only make him sad. So I instead tell him of Christmas movies I am watching, presents I wrap for my family, the funny things my nephew is doing and by the end of the letter I am feeling alittle better about sending it to him. Especially when I get a letter back telling me that my letter takes him to another place. :)
Jana, what a wonderful thing you do, and the pictures of your decorations must be lovely. :)