:p Ok ladies I have a question how many of you get a sexy letter from your man I am talking about a down right nasty letter. About what he wants to do to you and how many times he wants to do you? I get some from my husband and I do answer him back in the very some nasty way. But when I go to visit I think what are the guards going to think of me my husband is in a camp but you know I really do not care because if there is something I love about my husband is the way he makes love to me and how we have some nasty sex to god I miss him so much. So let’s talk ladies I know we have some stories to tell.:clap:

I just got a very juicy to the max letter from him last week. He has the big imagination goin on write now, but do I mind? Heck No! The sexier the better.

my boyfriend write stuff .. but it isnt really nasty. its just so sweet and hot and yummy, lol ... my mind daydreams, and i forget that im reading the letter, so then i have to start all over!

you are telling me oh my god I got a letter from him about 3 weeks ago and I get goose bumps just thinking about it still. that man has a imagination and boys it works for me he was telling me I will write you one more letter like the one I wrote a few weeks ago but this time you have to promise me that we are going to do it when we have a family visit so you know I said YES please !!!

Steve will write me those very juicy letters PLUS since he is an artist on the outside he also puts together a little book with pictures of each thing he describes in the little book as well ... so I get pictures with my book :haha: and to think, I thought only kids had to look at the pictures ... I can look at the book without reading the letter to know instantly what he is saying but to put the letter with it WOW ... and yes I answer each one back just as vividly as he did but I can't draw a stick person without it being broken in half so he doesn't get the pictures with his :)

that is so cool I should have asked if you get pictures with your letters also. I am going to ask for pictures also.

Oh yes ! The pictures sound like an extreme added bonus.

My guy writes them for me but I usually get the giggles when Im trying to write something back. Never fails one of my kids will start to bug me about something and its kind of a mood killer!!! :)

MY MAN LIVES FOR THOSE LETTERS!!IM REALLY SELFISH THOUGH, FOR EVERY 1 I SEND HIM, HE SENDS ME 5. I JUST CANT GET INTO THAT FRAME OF THINKING;ITS REALLY HARD FOR ME AND I CAN NEVER SEEM TO MAKE MINE AS JUICY AS HIM.....HIS IMAGINATION IS INCREDIBLE:blush:

Lawd!!! I Get Them Sexy Letters All The Time. I Feed Right Into It. I Send Him Some Nasty Letters Too! Lol When I Go See Him, Its Dirty Talk All The Time. I Actually Enjoy The Letters

yes. i get altleast one a week from jeff, very explicit. he doesnt hold back. i also write him sexy letters, but they dont top his!!!!

I get AWESOME sexy letters from Michael; not really often, but it's so worth the wait. Ever since the first one, though, it seems like he tries to mail them so I get them on a workday. The first time he wrote one, I saved it till I could sit in the breakroom with a cup of coffee and read it. I was SO surprised when I started reading; my face turned neon-red, and I stuffed the letter into my pack---and if anyone didn't know what was in the letter at first, they sure did then! I write him back, but I'll NEVER be as good at it is he is; besides being a gifted writer, his imagination is awesome; he makes it seem to real. Then, of course, he teases me about uncontrollable "I-want-Michael" moments at inopportune times...

Ladies, I get these hot steamy letters from my man -- and I feed into them also. I write and send him NASTY GIRL poems, I get all terribly descriptive. Then when I see him I whisper all kinds of good and nasty thangs to him that I will do to him. I love the expressions on his face -- they are priceless.

Sonny writes them but not as often as I do!! His phone calls are really really hot though!!! I know they read our letters, some of the CO's make comments to him about them when they pass out mail!! I don't care. They can't stop us from pleasing each other! He's getting better and better at them and he always sends his "passion" letters (as he calls them!) to my work so I'll read them at my desk which is out in the middle of the office!!! (blushing!) lol

In Every letter I get get he seems to go off tpic into a sexy and nasty fantasy of what he wants to do when he gets home. I love them. It made me open up more to waht I have to offer him

Daddy and I write letters that will make your toes curl up. ;) I know his and mine do anyway.

My man and I share a very healthy sex life even though we cannot be together physically. We write explicitly, I send him tons of pics and we have our Sunday night phonesex date. We tend to be xxxtreme but it works for us, yanno?

Patty

Yep I get them and I write them back. Right now we are doing the story, you know where he writes some and then I add to it and we send it back and forth till we end it, He is the king of double meaning, everything I say he turns it sexual, I do it to :D but he we're talking about him. :p He is even worse at visit, Makes me wanna jump across the table on him LOL

Jeremy told me about a sexy dream he had, and that he often fantasizes about the two of us, but there is a lot he feels he should show me, rather than tell me. Oh well, that is cool with me. I would rather show him too, lol.

Yes on my god,,,theres this one about "just wait", and its all the things he will do to me when he comes home...I tell ya some of those's things I never heard of before...he brings it up to me all the time...its funny

My Handsome Love Ricky, writes me a sexy letter every other letter so I would say 2-3 times a week I am getting all drooled face, and I get goose bumps, and blush, and every letter is more hotter than the next. When I write back sometimes I get red but it's all for a good cause. Damn I miss my Baby. LOL

I get a little in almost every letter he writes. And sometimes that's all I get, which is fine with me. I do write him too, and he loves it because i put details into it. I always did get an A in my creative writing classes in school. ANd he's been getting spoiled on the phone as well, I was always a little shy about it, but I'm breaking thru. I still find it hard to say in person though - but I'm trying. I see nothing wrong with any of it - gotta keep the spice in it.

James and I always have our experiences on paper as well. I live for those letters and I return them as best I can. I am scared to get too explicit, they are cracking down on everything in Texas and really screaning letters. James' honeymoon letter was so good but he was scared it wouldn't make it out...Thank God it did and I relive it often. We don't get phone calls being in Texas but boy would it be dangerous if we did...hehe

He sends me the BEST sexy letters. Im actaully expecting a 31 page one today. Mine are no where near as good, but he knows I try. The last one I mailed conviently got LOST before it got to him.

I send my Boo at least one "hot" letter per week. His letters to me are more mellow than mine. I give it to him good!

I get wonderful letters and have for years. He calls them out "date" letters. I have a couple of pics that have his shirt off and his beltline pulled down kind of low. He can't make "good" pics, those are the best he can do. I need those letters ... it's a must.

I rarely get steamy letters from my Sweetie...I've sent more than he has.

he sends me more steamy letters than I do him because I get embarressed about it, Im afraid one of the guards or another inmate is gonna get ahold of it and make fun of him or read it or something

My man also writes sexy letters describing what he will do to me when he gets out and specific details like a hotel suite, rose petals, candlelight dinner, very romantic stuff! Definitely something for us ladies to look forward too huh? :)

The first time my guy wrote a few very sexually explicit lines in his letter, I had gone somewhere in my car right after getting the mail & reading it, & I was daydreaming about what he wrote & not paying attention & got a SPEEDING TICKET!!! LOL!!! (For $160.00 !)

I told him what had happened, & he never did anything like that again. LOL!

But just recently he asked me if he can "talk dirty" to me, & I said "no".
I just don't want sex to become the focus of our relationship. And I want him to respect me.
I'd rather have him write his love poems and tell me how much he loves me & how much I mean to him, then send me an XXX rated nasty sex letter.

He said that was cool with him. End of story as far as that goes!

Guess that's why he calls me his "Angel". :thumbsup:

-Eddie's Angel:)

Well ladies, You are gonna think I am crazy. I get those letters and boy do they get me going. I feel really bad because I don't even know where to begin to write one back. I just can't figure out what or how to say it. I try but, it just turns out to be sentences not a story or make sense. Can anyone give me advice or kinda of a sample of what to say. I am embarrassed. He would probably pop a vein if he got one from me. Please Help. STACY:p Ok ladies I have a question how many of you get a sexy letter from your man I am talking about a down right nasty letter. About what he wants to do to you and how many times he wants to do you? I get some from my husband and I do answer him back in the very some nasty way. But when I go to visit I think what are the guards going to think of me my husband is in a camp but you know I really do not care because if there is something I love about my husband is the way he makes love to me and how we have some nasty sex to god I miss him so much. So let’s talk ladies I know we have some stories to tell.:clap:

ok.. my man sometimes will write little things pertaining to sex in his letters, but I pretty much ignore it, because I'm afraid if I write sexy stuff back to him, he is going to think I'm sitting home all hot and bothered and he will worry about that. So how can I change my thinking.? I would Love to write and recieve sexy letters from my man

For those ladies who want to know how to write a sexy letter well you have to get in the mood for one put some soft music and let your imagination go. You do not have to get down and right nasty it’s all about being sexy and in touch with you sexual it all about putting it down on paper. This does not mean you are being disrespectful or any thing like that it just means you are having fun and have a very health and very safe sex. Especially for us ladies that have to go months even years without out men doing these things to us. It is just a good way to keep our imagination healthy that all. And you fun part is you do not have to write one very time you write him but it is good and believe me your man will love that part of you even more. So just let your hair down and use that imagination. It’s all in fun and there are NO rules when it comes to sexy letters. Have fun with you imagination take it from maybe having coffee with you love one and acting like you do not know him but you want to take him home so bad and take it from there ……………… you will see the roll play will come easy. Once again ladies this is all in fun and keeping in touch with your men they take so much away from us but there a few things we can still call our own.



Enjoy yourselves

I got one the other day and it was very graphic. As I was reading it felt like we were doing everything in the letter. He has a very vivid imagination.He be getting down right nasty and I certainly reply just as nasty.

Brian Sends Me Sexy Letters All The Time And He Wants One From Me But Im Shy Too, He Also Likes To Talk Nasty On The Phone Im Mean Down Right Nasty But I Tell Him To Stop Cause The Phone Is Monitored But He Still Keeps On Doing It

Yes my husband sends me some down right nasty and freaky letters. Actually, what we have been doing lately is he sent me a card and he began a story and I finished it. The last one I finished and sent to him, he said he read it about 6 or 7 times and had to "use the bathroom" (if you know what I mean) because it got him soooo turned on. I think it's healthy to express your sexual fantasies to your man so he knows just what you want when he comes home or if you have a trailer visit.

TAmmy

oh yeah my man sends them all the time. he is absolutley obsessed with my butt and of course my chest as well. he always tells me that he just wants to grab them in the visiting room but is affraid to get caught. Answering them back yes I do that to it helps him use his imagination with us instead of some magazine

I wish i could let my imagination go! lol..i sent one sexy letter and they took it and said it contained sexual content *rolls eyes* so can't write anything like that in a BC Facility I guess.

yes i get nasty letters from sleepy. i don't get as many as i would like but the ones i get are really hot and steamy. mine just never seem to be as good as his do. and when i go visit him we always end up talking about what he's going to do to me when he gets out and then he has to stop because he gets to excited. on the last visit he told me i had to stop eatting my ice cream bar because it was making him be in pain. lol. but i do love it when i get his letter.

I am the great writer in our relationship and he LOVES it.....but my man was only 14 years old when he went to prison so you can see how it would be hard for him....with little to no experience really! LOL....I think I give him hope for good things to come!

I get sexy letters from my man every week and I write him some sexy letters also

I get very sexy letters from my babe, I always answer him back just as sexy. He lets me know what my letters do to him when he is reading them.

I get them ALL the time and I love every minute of it. If there was ever a woman that defines the saying "She's a lady in the streets and a ho in the bedroom" that is me and he knows it. Sometimes I write him back but on the days that he calls and I've jsut received a letter we take it further and have some good phone sex. He LOVES giving instructions and listening to me follow and I love letting him listen. We always laugh about it on our visits because he always compliments me on being his "freak". I know there are CO's listening and I could care a less. If they are shocked or offended then they have lived a sheltered life lol!

i get those type of letters all the time....but here is my problem...i have the hardest time writing a sext letter. can you gurls help me out pretty please?

i used to get them alot but i never know what to write back. he would love if i did and if i knew how to talk dirty to him both in letters and on the phone. please, ladies, help me!!! if u don't want to post just pm me... rosi

we'll my man write sweet letters like, "cant wait until i have you in my arms" things like that but nothing nasty, he only wrote me once when he had just went to jail, and i liked it but now he, just does not talk nasty or freaky, i havent told him anything about it, but what does it consist of? does any one know why? or is someone experiencing the same thing.... I hope someone would reply with a answer or a thought. thanxs

My man send me freak nasty letters every week... but i return with one every 2 weeks! He has even gona as far as to cut pics out of a porn mag and attached them!

Me and my husband write at least a mandatory letter with some bomb lovin' once a week. Usually its more then once a week and probably like three times a week on the norm, he tells me his juicy thoughts, and dreams, he tells me about his alone time and he tells me everything he wants done to him, and what he wants to do to me. Every letter has sex related comments towards the end. He's way better at writing those letters then me, but I've gotten alot better at it then i used to be. He knows how to give so much detail and describe things better than i do when it comes to that! Thats all I'm getting for now so I'll take the letters, cause they are doing the job for now! He doesn't draw much, but he does sometimes draw some love making pics or some poses he wants pictures of me in. :p

he is so cute, he asks me questions like do i please myself and little cute things to see what i will say. matt is kind of shy and cant just come out right and say it but he loves it when i do! his "innocence" is precious to me :) even though we all know are men arnt innocent!

Very often... He's really big about telling me all the things he wants to do when he returns back home *wink*

I get them every once in a while...but d*** when I get them...WOW!!!!:blush: I really wish he would send more!!! HEHE!!!!:D He's got a very good imagination...but when I write back I am not as good at it...but I try!!! I have been hinting it to him lately that I would like one...so at the last visits he mentioned to me that he always knew I was a freak on the low!!! What?!?! ME, no way!!!! HEHEHE!!! I love those letters...they are soo nice!!! He doesn't write them alot...and that surprises me b/c when he was home and when I go to visit...he is a very horny boy!!!! Ok...now I want one...with explict detail about everything he wants to do and how!!! Ok...gotta stop thinking about this subject! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Why stop?? LOL - If you ladies need some suggestions I recently sent one to my guy entitled MY TOP TEN O's.....I could hardly stop myself.....I think I was exhausted after about 30 of them...he loved it...he said he re-lived each and everyone of them...as he was there (blush).... He's asked to continue it to top one hundred...I guess I'll try...he should have gotten another one today...he loves fruit so this one is really wild...I can't wait til he calls tonite...I've been teasing him about it all weekend.

For all the people who have problems writing their own sex letters...which I am one of them and I used this. Go to:
www.pillowmail.com (http://www.pillowmail.com)
They do it all for you and let me tell you...the x-rated is the best!!! I sent one to Dave and he told me I got an A+ in sex story writing (he didn't know I didn't write it:) ). He said it was like a fanatasy being played out on paper!! He had to "go to the shower" after reading it. It helps break the ice if you are afraid to do it!! They have pretty good ones. I would suggest trying there...worked for me. Then I got better at writing my own...but then Dave stopped:confused: IDK why?? He better start writing!!! HEHE!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Maybe he's still in the shower????

LOL Dazzler that was funny!!!

But yea Austin and I send them to each other all the time, although I will say I started a story and sent it to him, telling him to add to it and send it back, and he hasnt! :( maybe I was too explicit for him? BUt he still writes all the freaky thangs he wants to do! LOL

YES, YES, YES, YES, YES!!! I wrote him a sexy letter and he loved it. I don't curse so he was amazed at how I wrote the story and it it still had the same affect as if I just got truly down and dirty with it. So he wrote me one back and I was too outdone. We had it take it a step farther on the phone. I know they monitor all of our phone calls now LOL!!! I'm about to send him another letter. I haven't checked out pillowmail but I will to get some fresh ideas. Me and my baby are so into each other he asked me to record myself and burn it on cd for him. You know I'm about to hook him up something real proper.

Has anyone's man ever "traced" his...........???

I get really steamy letters from my man. We started this thing now writting about what he wants to do to me when he comes home, then when I get the letter I pick up with part 2 where he left off. We keep adding to it each time. Kind of like an interactive play time. Heck since I can't have my man right now I will take whatever I can get. Besides you can really tell he gets into writting the letters and boy that's just one big turn on for me. :)

After I wrote a sexy story to Raven he wrote back saying its a good thing he had a cellie or he would have hurt himself. Ha ha

mzpeaches. yes

What do you mean "trace" his???

Oh yes! :clap:

I do get them.... that is! if i get his mail and right now that's not the case.
So i miss his sexy letters :(
But i do send him Sexy and down right nasty letters. :p
I am a professional writer and have a vivid imagionation.

When we do talk on the phone we talk about those letters and we have a lot of fun
( lol) and getting these letters is almost as fun as having dirty talkes over the phone. ;)
And that the guards listen in on us..... WHO CARES.... he and i have fun and what i don't see doesn't bother me.... :p

The only embarasment i do feel is, when i walk in to prison when i do visit him...
I sometimes get that strange feeling that the process guard knows about these letters or conversations.... :o
But i just shake that off.... he is my man! i love him and why shouldn't we have sex...
It's normal that when you are married or in love you want to have sex and the only way you can get sex from your man who is locked up is either in a juicy letter , and i can tell yah. he makes me feel good when he writes that.
Or to have phone sex... And Ladies.. That can be so much fun too

so don't worry about it .. just have all the fun you can get and don't worry about what other people may think...... he's your man and be proud of that.... :thumbsup:


You go GIRLS and be happy :hee:

namaste
Gea Storey

I loooove his explicit letters...it makes me feel "right there" in the moment when I'm reading them...I love love love him and cant wait to taste him again!

I've never received one :(

I dont really get sexy letters because we dont want to think too much about what we are missing but i did receive this in one of my letters. He drew this on a hanky with just pen. He does really nice ones with colored pencils but he has to wait for those.

Oh MY! I have been missing out! We are both so afraid that if we write nasty lettrs to each other, they will take our writing privilages!!! I am gonna write to him and tell him that apparently, that is not the case!!

Can I say how slow we are. I have never even thought about writing X-rated letters for fear of the CO's watching out for me when I come to visit:faint: . After reading through the threads about this I think it would be fun! Me and my hubby are so slow lol. He tells me the fun he has with my pictures but thats about it. I put in a request for a sexy letter last week. I will see what he comes up with. I am interested in what he will right (giggle)

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