angelntn
06-28-2004, 05:45 PM
Ok girls and guy....I got a letter from Michael today and I quote...."I don't want to give you bad information or false hope but I've heard rumors that the mobile unit of the parole board is coming around here next month. That is made up of a panel of people whose job it is to rid the overcrowding." Has anyone ever heard of this?????:confused:
IM4U21DER
06-29-2004, 01:23 AM
never heard of it, but, last week this person that im thinking my wife said had something to do with the parole board came and talked to her. they discussed why she was there the whole 9 yard thing. when she finished she told my wife she was recommending to the board that she be paroled and sent home. is this a normal thing or is it a first?
Care9
06-29-2004, 06:06 AM
[QUOTE=IM4U21DER] last week this person that im thinking my wife said had something to do with the parole board came and talked to her. they discussed why she was there the whole 9 yard thing. when she finished she told my wife she was recommending to the board that she be paroled and sent home. QUOTE]
This has got to be so exciting to you guys. I bet you are on pins and needles. Congratulations and I hope hope hope hope hope that they DO get some WORKING ideas together to solve the problem. If only they'd listen to so many of us in here, they could have LOTS of beds available!
Care
caresworld
06-29-2004, 08:45 AM
all I can say is that if it is true it's about time for them to be doing something to get our family members home I don't care how it is done as long as it gets done. I wish they would do something positive but knowing easterling they will probably fight this the anyway they can.
Carrie
IM4U21DER
06-29-2004, 05:05 PM
we are hoping care every hour and minute. i
'm hoping also that i'm wrong about thi but it seem's like she is changing rapidly to someone i may not know when she gets out. i feel like this one person is putting things in her head which is something easily done to her. another friend of her's (true christian friend)has told me about her and say's she will use people. so many have taken advantage of her kind heart for their gain. i pray she'll be out before she puts to much in her head.
Care9
06-29-2004, 05:52 PM
IM4U21DER ~
I don't know how long she's been in prison nor any of your circumstances so I might be talking out of my hat, but the first thing that came to my mind was that you just need to have faith in your love for one another. I am sure being in there changes some things in a person's life (Let's hope for the good mostly!!) and no doubt it is easy to be swayed by a strong personality who, for any number of reasons, has "targeted" another prisoner ~ or has influenced them. If you haven't already, read the threads having to do with when people get out of prison and the suggestions about helping them, and YOURSELF, to adjust. It's so easy for us out here to just be so thrilled to have them out and forget about how difficult it can be. Your wife will need you to be extremely patient and understanding. I'm sure it isn't always a cake walk when our loved ones finally come home and that is when we might need support even more than ever.
If it was ME who was being swayed, what would speak the loudest to me is ultimately not what the other person was filling my head with, but with the steadfastness and honesty and dependability of my partner.
I wish you well.
Care
IM4U21DER
06-29-2004, 09:29 PM
thanks care, sometimes i get a liitle carried away when she seems to be having a bad day and i get to be the punching bag. better me than some1 there i guess. where is this thread? hey and thanks again.