Shortie
10-21-2002, 12:38 PM
Ant and I had a really good visit a couple of weeks ago.. we were in our little table area and got to really just talk and experience one another. I had some lotion and i got to rub his hands with it and just be free for a while. I also had on jeans and put my feet up on his legs and he gave me a foot massage. The guards were totally cool and did not even say anything. For a moment I feel like a woman, a wife and a human again.. Much respect to them and there effort to let us be normal. The small things like that that make the wait for my husband more then worth it..
Sorry to bore you with my visit, i am just still so exstatic about it.
...that's not boring at all-it's beautiful and very true:)
Glad to hear you had that time.
sherri13
10-21-2002, 12:42 PM
sounds like a wonderful visit shortie! and i am so glad you two had the chance to have it! --every bit of freedom in the circumstances we experience at visitation is definately something to be ecstatic about-- gives us a glimpse into "the coming home party" (oh yeah!!!)
Shortie
10-22-2002, 04:20 PM
yeah that it so true.. i am so greatful for that visit. make me feel good again.. amazin what the touch from you man will do..:);)
shalove
10-28-2002, 11:59 AM
SHOOT......... I WISH WE HAD IT LIKE THAT HERE. YOU WOULD BE LUCKY TO PUT YOUR HAND ON HIS SHOULDER. LOL......... I MEAN ITS NOT THAT STRICT BUT WE CANT DO THAT THAT IS FOR SURE..........
tebkrg
10-28-2002, 03:38 PM
It is so nice that some Guards are cool with non sexual contact. It is a shame that more prison visiting room cops don't allow a little more. It is so difficult to sit there and not just be natural with the one that you love!
Glad to hear that you had a good visit! Love to hear the good things 'cause it kind of drowns out the bad! When I am having a bad day and can read about someone elses good day it helps!
egreenfield
10-28-2002, 04:48 PM
I wish it were a bit more relaxed where my fiance is. I have to dress like a complete monk and have to be concerned with how much "contact" we have. He is the town driver and is held to a higher standard than most. I am a young attractive white female and have been harrased many times. Other females at the prison have not been bothered like I have. Oh well hopefully by some miracle he will be home soon and we can put this behind us
I'm glad to hear you had a nice visit
Shortie
10-30-2002, 04:43 AM
THANKS EVERYONE THOSE NICE VISITS REALLY HELP.. TRUST ME WE HAVE OUR SHARE OF MONK LIKE VISITS.. loL