Hi ladies,

my husband told me on sunday, we will get through this... 11 MORE YEARS...okay i can do it! i just did 10 with him... I told him on sunday that I really want to live in florida for a few years. he said i want you to be happy. i don't have any children with my husband and of course I wish i can... if i was trying i would stay... I am struggling right now deciding on a long term career. i just got out of a 13 year travel career that went NOWHERE... now i am working in limbo at a marketing company... i have to go back to school, which is a must and i am... that is a start. so where can a child come in right now, plus i have to go either for surgery to have children. i made an appt. to see the doctor for april 30th and see what process i have to go through. thank god for insurance, but i hope to last at this company until at least may or june. The dept i work in isnt doing well.

I told my husband that i researched legal/paralegal and it pays well in tampa. i told my husband i will be up for each trailer, i never ever go back on my word and always am reliable. he knows this. i also said let me stay there for 3 years the most... i will come up for trailers and vacation...

I been visiting him ever since 1995. we have a history since 1989 and will be together forever. this is the way i see it.
but during the time away it will feel like a lifetime being apart because two weeks go by and when i go see him it feels like 2 months went by.
does it feel like that for you ladies???? what are your plans until your hubby comes home? do you think i am making a good decision? should i stay in new york and plan a family with him? or should i move to florida by 2006 and come back to ny in 2009 and finish out the 6 years left to his bid?

i am looking forward for all your advice..
chrispro

I don't know what type of advise to give you chrispro...but if you move down to Florida bella and I will take care of ya, don't worry!! :p I wish you the best of luck with what you choose to do - it may be hard traveling back and forth, but it is beautiful down here and I honestly never think of moving back up to Jersey (it's 24 degrees there today...right??? 74...24...74...24...I dunno, I'm gonna stick where it's nice and warm! :)) Good Luck sweetheart!

hi, i would have to come back... i just need some time with my family.. my beautiful sister and neice and mom. i miss them... then i would miss paul so much.. i am torn... lol.

well-- if you move to florida-- you've got a built in friend! i'm in st. pete! (much nicer than tampa!!!!) good luck to you!