View Full Version : Am I his girlfriend?


Maggie_Luis
03-31-2004, 06:21 PM
Hello all,
I have a little situation here. My honey as I call him has been doing a bid for five years . I have known him since high school. We were and still are very close. Of course life takes you in different directions. Last year i took it upon myself to write to him. He was in box and I wanted to step in to let him know he is not alone. Ihave always thought about him and have always cared about him. For over a year now we talk , write and I go see him. I did not know a year ago I would start to have feelings for this man. He is the butter I want to melt, the honey I want to taste. I have fallen in love with him. He has told me he loves me to. I found him when he thought life was lost. he had to bury feelings deep withing to get him through this bid. I make him feel alive again. We talk about everything and anything. He says he wants to do things with me when he comes home. For right now he can really"show" me how much I mean to him.. only verbally but to trust in his love and never ever doubt it. Have I been helping him out sending him things yes. I never want hiim to ever feel lost again. I am not his wife or his girlfriend. When I asked him what am I his answer to me was" You are the woman that has my heart and I love you so very much. : He never hangs up without saying I love you. I am a bit confused because I want to enjoy what ever we have now. Whatever this is I dont want it to go away. He was there for me when I had my son. I love this man so much it hurts sometimes. He is in Clinton cor Fac annex in NY. Any suggestions anyone.

I see him about once a month... until the summer where I go every other weekend. I now live in Boston and Its a long ride for me. I take Prison Gap..... I do it because I love him. Am I crazy or what?

sixmonths
03-31-2004, 09:22 PM
No, you aren't crazy. If you love him, then you do what feels right for you. Follow your heart.....

qwerty
03-31-2004, 09:28 PM
I think if you're concerned about being his "official" girl freind, jut tell him how much it matters to you and that's what you want.

Judge Not
03-31-2004, 09:31 PM
I'd say you're "definitely" his girlfriend!! Sounds like he's a pretty lucky guy too...

maidenheart
03-31-2004, 09:36 PM
He told you that you have his heart... to me that means you are the woman he has chosen... sounds to me like you mean as much to him as he does to you.

j2sq
04-01-2004, 08:20 PM
NO WAY UR CRAZY!!!!

u do all of this for love!! that is great! of course u r his girlfriend!

he must love ya to death!!!! :D lucky man!

roc city girl
04-04-2004, 08:56 PM
Hi Maggie!! it sounds to me as though you are his girlfriend. I know he must be very happy to have you by his side!! :)

outlawsdeb
04-04-2004, 11:06 PM
Well Lady.....you have his heart and to me that means you are his woman his girlfriend his best friend. And as for the ride..well I used to make the ride every weekend from New Bedford to Romulus,NY (5Points) and that my dear was a 9 hour trip on a good day. Now he is at Upstate and I am fighting to get my visits back........So YES you ARE his girlfriend

mamota35
04-05-2004, 10:02 AM
No you are not crazy and you are not alone! He is near Buffalo and I get on that bus every friday night (8 hours) to see him, and I am so grateful to have those visits...