Hello everyone, I am just feeling a bit down and discouraged this week. I am having to cut down on my phone calls from twice a week to once a week because my phone bill is getting harder to pay. Raymond says he does'nt want me to be struggling out here. And I am still not handling the denial of ou wedding very well. I feel they are not telling me the truth about why we could'nt get married. It might be just that facility, that is wht everyone tells us. It just depends on the individual facility that they are in. If the chaplin is not in favor of inmates marrying he talks the warden into not signing the paper. I still feel it is the age difference even though they say it is'nt. I need some extra prayers right now. I don't want anything to come between me and my Baby. Need all the encouragement I can get. :fb:

Hang in there. Everything will work out. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Honey Bun Hey! I feel your grieve James and I have been going through it aw well. I've been on a roller coaster for awhile now. We were suppose to get married this Sat, April 3rd. But he screwed up and went to confinement instead. I'm sorry to hear about your deniel. Unless it would breach some kind of security issue I don't see why they feel the need to deny some one's application for marriage. You are both adults and capable of making the decision to marry. They let people marry out here everyday that pretty much shouldn't so why sould it be different. Well if you want to talk to someone who's going though it too please feel free to pm me or email me. I'll keep you in my prayers. Hang in there they say it gets better. (((HUGS)))
Spikeswife

Hi Honey Bun! Try not to be too down... maybe your sweetheart will be moved and you can get your wedding approved at another facility. I know you are frustrated and hurt. Whenever I get down, I just try and be thankful for what we do have.... we have visits and phone calls, which a lot of women on here don't get with their sweetie. Hang in there and remember that you are not alone. (((((Honey Bun)))))

God speaks to us through circumstances...he will let you know what you must do.
Stay strong....have faith...the sun will shine again :)

(((hugs)))hang in there,it'll all work out...prayers going out to you..