View Full Version : so he mad a mistake it does't make him a bad person


christymendozaa
03-30-2004, 04:01 AM
hello yes i would like to start off by saying that yes we all have the same simularities and of course we all have our down falls but the love that we have for our husbands or boyfriends keep us strong my husband is waiting to be transfered to his main housing but we are not sure were that is yet but right now he is in delano and we have been together for 7 years and counting we have two children and one on the way we have been throught everything you can possibly thing and for a while i was going to church and i would pry to god for him to please help him be a better person i did it for 6 years asking god to please help finally a few months before he was locked up he started to change he stopped drinking and going out and being a good husband but he still had his moment well he went to court on a previos charge that he had done 4 years ago and they sentenced him to one year in prison this was his first time and you would not believe how different he is but some people still like to say that he is only changing cause hes in prison but god works in misterious ways and maybe this will be his wake up call but in my heart i fill that god has put him there to tell him that in life we should not take things for granted and he is willing to give him a second chance when he comes out to be a better man for his family yes we all hurt but with a little bit of suffering will come a blessing if we believe thanks for listing and please am here for you if you need some support

BSS
03-30-2004, 11:50 AM
Welcome to PTO and thank you for a heart warming post :) Sometimes a bit of time on the inside can be a big wake up call for our loved ones. I hope this was his :) Love Barb

Yasmeen
03-30-2004, 12:49 PM
Christy, welcome to PTO! You'll love the support here...

Blue Fish
03-30-2004, 02:02 PM
Welcome to PTO!! I agree with you, it doesn't mean anyones loved one is a bad person because he (or she) is behind bars. It just means that they made some bad decisions. Hope you can find the support and community you are looking for here.

MaddiMar
03-30-2004, 03:18 PM
:cuffs: When u are released frm jail....do u go to a LAST court hearing??? where they will give u probation officer name and so fourth.:ham:

christymendozaa
04-01-2004, 04:21 AM
hey girl no more court hearing thank god he will be contacted from a p.o in a couple of weeks ok so dont worry just relax until they contact him ok god bless you:cuffs: When u are released frm jail....do u go to a LAST court hearing??? where they will give u probation officer name and so fourth.:ham: