Manzanita
03-28-2004, 11:54 AM
Candy;
I have not seen you around and wondered how you and your man were doing?
I hope all is well
Lots of best wishes out to you both!
candy
03-28-2004, 05:53 PM
Hi Mrs G,
Things are going pretty good. Thanks for asking. We have our ups and downs and go thru changes but overall we love each other and tend to work thru our problems. The main thing that I would like everyone to know is that your loved one will need their space when they come home. That is our major problem right now. He works 10 hour days during the week and want to hang out with his friends on the weekend which leaves little time for us. I try not to complain though because at least he is home with me at night. I just hope that he will settle down soon because he isn't getting his proper rest. I know that after 15 years everything is still new to him and he needs to get out and experience freedom. He bought him a car, but the bad part is that he is driving without license. He was suppose to park the car until he got his license, but that is a man for you. I was hoping that I would be able to report a better success story, but it has only been 4 months and I need to give it more time. I just need to exercise more patience and understanding as to where is is coming from and what he is going through. Some of our problems come from my insecurities and baggage that I am bringing from past relationships. I hope that I will be able to report better news in the near future, but that is where we are right now.
Hugs
sbrown110
03-30-2004, 06:07 PM
To Candy - all relationships have their ups and downs, and things to work out, problem spells, and periods of time when one doesn't measure up to the other's expectations. I wish you only the best...
Sheryl