Many of us write our special letters to our special guys. I am just intrested in finding out what kind of special things does your guy like with/in his letters the most?

Perfume
Current Events (from home)
Pictures
Sexy Writings
Cards
Personal Poetry/Lyrics/Stories (clean)
Games/Questions

He likes all of the above especially perfume, current/local events, my boring life stuff, my sexually explicit thoughts and ramblings, tons of pictures I send him from my webcam, etc. I write him twice a day and also send him pictures, articles, books and magazines. Occasionally if I am really busy at work I don't have time to write a whole lot in the "daytime" letter, he told me "even if you only have time to write or type I love you and send it I will treat it like it was ten pages." <sigh>

Patty

Even though my man loves them all, I would have to say the sexy writings. I would say perfume would be next.

He perfers to hear about my every day life and things that happen.He never has been one for sexy letters as he said they are to hard on him.Once in a while he will ask for one.

Perfume yes to that one
Current Events (from home) yes agian, every detail of my day.
Pictures yes, but wants ones that I won't send :rolleyes:
Sexy Writings yes here too, but they are getting more strict so...
Cards yes again
questions (not games) he likes me to ask questions and he likes to ask me too.

Perfume: A MUST!!! HE SLEEPS WITH MY LETTERS SO HE CAN SMELL ME!

Pictures: AS OFTEN AS I GET NEW ONES HE NEEDS THEM & ENJOYS THEM!!!

Sexy Writings: HECK YEAH!!! I TRY TO SAVE THOSE FOR SPECIAL TIMES! lol

Cards: I SEND AT LEAST 1 A WEEK AND EVERY DAY LEADING UP TO SPECIAL OCCASIONS. HE GETS SPOILED AND TRIES TO TELL ME THAT EVERY DAY IS A HOLIDAY!!!

Lyrics: I SEND HIM THE WORDS TO SONG THAT REMIND ME OF HIM AND THE ONES HE SAYS REMINDS HIM OF ME.

Games: HE LOVES FOR ME TO MAKE WORDSEARCHES AND OTHER WORD GAMES FOR HIM!

Jokes: I SEND HIM JOKES ALSO HE ENJOYS THOSE AND HE CAN SHARE THEM WITH THE OTHER GUYS!

My man loves the sexy writings the best.

I also send him...crosswords,comics/cartoons,my art work,kids school work,kids drawings and their letters. I send him jokes ,pictures, funny pictures off of the net,newspaper articles.

That's about it

Perfume - I've been OUT of perfume since he went to jail!! I need to get some!! lol any donations??? ;)
Current Events (from home) - from home?! I never leave the freaking house... lol
Pictures - he loooooooooooooooooves pictures!! lol he always begs me to take more, but I'm out of ink!
Sexy Writings - are considered "obscene" in idaho, so it's really hard to get ANYTHING that describes remotely sexual acts to pass the mail room
Cards - I'm not artsy and ... I'm poor so I can't afford cards now
Personal Poetry/Lyrics/Stories (clean) - I send him a lot of lyrics, he loves lyrics :) we're music people
Games/Questions - I just started sending questions last week and I haven't gotten a reply yet, so we'll see how he likes them

Kelly

Perfume: just started spraying my letters, but he loves it
Current Events (from home): wantes to know all is well
Pictures: bugs the hell out of me about them, then pouts if I take to long getting them to him
Sexy Writings: loves it, he's better then me at it LOL, but I get him back when I send the pillowtalk stories
Cards: Loves them, Cause I have found some real cute ones
Personal Poetry/Lyrics/Stories (clean): dont do personal poetry, but I send him ones off the net, I send him lyrics that he asks for and songs that remind me of him, all our stories are dirty LOL
Games/Questions: Just started doing the questions since he asked me to marry him, just making sure we both are on the same page

All in all he loves any and everything I send him. He says as long as its comming from me he wantes it. Aww he makes me all mushy :)

Willsgirl - I started doing the question thing with my man once he asked me to marry him as well :) lol

yea we have a few issues we have to hammer out before we take the walk. Even through he takes his time answering them, but thats a man for you.

in a nut shell...he wants 4 sex letters a week LOL!

J loves all of the above, but I must say that he asks for pictures all the time. he gets a letter daily from me, so he always has my perfume smell and everything else. He always wants more pictures. He's just so spoiled.

Jason loves all the above.. He wants to know how life is, pics, and sexy letters.. He always wants some lyrics.. I send him a few cards a month.. Sometimes a few a week.. It seems like everytime I see one tht reminds me of him.. I have to send it.. I send poems,, and just started the perfume thing.. And he loves it..

Yeah, all of the above and he likes postcards too, b'cos I have to travel alot for work, I will send one or two from where ever I go, and since I am away soo much and it is really hard for me to visit he is always asking for pictures, lately bikini pictures, I don't mind too much, we are married! ;) But NO more sexy than that!

And he loves the purfumed letters too.

Perfume- I always send perfume on my letters. He hangs the envelope from the heat vent in the ceiling in his cell so that he can always smell me. Victoria's Secret- Love Spell.)
Current Events (from home)- I am always telling him what's up at home

Pictures- I send pic of the kids and I often or a picture of absolutely anything he wants

Sexy Writings- he loves my creativity in this area... we have one hot sex life!!

Cards- I am a card fanatic. It's hard for me to find one that I haven't bought! I recently started making my own with stamps and supplies from a scrapbooking store. He loves them because they are handmade by his Boo-Boo


Personal Poetry/Lyrics/Stories (clean)- I send him song lyrics if there is a song that's on my heart that reminds me of him. I often write poetry and send it. I am in the process of writing a book, so often I send things to him to read over for me.

Games/Questions- I (we both) ask a lot of questions...

My man likes pictures, but he also likes all the above. Its funny in the last letter he asked me if I could spray some of my perfume on the letter thats the first time he has ever asked that. But he likes to hear about whats goin on with his boy, me,my family and he'll occasionally ask about his family but they don't have anything to do with him since he's been in which is sad. He loves for me to send him poety, and writing him sexy letters. It seems like everyday that passes and gets closer to his release hes getting more you know what. He also pouts and bugs me until I send him pictures and fusses at me b.c its takin to long but when I take pictures I want to make sure their going to be good especially of his son.

ANY LETTER WHERE IM TALKING ABOUT WHAT IM GOING TO DO TO HIM WHEN I GET THE CHANCE!!!

My man loves all of the above. I just started on the questions in my letters. His remark was "Questions, Questions, and more questions... What is up with the questions? just joking babe" He just loves mail...lol

what can i say?? calvin wants it all! ;) he specifically asks for perfume.

He loves perfume! He loves my poetry. Likes Bible study, cards, pictures, and likes for me to pull info off the internet...as long as I write often he is happy.

He mostly likes everything, especially the cards I send him, and letters with perfume.

I would have to say that my man likes all of the above! He likes anything I write about or send him.

Cash loves it all... especially the pictures... but as long as I'm writing, I don't really think he cares what I am writing about... as I'm sure it's the same with all the guys! :) We used to fantasize alot, and write sexually to each other, but we haven't done that for a very long time because we both decided that we needed to focus on our relationship and making it through everyday... we have 3 more years to go at the least, and talking about sex just makes it so much harder to be apart because we have never explored that side of our relationship... He gets all the visuals he needs though! :p

all the above..

My man likes any letters, as long as he gets a letter everyday!

Perfume~ really don't wear it but i do spray Victoria secret's body spray on them
Current Events ~ (home) well he loves to hear of all the new things our 9mth old is doing.
Pictures~ He loves this. Anything we do and thing she does i take pictures galore and send them
Sexy Letters~ Yea i send them to him, I normally send him my story and he will send me the completion of it. So we complete a story believe me it gets. very obscene
Cards~ Well we are kind of short on money so i buy the cute 48-99cents one from walmart or i take printer paper or notebook paper and make him card from our daughter.
Personal poetry and lyrics_ i send them , they help he know how i am feeling at times.
games and questions He likes things like that

cards

He likes any mail but esp. the dirty stuff :)

[QUOTE=California Sunshine]He likes any mail but esp. the dirty stuff :)

DITTO..HE LOVES THE DIRTY STUFF, BUT IM SO SHY...BUT AFTER ALMOST A YEAR IM A PRO!:p

Perfume: he loves it when I spray his letters...I spray everything with it now though!!
Current Events: He just always wants to know what I do everyday (how I spend my days)...and how my family is doin...just stuff like that.
Pictures: Loves, loves, loves them...he wants me to send some everyday...not possible!!! I usually go buy a disposable camera at Wal-mart once a week and take 1/3 of the pictures of me...1/3 of my friend (to send to her man that is in the same facility Kevin's in)...and 1/3 of both of us...then we take the to a 1 hour photo...develop them...and send them out!!!
Sexy writings: every now and then we will write sexy letters to each other...but he don't want me to send alot of them cause he says it's hard and he wants to "save all his babies for me"...he's a nut!
Cards: I send at least 2 a week...those long sappy ones from Hallmark.
Personal poetry/lyrics/stories: No stories...but I send him poetry even now and then (he writes me poems all the time though)...and I send at least lyrics to 3 songs with each letter...he tells me some that he wants...but mostly it's songs I hear that remind me of him or that he has sung to me in the past.
Games/Questions: we done the 33 questions together...and I bought a book of questions and we been doin' them also...since we're planning on getting married soon...we are enjoyin' this!!

My husband likes the perfumed letters w/ lipstick kisses (which is NOT normally me), love-filled words, upbeat "happy" conversations, and romantic letters. He doesn't like me to write about any of our "issues" and I wonder if they will ever get addressed or solved.

My Sweetheart - Home 2/20/07

He HATES when I send cards...says they cost too much...but it's hard to resist those really romantic mushy ones!! I've gone through old Cosmo's and sent him the quizzes (not sure if he really LIKED that but it gave him something to do!) The sunday comics, i've made him "erotic" crosswords...and of course lots of sexy stories!!! He likes pictures the best but I'm terrible when it comes to getting film developed!!

Jeremy loved lipstick kiss's! He is always asking me to send them. And when he was behind the glass at visits, he would have me kiss the glass so he could see the imprint. Men are just so cute sometimes!

I didn't vote because poor Travis is just thankful to get a letter... he doesn't care what it says! LOL! I've been slacking on the letter writing the last couple of weeks. He does like to hear about what our daughters our out here doing (he's got one and I've got one) and he especially likes to hear me talk about how much I love him and plans for our future together.

sometimes NO PERFUME. is good...

Perfume -Never ask me. Could be I don't wear it.
Current Events - Only about the parole board
Pictures - Yes but I don't like to talk them
Sexy Writings -Oh god yes and they have to be full of dirt
Cards - Don't like them unless he can sell them
Personal Poetry/Lyrics/Stories -Don't like them either
Games/Thought Provoking Questions -Love them

The one thing he really ask for is not on this list
Lipstick he loves that. He like to see how big I can open my mouth and kiss the paper!

Basiclly all of the above, but he loves to get pictures of the family.

All of the above!!! I have never gotten a complaint except when there's no pictures in there.

Lip stick kisses? what a great idea! Thanks Ladies!

My boyfriend begs for perfume. He loves letters, but he just let me know today that the cards I send him make him happy but sad. He said they rip him up pretty bad. He dosen't feel like he deserves them. He must be going through a difficult time right now. Basically he loves anything I send him. I write him daily. He likes to keep up on the news, and he likes for me to send him weird and unusual pictures or jokes. He likes sexy letters too.

My baby loves letters that smell good. He really has no favorite type of letter. He tells me that he is just glad that I am here for him. He loves hearing about things that are going on at home, he loves getting dirty letters, you name it he loves it all.

Okay, how is it that you all get your letters to your man with perfume on them? Every time I tried that at DVI they were returned.....No perfume, lipstick, stickers etc....
He is at CCC in Susanville now, I hardly think that warrents a call to his councelor so my question would now be: Do I just ask him and have him find out? LOL
Thanks all...

RoofersLady - all states have different rules about what kinds of mail they allow in. You may just be out of luck. :)

Charlie's favorite was ALWAYS pictures! His photo album was PACKED - I did perfume about 99.9% of the time. I know it's not allowed in some States, I sent out PTO Xmas cards last year and my cards were all in the box that I kept my writing supplies to Charlie in, one of the cards from Montana was returned to me because of perfume. So I guess it depends where you're sending it. Erotic letters or stories, he always loved those too!

I usually write to him in diary form. Sometimes they are "to be continued" so he can't wait until the next day to see how "something" turned out. He also likes when i spray them with perfume (I buy it from the dollar store so he can have a variety). I also buy colored paper, paper with flowers, gel pens, colored pens etc.... to make it nice for him. I send cards at least once a month. ;)

My guy is always asking for pictures and more pictures. He likes to hear about current events and what's going on too, and he likes the perfume. My guy is also so spoiled.

He likes to hear about my day. The crazy kids that I deal with all day long, and the dreams that I have for us.

My baby loves it when I send him letters that have:

perfume: yes!!! he loves my perfume I always wore around him!! it makes him crave me more!!

current events: I never put stuff like that in my letters its boring crap and I know he could careless about it.

pictures: He loves getting them of me and Weston!!! Especially because Weston is growing up so he loves seeing pictures of him getting bigger!! He wants some naked pictures of me...but haven't got the guts to do that yet..plus trying to get my weight off from Weston...then maybe I will send him some "ohhh la la pictures of me".

cards: I have only sent him a few but I love sending him them!

personal poetry/lyrics/stories: yes I send him my poems and lyrics of songs that reminds me of him or our love together. I write about our memories together from the past it always brightens up his days. I always write him stuff about when he gets out and what we will do as a family and all.

Games/questions: I send him cross-word puzzles all the time and I ask him silly questions and he sends me questions back also...

my fiance loves any mail from me. he's another 1 thats always asking for more pictures.he likes to hear about what i'm doing in life. i tell him anything new and exciting that he should know.he just loves mail.:thumbsup:

All of the above. but recently he's been pushing for me to send him some sexy photos. Which I already told him that I wouldn't be doing. Because, I could just see him showing all his buddy's (he said that he wont) or being posted in the mail room or something. What underneath my cloths is for his eyes only. Point Blank :blah:

my baby loves to get the sexy letters he would also love to get more pics but i hate cameras but he pretty much likes all of the above:)

He loves my perfume, so I spray my letters and cards with it. He loves getting pictures, but I'm not exactely a picture person. Half of the last batch I sent, I couldn't stand. I was a little bit tipsy (on my b-day), but I promised him I'd send them and did. Every so often I ask him questions that just blow him mind, he likes those too.

Wish there was a button for all of thee above cause he loves them all.:p

:idea: HEY EVERYONE, I KNOW THIS ISN'T THE PAGE FOR PEN PAL INFO, BUT I THOUGHT IT WOULDN'T HURT IF I JUST MENTIONED THAT I HAVE A WONDERFUL, CARING, HANDSOME BROTHER, WHOM MIGHT I ADD IS MY BEST FRIEND IN THE WHOLE WORLD, WHO WOULD DEARLY LOVE TO RECEIVE SOME MAIL FROM SOMEONE WHO MIGHT LIKE TO START UP A FRIENDSHIP. HE IS REALLY A SWEET GUY. HE MADE SOME WRONG CHOICES IN HIS LIFE, WHICH IS WHY HE IS WHERE HE IS. HE HAS DEFINATELY REALIZED THAT NOTHING IS WORTH GOING BACK TO PRISON FOR. HE IS NOT A HARDENED CRIMINAL BY ANY MEANS, HE JUST ENJOYED GETTING HIGH ONE TOO MANY TIMES AND GOT CAUGHT. ANYHOW, IF ANYONE HAS ANY QUESTIONS OR NEED INFO REGARDING MY BROTHER, PLEASE P.M. OR E-MAIL ME ANY TIME.:thumbsup:

In addition to all the listed types -I sent a letter with a picture of a stuffed dog he gave me on our first date

I sprayed the letter with HIS FAVORITE COLOGNE - and let him know that is what I sleep with every night - the dog sprayed with his cologne.

He loved to smell it and know. He said he can't wait to smell like himself again, and of course said (joking) don't use it all, which I am sure I probably will! ;)

RichsGurl Great minds think alike, I do the exact same thing for Ricky, but I don't save the sexy ones I send them as I write them. what a trip.

My angel eyes loves all the above......even if it was just an envelope with my handwriting on it.....lol.....but I send a few of everything every week.

My Sweetie Loves The Sex Letters, And He Loves To Hear Me Talk About Our Relationship.

my man likes sexy writing and he likes it as frequent as i can manage to write it but it can be quite annoying cause i run out of things to write about....im not really good at it and i dont really understand his huge fetish with it either but whatever i can do i guess.....:o