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JodyAnnShaw
10-03-2002, 01:46 PM
I received this from a friend of mine... I'm not sure where he got it from... but I wanted to share it with you all...

If one were to sit and observe a prisoner at 'mail call', he would probably feel about as stupid as a butcher at a vegetarian convention. There's nothing particularly enviable about a prisoner receiving mail, but it's interesting to note his anticipation for such an article, although the casual observer.. that is to say, the average John Q. Public, might find said observation about as mentally stimulating as it would be to watch a benignant pussycat tranquilly cast its lazy yellow slits across a caged canary, or a Hawaiian Kahuna sit in morose silence; one who seems perfectly nonplusses at his failre to heal.

But, in this compendium or murderers, rapists, armed-robbers, burglars, arsonists, child molesters, defrocked priests, drug dealers. pimps, hustlers, kidnappers, cattle rustlers<(yes, there are still those who rustle cattle), etc. etc., ad infinitum; one can sense a strong familiar bond between the variegated souls hidden behind mesh wire and steel bars; a bonc accentuated by the need to 'hear' from the outside world.

Monday's are a prisoners favorite day, because it begins a new week with the possibility of receiving mail for six long days (holidays excluded), although many in the outside world loathe Mondays because it's back to work after a short weekend.. But prisoners are drawn to this most holy day, like a magnet to metal, or a kleptomaniac to an open safe. But, he is cautious and not overly enthusiastic because he realizes his common place obsession for mail has a chance of running aground (i.e.not receiving any mail) and his anticipation has him feeling out of constitution and his thoughts are governed by nothing more than the distinct calligraphy of his spouse, and this isn't necessarily a thing-in-itself, but to the contrary!



On any given week day, and Saturday's of course, conversations between prisoners can be heard over the 'air waves', that is to say, out loud; very loud in fact and louder when most of the forty-some-odd prisoners in the building take a notion to conversate at the same time, and a typical dialogue between two 'compadres' prior to mail being passes around might be as such:
"what's up, Bob?" is the reply.
"you 'specting any mail tonight?"
"Naw, how 'bout you?"
"should hear from mama and my sister... Beth Anne," a pause. "and hopefully I'll get a letter from the governor with a recommendation for a full pardon."
Both prisoners laugh at this quip.
"Well," says Joe, "I hope you get some mail, boy, but don't expect the governor to pay no social call."
And so the conversations go, although some days Joe is clearly not interested in the topics of discussion, he plays proverbial ear incarnate, that is to say, he listens well with one ear, while the other is off is space, listening for sounds fo life on mars.

Then other such conversations are tossed into the verbal fray, along with incessant yelling, banging, 10 different people singing 10 different songs... the soft human murmurs of those talking to themselves, all of which elbows out the flushing toilets, coughs, stifled laughs, or slamming steel doors in a distant hallway, and then everything stops! In one snap of a finger, all noise comes to a cease.
"It's mail call! Yes! Yes!" pierces through the collective thoughts of the prisoners. The nondescript guard is finally passing out the beloved mail. The silence is as thick as sheeps wool. The wait: that long miserable wait has been excruciating, but it is finally over.

Each man holds his breath as the guard nears his cell, silently praying to God for one letter, one solitary letter; thanking Him if He delivers, execrating Him if He doesn't. Then, somewhere down the aisle the guard abruptly says,"Jackson, Number". Its wasn't a question. The guard holds the letter before the prisoner's cell like a proverbial carrot before the starving jackass, waiting for the prisoners TDCJ numbers to match, then slides the letter under the cell door and casually moves on.

Each person stands at his cell door anxiously awaiting that small tidbit of information from his loved ones, like a condemned man waiting an 11 hour reprieve, and when the guard slowly passes by some unfortunate creature's cell door, his agonizing sigh is almost audible; a sigh every prisoner knows all too well.

The guard finally makes it to Bobs cell; Bob holds his breath, hoping... the guard just stands there, like the Almighty, then says," You've got mail" Bob utters his relief; calls out his ID number, and grins like a slobbering idiot once the guard leaves; happy and content with the reward bestowed upon him, and he furiously pumps his fist in the air; a token of victory. His friend, Joe, yells, "Get any mail, Bob?"
"Yep" He yells back, "gotta letter from mama"
"Well that's good boy, hops all's well."
"Yea, me too"

Such a typical day for a prisoner at mail call. The only regrets being Sundays' and holidays, when there is nothing to look forward to. But, the average prisoner isn't awash is perpetual pessimism when he doesn't receive any mail, he merely aniticipates the morrow.....
And, there's always the morrow....

Budwoman
10-03-2002, 02:54 PM
JODY

THIS IS SO VERY TRUE... I KNOW HOW MUCH MAIL MEANS TO BUTCH... HE REALLY GETS DOWN IF HE DOES NOT RECEIVE ANY.... I GUESS THIS IS THE ONLY REAL WAY THEY HAVE OF STAYING SANE. READING AND READING MAIL FROM THE OUTSIDE HELPS THEM SO MUCH.

DONNA

shalove
10-04-2002, 12:56 AM
I hear it every visit or phone call how he hasnt gotten mail. or he got my letter, or one from his daughter. he feels a little down when he doesnt get anything in the mail. that is why i make sure he gets something or maybe a couple letters in the mail so he feels better about it. i know since we got back together and worked things out he has looked forward to my letters because he could feel the love in them for real and he knows that everything is going to be ok.

Hilde Bogaerts
10-04-2002, 05:57 AM
jodygirl,
while I was reading this I could almost see the men talking and I could almost hear them....I write a lot to my boyfriend, I have to because we only see each other two times a year...letters mean everything to him...he reads all the time because it is true, he would get insane otherwise, he tells me that many times... just some written words from someone outside who cares about them...who make them feel loved and cared for...it is not much to do and it means so much, more then we ever can imagine...thank you for putting this message here for me to read so I again see the importance of writing all the time...I write a lot, but from time to time it is good to be reminded of what it means for them, so you will still write with the same feelings you wrote the very first letters years ago...

SSK
10-05-2002, 04:26 AM
what a beautiful story! i can see it right in front of me. the smile on the face when there is a letter, the dissapointment when there isnt any mail that that...the hope that there will be one tomorrow...
if my boy doesnt have a letter that day, he read an old one. my dear friend on D/R does the same. i write as ofter as possible (couple of times a week). and i have lots of cards here, and i send one of them every other day to D/R to let him know my letter is on his way and im thinking of him. its so easy, just write a short note in the card and it means sooooo much for the one who recieves it!!! imagine the smile on his face when the gaurd calls out his number...you've got mail!

Niightdrmr
10-05-2002, 02:09 PM
Makes you want to go hug your mailman!!! But this story is so true ....and makes you think about the ones who dont get any mail...how they must feel....

(Doing) Time
10-21-2002, 11:51 AM
How true.. how true.... and it's also vice versa! I LOVE receiving mail from Jerry....

....sad thing is when he's sent me mail and for some "unknown" reason... i just don't receive it.... generally happens when he's sent me stamps.

THAT... kinda sucks.

bryanssong
11-02-2002, 07:22 PM
i just increased the number of letters that i mail to bryan. even if it is a simple "i love you" on a half a sheet of paper. he is appreaciative. even though i dont write my "husband" i make our son write to him because i know he is not getting that much mail

danielle
11-02-2002, 08:04 PM
That was truly a touching piece. Thank you for sharing it.

DeDe
11-07-2002, 03:17 PM
THIS IS SO TRUE, I WRITE MY MAN EVERY DAY, AND IT GOES BOTH WAYS, I NEVER CARED ABOUT THE MAIL SO MUCH BEFORE AS I DO NOW. I KNOW HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO MY BABY TO GET HIS MAIL. SOMETIMES WHEN HES WRITING ME HE'LL STOP BECAUSE ITS MAIL CALL THEN HE'LL TELL ME IF HE GOT MAIL. SOMETIMES HE GETS NONE THEN HE MAY GET A FEW ALL AT ONCE. ONE TIME HE GOT 15 LETTERS IN ONE DAY AND HE THOUGHT I WASN'T WRITING. IT WAS THE DAMN MAILROOM WHERE HE WAS AT. THANKS AGAIN FOR SHARING WITH US ALL. MAIL IS VERY IMPORTANT TO US ALL. I LOOK FORWARD TO COMING HOME FROM WORK AND GOING STRAIGHT TO MY MAILBOX, AND I KNOW MY BABY LOOKS FORWARD TO MAIL CALL EVERY DAY.

DE DE

nanuu99022
11-09-2002, 01:55 PM
Thank you for sharing that wonderful story. I write to my man 2 or 3 times a week. It is nice to be reminded how much it means to them to get mail. I also recently wrote to his cell mate because he told me that the guy doesn't get letters very often. Thanks again