i CALLED DOWN TO THE REGIONAL OFFICE AND TOLD THEM MY STORY, SHE ASKED ME WHAT REASONS WAS i GIVEN AS TO WHY WE WERE DENIED. aND i TOLD HER THAT i WAS MATURE ENOUGH AND COMPETENT TO MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS, AND THAT IF i WAS WILLING TO WAIT ON HIM UNTIL HE GETS OUT THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE ABLE TO TELL US HOW WE FEEL ABOUT EACH OTHER AND I KNOW ABOUT HOW SOME INMATES TRY TO USE WOMEN, BUT i KNOW THAT RAYMOND IS NOT ONE OF THEM. i CAN TELL WHEN SOMEONE IS FAKING IT. WE ARE VERY MUCH IN LOVE. AND THAT i HAVE BEEN A WIDOW SINCE 1987, AND I KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO NOT HAVE SOMEONE WITH YOU. WILL KEEP YOU POSTED. :pissed:

don't give up girl!! :)