Guess Waht???
April 17th 2004 is the date My love WILL be home!!!!!!
GOT A LETTER TODAY SAYING HIS DAD RECIEVED VISIT FROM HIS NEW PAROLE OFFICER AND HE WILL BE HOME SOON-LATEST IS 4/17/04!!!!

tHIS IS REALLY THE END YOU GUYS!!!!

I can't believe its finally happening!!!!!

hURRRRRRAY!!!!

ali from Austin :cool:

CONGRATS! I am so happy for you! (Jealous too!:argh ) Keep us posted on your JOY! :dance:

I AM SOOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH!! And of course very jealous. How bad are the butterflies right now? :)

Congratulations.. I bet you are jumping for joy!!!

Wow, congrats! How long did you wait?

Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Deb

Congratulations!! I want kno to how long did u wait?

Congratulations joeslilbaby!!!! I'm so happy for you. The months are flying by, it will be here before you know it. I can't wait when I post that my man is coming home. I wish you the best.

Awe, Thank God For You That Is So Nice To Hear Good Luck How Long Did U Wait After The Paorle Officer Came Out, Cause My Husbands Po Was Here Last Night And Approved His Home Plan, Now I Have To Wait For Him To See The Parole Board Right? I Dunno.

Congrats!!!!!!! I am sooo happy for you!!!!!!!! I can't wait until my one month count down!!!!!!!

wooooo hooooo
Congrats!

Congrats to the two of you, it's so good to hear good news. Now hurry up April 17th and get here already,lol.

congratulations!!!! im so happy for you!! i know your so excited. that is really great news. im counting down with you!! get ready and good luck keep us posted.

Congratulations!!! I wish both of you great success.

Thank You!!!! All of you!
For those wondering, He went in with 2year sentence.
The day the parole officer actually went to father in law's house was 1/24/2004.
One quick thing- All of the status line's and even the ombudsman's office - still shows that he is still waiting for a response....
So my good friend told me this simply means that unless he starting riots, and/or gets into trouble from this day on, he will infact be released on or before his PRD.

I am so happy!!!!!!!!
But hey you guys - I am kinda freaking out here too....
What is going to happen when he relizes so much has chaned? I mean our past is real messed up, he truly didn't desearve mu support over thi past year considering the things he's done to me.
But I love him and always knew that he would have to go to jail that it was enevadable- then he would get better and have time to view his life and everthing else in a clear, crisp view.

but things that went on before will not be accepted this time around.
Stuff that I put up with-(for lack of better phrase) will not ever be tolorated again.

I am scarred of what is going to happen...
I mean he has been a aprt of me and my life has revalved aropund us 4 going on 4 years now.....
I don't know what I am even asking here....
i am just scared`..
any words you know that might help the stress levels are wanted here!!!
Please, Thanks to everyone!
Alison

Girl Congrats!!! You must be soo happy!! One more month to go, it'll be here before you know it. I don't know your situation with what went on before, but I told my man that when he gets out if things go on like before he went in I will be gone because I refuse to put up with it. I myself put up with alot. You are just nervous right now, everything will be fine. If you ever want to talk PM me. Good Luck and take care!!!

Doing the Happy Dance!!
Congratulations!!
Let the "What ifs" and the unknown take care of themselves. They always do!
Keep us posted on what happens!

I told him the same thing- and i guess ya'll are right- and if it's meant to be it will be..
Still scawwwwwwed-though..
ali

Good luck to the both of you...I know how unsure and nervous about your future you are feeling...mine will be home next week and so much is hanging on his shoulders...be supportive and caring and patient and let him show you how he has changed and stay positive...

DO NOT let fear take control. Remain calm. your man is coming home and it is time to get ready. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

CONGRATS GIRL!!!
Everything will turn otu okay...you guys I learned to appreciate each other while being apart. Just getting through this has made your relationship stronger!! Watch and see the changes in both of you.
KEEP US UPDATED!!

(P.S can you change that letter and put my husbands info on it and forward it to my house) :) :) :)

Congrats, I am so happy for you, you are so lucky!

that is wonderful news!!!!!!!!!!! don't worry, just enjoy it and have faith!!!!!!!!!!!!

YAY!!! so many good men getting their chance this year! make the best of it and try to keep busy!! he will be home soon?!? that sounds great!

CONGRAAAAAAAATS!!!! :dance:

less than one month left!!!!

Congrats. Please don't fear the past, because the past has paved the way for your future. You have grown as a woman and this experience has made you so much stronger. Take each day as it comes and everything will be okay.

only 2 weeks left!!! yippie!

I'm doing the Countdown Happy Dance!!!

it's not a gracefull dance... but it is filled with happiness for you!!

Cannot even imagine the excitement you must be going through. Good luck!

I'm soooo happy for you! :fb:

Alison--a huge smile came on my face as I read your post. This is excellent news. just relax and get ready to enjoy his company full time, without the supervision of any COs. Wow--just writing excites me for the day my love come shome. Good luck with everything!

Congratulations!! I hope everything goes great!!

WHOOOOO HOOOOOO!!!!

The feeling will be incredible, I promise! You will also be a nervous wreck this next coupla weeks, cleaning, cleaning, and cleaning. Shaving the legs, getting your hair done, eye brows plucked, highlights, on and on. Stay busy.....Get sleep - cuz the last 2 days, you won't!!

I'm very happy for you! Sounds like there's many homecomings this month!

Can't wait to hear your story! Don't forget to come up for air and let us know EVERYTHING (well, you can leave out SOME stuff!)

Blessings!

Oh my God!!!!!
I have only 5 days left!! THATS 5 MORE DAYS PEOPLE!!!!
I AM WIGGGGGGGING OUT, BUT IN A GREAT KINDA WAY!
EVEN THOUGH MY LIFE IS NUTTZ RIGHT NOW IT'S OK- 4 SOME CRAZY REASON ... DEEP DOWN INSIDE I FEEL IT'S GOING TO BE OK, ALL WILL BE FINE...wHATS MEANT TO BE, WILL BE.
I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH, CANT WAIT TO JUST HAVE MY FRIEND BACK.

THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HAS RESPONDED TO ME AND ALL MY MANY POSTS, YOU ALL HAVE BEEN HERE FOR ME, AND I WILL DO MY VERY BEST TO DO THE SAME FOR ANY OF YOU ALL.

ALL MY LUV,
-Ali from Austin

Congratulations!!!

All the best to both of you,
Patty

CONGRATS girl!!!! Only 5 more days WOOOO-HOOOOO!!!!

after all that he did nothing but turn into the same joe he has always been...
even now in Aug. he text messaged me -"summer and I are together, so im sorry..."
hes in dallas completelly got back into his old life left me here homeless with no where to go- and summer is a whor* he used to screw behind my back that i found out about before prison...he's such a peice of sh*t. but i dont need him anymore.
just still drives me nuts- how can somone after all i did for them do sh*t like this for no other reason than to try and hurt me??? after all i did for him. i dont get how people are and how truly evil they can be...i guesds i must accept the fact there is good asnd evil in the world and some people truly are not good inside nor out.. so i need to quit trying to find good in them for it just doesn't exist....
any one else care to tell me any other theorys>?

Like you, I can not believe that he would/could do such a thing. But yes, we know it does exist in this world we live in. I am so sorry he took your love and used it for his gain. You on the other hand have done all you can do and now it is time to take the lesson God has given you and become a better person for it. My man is coming home soon and like you, i can not forsee him doing such a thing. I'm sure hindsight is revealing to you the red flags you had faith in. But nevertheless, you WILL be a better person because of this.

One more thing. If/when you decide to give your heart to another, please do not go over board or underboard because of this incidence. The first incarcerated man :) yeah there are two. :), ne way, The first guy tried to use me up and i wasn't having it. the second guy is my soulmate. :D

I hope you come back and post and i thank you for the update. i feel led to get online for a reason now ;).

Sorry to hear that things turned out the way they did. Take consololation in the fact that you haven't wasted to much time now on him and move on with your life. You are obviously a GOOD person and it's his loss!

Take care,

Sheila