I was just wondering if anyone has any ideas that I could use to show my man in other ways just how much I love him. It's hard because I can't send anything in. I can order books from a book store, but that's it. I can send him cards which I do frequently. I write him poetry. I write him letters every day, I talk to him every day, I visit him once a week, etc... I know he knows I love him very much, but I'd like to do something different for him, but I'm not sure what. I'm looking for ideas. If anyone could help, I'd appreciate it.

Thanks

i send my husband lyrics to songs that i hear that remind me of him. i take pictures of everything. things that we wouldnt think that means that much. like trees our yard our truck our dogs. little things that we see everyday. they live in such a stale and bland enviroment every day. take a camara with you one day and just take pictures of everything through out the day and send them to him. it will make him feel he is there with you. if you dont have a camara they sell disposible ones. print things off the computer that you think is intresting. jokes articles what ever. send him a care package of just stuff he can rumage through. i hope this helps. it sounds like you are doing a lot already. i wish i could see my man every weekend it is just so far away for me.

Thank you Mlk2001. I send him pictures periodically of me and my son, but I never thought to send him pictures of things I see every day, like trees, the dog, etc...I guess those are just things I take for granted. I carry a disposable camera around in my purse just in case. Like I said, I've never thought to just pictures of every day things. I sure wish I could send him a care package. The prison he's in here does not allow anything to be sent in. The only thing we can send in is books and they have to be sent in by the bookstore and we can't touch them. They have strict rules. It just plain sucks b/c I feel like my options are so limited. I'm sure I'm just missing the big picture. I'll definitely start taking more pictures for him of the every day things.
Thanks again.

not a problem. i didnt mean a care package of item like food or anything. put something together on paper. like jokes, news info, just a bunch of stuff that will take them time to rummuge through and read. stuff he could show other people hes around. i am constantly printing things off of the computer even though i dont think its a big deal. i send it to him. can he get a magazine subscription? get one of those sent to him. just ideas. i hope he likes them.

Thanks. I misunderstood what you were suggesting. I'm kind of slow sometimes. = ) Those darn blonde moments. I think I will try printing some stuff off for him and see what he thinks. I guess the worst scenario is he won't like it, then I won't do it anymore. I'm going to try it. he doesn't want a mag subscription. I odn't know why, but whatever. I think it's b/c he doesn't want me to spend more money on him than I already do, but I dont mind. If I have it I spend it if not, then he goes w/out til I do. Know what I mean? I'm going to try all of things you suggested. Thanks again.

I send letters, cards, poetry, song lyrics, jokes, articles - anything I can find. I also, do the camera thing. I take pictures of the obvious stuff, me and the dogs, but I also carry it around with me (I have a digital one, so it makes it less expensive because I don't have to get them developed) but I take pictures of places I go, things I see, my office at work, anything. I also take a picture of myself every morning so he can see me on my way to work. I will try on different outfits and then send him the pics and ask what he thinks, just anything I can think of. Let's see what else...magazine subscriptions, crossword puzzles and word searches and I even make him some myself. We have games that we play through the mail. I can't send him books unless they come from a bookstore too, but I found a way around that. I went to a local bookstore and got some of their business cards with their logo on it. I scanned it into my computer and designed mailing labels and I also designed a fake company invoice with their logo on my computer and that way I just send him books that I have here at home, ones that I buy and read first or books that I get at used stores,etc. I just package them, put the invoice inside, use the labels and make sure to take it to the post office so it has their postage on it and not a bunch of stamps. He gets them so it is working. I make him stuff too, like calendars etc.

Hope this gives you some ideas. :)

How about putting a little I love you message in your local newspaper...shouldn't cost too much...clip it out and mail to him...

MRSMAZE that is a good idea! I havnt heard that one! I might have to try that.

I did this for Valentines..but it was a good idea so I will share.
I made coupons that he can use while he is there. They were for free x-rated pictures (which he sent back first) :) one was for a free erotic letter one was for no panties on visitation day. (he really like that one :) I just thought of stuff we could use while he was "in"

I print out the daily love is from this web site http://www.comicspage.com/loveis/index.html and send it to him. If it reminds me of us, I write a note on it. He really likes them. I send him stuff on things he is interested in. I send postcards, paper models of cars, motorcycles. Articles about those items as well. I make photo journals for him "A day in the life of" taking pictures of everything I do through out the day. I send him notes from the kids, cards. I send him history of different days (like Valentines day, Halloween, etc.) I have also sent games, stories and other junk for us to send back and forth. I cut out magizine articles that I find interesting and send it to him. We did a this ad reminds me of you because group and that was fun, with what the other person saw about us. I did a group of silly body part pictures. James loves feet, so I took a bunch of pictures of my toes in different color polish and told a story with each color and told him to pick which one he liked. (he loved that one). I need my hands, pictures in different views and photo copied them and told him to put them where ever he wanted. We had fun with that one as well. I am sure you have seen the www.pillowmail.com, threads but for errotic stories it is great. Hope this helps.

I did something for Rich not too long ago. I found out what radio station he listens to and made a dedication to him. Oh he loveeddd it!! All his boys heard too so he felt very special.

I think everything you are doing shows a lot of love and dedication, but I understand wanting to do that extra something to let your man really know how loved he is. The newpaper idea is great!
I went to the beach with my kids one time, and while they were playing in the water I decided to write me and my hubands name in the sand and draw a big heart around it - then I took a picture and sent it to him. He said he liked it because it showed that he was on my mind where ever I went. I also will write him while I'm visiting my mom or at the park, and let him know that's where I am. It gives him the feeling of always being thought of.

I did this for Valentines..but it was a good idea so I will share.
I made coupons that he can use while he is there. They were for free x-rated pictures (which he sent back first) :) one was for a free erotic letter one was for no panties on visitation day. (he really like that one :) I just thought of stuff we could use while he was "in"

A good way to get in sexy pics to your man is to be creative since most facilities are very strict on any type of nudity. One of my mans favorite pictures I had done by an adult photographer.... this works great if your man wears "blues". Wear light blue panties and a short sleeve chambray shirt just like they wear. Have the pic taken from just below your hip line so the top part of the panties show but nothing else, and have the shirt completely unbuttoned but covering your breasts so only the cleavege shows. To top it off, get your hair wet and have that just-got-out-of-the-shower look and have the water dripping down the shirt. Very hot.

Babygirl That Was A Great Idea!!!

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I went to starregistry.com and named a star after him. He also appreciated postcards with places I traveled or where I live. I have also went on lovingyou.com they have wonderful e-books for $4.99 and I printed one out with Missing you and loving you. It had different background scenery with quotes and other loving things. Good Luck! I like that special picture suggestion. Thanks.