Hi,all my son is getting married Monday March 8,2004.He was finally approved.He is being married in Vandalia Missouri.Does anyone know what to expect?Can they get pictures?And have a visit?Im only asking because i will be performing there wedding,not only as the mom but the minister.And this is my first one.If anyone could kind of let us know what to expect please do.Thank you's all so much,the mom the minister.