Well I have two peices of good news. I confirmed that anthony and I will have a contact visit this saturday and guess what else. That little situation with the warden not wanting me to come on the unit for court is resolved. The regional director advised the warden that I could come to the unit for Anthony's court date. I am so stoked>>> Yeah :)

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YOU GO GIRL!!!

sherri

Sherry I love you.. I am laughing and crying all at the sametime because of you.. What a gift you have been to me today.. God Bless you......

I LOVE U 2--AND GOD BLESS YOU TOO. I KNOW HE WILL BLESS YOU REAL GOOD-YOU ARE A GOOD WOMAN

SHERRI

WOOOOOOHOOOO! After the rain there is always a rainbow!!! Shortie I do not know if oy u are a religious person but these two verses have helped me and Stephen hang on in tough times Romans 8:18 and 8:28..jus thought I would share them with you...I will keep praying for you guys!! love ya!!

Shortie.... YEAH!!!!! I am SOOOO happy for you!!! You made MY day!!!! I am so glad we can share in each others good moments!!! Thanks for sharing!! I can't wait to hear all about it! :D

Ok so I want to know.. how did you get a contact visit???? I would give anything to be able to hug my husband!

peach isnt your husband in a coutny detention center still? I think that is why you cant have a contact visit..steph is in county as well and we only get "behind the plexiglass visits"...waitng for when he goes "up" and then we can have longer better visits

I am proud of all of you. Sorry I have not been keeping up with things, but my health is sort of bad right now.

Keep on Keeping on girls. You are doing a great job. May God bless and keep you all....

Donna

Once he is moved Gapeach you will get a contact visit depending on the states procedures. Anthony had to be a minium custody and a line 1 before we could have ours. It is a lot of work on his part.

hey you know JD that i am going to let you know how it goes. I am so excited I can barely contane myself. It makes some of the more serious stuff a little easier to deal with. I always try to look for the best in things even though it may not always be easy.

Just a few more days shortie!! :D

haven't been here since a few days,...when will you visit your man, shortie?

I know how it feels to finally get a contact visit. David was gone for over a year before I could hug and kiss him for the first time. I am soooo happy for you. Be prepared to cry and cry and cry. The pure joy of feeling your loved one for the first time in so long is the most intense and wonderful feeling.
I hope you have a great visit!!!!
God Bless

I get to see him on SUNDAY.... Daves wife I am going to experience it 10 times that becuase this is the VERY FIRST TIME I WILL EVERY HUG AND KISS HIM. Ya I said the first... So I know it is going to be intense. I am such a wreck thinking about it... After the last week of events in my life I could say it did not come at a better time...

You have got tears in my eyes..what a story!! fell in love and got married and never even touched--how beautiful!!!! You have such a special bond..I am so excited for you!!

It is truly amazing how God does things.. I never though that I would love an inmate yet here i am so in love it hurts.. It is nice because I never had pre-marital sex or anything.. So I am glad on that level.. I just wish I could have post marriage sex.. LOL :) But I will settle for a hug and kiss right now...

I am so nervous I have my first contact visit in 2 1/2 days.. WOW>>>> HELP me calm dowm... I am scared...

Shortie.... I can just imagine your excitement right now!! Holy butterflies... I will SO be thinking of you!! I am going to travel all night Friday night to see JD on Saturday and then turn around and drive 7 hours back home.... A good friend of mine is going to go with me to meet him (which is exciting... and I am happy to have company on the drive)...
I know as I am in my no contact visit you will be getting to hug and kiss Anthony... I am sure I will tell JD all about your visit DURING my visit... :) Not long now girl... don't worry... I know it will be all you have hoped and dreamed for... Just enjoy it.... :D

I am nervous for you..hahait is going to be so good for you to feel his arms wrap around you....JDs have a grea visit too..tell both your guys I am praying and thinking of them!!!

Ok it is like less then 36 hours and I will be visiting him. Hey jd have a good visit and I will be telling anthony about you two.. Hey you are not alone on the drive we are all right there with you. Let me know how it goes ok

Amelia was already asking me how my visit went and this is what I told her:Well I was trying to get to the post but I have been gone so long that i am trying to catch up on everything.. Let me say I am still weak. to be able feel his touch was like one other.. Our visit was amazing and let me say well worth the wait. I finally sealed my vows with a kiss today and I can still feel his lips and his satin soft skin rubbin my hand and my arms.. I felt so safe yet I was amongst some of the strangest people.. Let me say I am more in love with him now.

I can not express how much this visit ment to me.. Anthony was so great and the prison was really cool about our contact if you know what I mean.. No we did not do anything indecent but the thought did cross my mind like every 3 seconds..LOL

The boys rushed him first and then I stood there and just smiled and he said I love you Mrs. Higgins. I almost fainted and my heart droped.. He said come here baby and let me hold you.. I almost started to cry... I maintained myself because I know it is hard for him to see me like that. When we sat down tears were flowing from my eyes and he rubbed them off and said he can feel me.. Our visit was such a needed thing and i am so glad that we finally got to seal our vows and make this union official..

Thank all for all of your support it is so appreciated and I want to say I am greatful to have each and everyone of you in my life..

Shortie, your story brought a big smile to my face and tears in my eyes. I can so imagine how it must have been, and I can so understand how you 2 must been in love so much more! Your story makes me want to hug you, for real! :D

hey that is cool but no hug will ever feel like anthony's.. Now that I know that feeling it is so hard not to want it all the time.. But here is a big hug from me to you XXXXXX

hey, I won't even start to try to match up with Anthony :D but thanks for the hug, feels good heheeh

you are welcome

Shortie,
I am so happy for you! I truly have tears in my eyes! Just the way you worded your post...love was felt. I wish you and anthony and your boys all the happiness in the world!
Michelle

thank you michelle you should read the letter I just got from anthony.. He is so excited about how the boys reacted to our first contact visit. They have just taken to him and really love him.. I am so glad that they are able to form a bond dispite the fact that he is in prison. I loved seeing them interact together. It is such a great feeling.

Hey Shortie, I am so proud that you were able to do this. I know what it must have meant to you. I know how I felt the first time that I saw Danny and it was the first time I met him, kissed him and hugged him all at one time and I was breathless to say the least. You just remember that now that you have the visits you MUST be extra cautious to stay on guard so that NOTHING messes those visits up. There are some guards that will try to provoke an inmate into saying or doing things that can cause their visiting privilages to be suspended, not saying that this will happen to the two of you, JUST BE CAREFUL. Now that you have experienced it you KNOW that nothing is worth risking losing the visits for. Again congratulations.

Well we never lost the visits. In texas to have contact visits you have to be next of kin or spouse. So it was nice to accually experience my husband for the 1st time. I will never lose these visits.. there is a female gurad that calls herself liking anthony and she hates on us when every I come down. Those guards are something else..

about those female guards...don't want to upset anybody with this question...but I heard something that some of those guards let prisoners pay to have sex with them?

Shortie, you probably told us many times before, but it's still early, so my memory needs to get warmed up, so I'll ask again: what prison is Anthony in?

Anthony is in East Ham down out side of Huntsville. Yes the guards go amazing things, then when other inmates want them and they don't want them they write them up for stalking.. Go figure.. Most of the guards are cool but you have that handful that spoil the basket.. I know of several rotten guards at east ham.. We are talking about things they bring in for the inmates and things they do with the inmates.. To this day I will always trip...

Soraya,
Marco told me a few stories from when he did time in the early 90"s in NY. Inmates would have theire family send a $ order to a co's house and have the receipt send to them, then the receipt was like a ticket. They would meet in like the gym or something when it was empty and do their thing.
Now I was under the impression that prostetution was illegal in most US states,lol

hmmm...I thought so too LOL...oh well..I guess some guys had fun, to say the least! I just wondered if these stories were true

All I'll say it that they are true,lol

they are very real and very true... Some people believe in the payoff... if you know what I mean