I hope everyone that reads this replys... if your husband/boyfriend was home what would be the first vacation/place you and him would go to? hobbies/things to do together... nights at home or go out to dinner/movies/plays... whatever...

your goals together, where would you reside??? what kind of job would he get?

my husband would start his exterminating business again. we would go to italy and florida/vegas to visit family... we decided that we would go out to dinner like twice a week, bowling, work out together... paul works out everyday... we would play tennis/ go to plays in the city/walk around the city...

ah, what dreams.. hopefully in 11 years it will be a reality...

Well we want to go to mexico to see the temples and pyramids...also we want to open a business and do lots of traveling. We would live in Texas and that means I would move back home. When he comes home I am going to treat him like a King. I am going to rent us a weekend stay at one of the condos on the beach and i am going to make him a beautiful dinner...he wants me to cook for him. His parents are gonna help him get a job at the airport cuz he stepdad is a pilot. Also he wants to have his own tattoo shop.

We would go back to San Francisco where we went for a Niner Vs. Bronco football game! Same hotel and everything!

I would like to take him to the Rock-n-Roll Hall of Fame in Cleveland OH.

Travis and I have never been on a cruise and we want to that when he comes home. We also want to go (possibly live?) in Alaska. We love it up there and kind of want to get away from all the craziness here at home.

We plan on working out together, joining a pool league together and doing as much camping/hiking/biking that we can.

The very first place we're gonna go is to the bedroom and work on making a baby. :D

I have a tiny little house that needs to be remodeled. We are going to tackle that when he comes home. Eventually once he's off parole we will sell the house and move south to warmer weather.

We will be spending a lot of time at home, working on the house and yard, doing a LOT of work in the bedroom :D He has never been on this side of the state so there's lots of places to explore and visit. We bot enjoy museums and art festivals. Of course he will be getting a Harley so we will be puttin down the road a lot!

We aren't sure of what kind of job he will get at first... he will take what he can get. Eventually he wants to design and build motorcycles.. maybe he will do tattoos also.

mrs d

There's a really low key resort/spa in southern Mexico where I'd like to take him for a couple of weeks...they do lots of healing stuff...then we would just want to find some land and retreat. I can write anywhere, he's really handy with lotsa stuff, and we are both pretty disgusted with Society right now...but that's all more long term. Short term...nearest bed or other level surface LOL

We have discussed these things a lot. First thing we would do is spend one month in the house NAKED for the most part (I actually have enough vacation time to make this possible! And I'm sure after 11 more years I could spend a few months!) As far as vacations, I've always wanted to go to Scotland and he wants to go to a spa. More than anything though, we just want to do normal every day stuff together. Nothing special, just living and spending time together and appreciating every moment of it!

Just to hold each other in one anothers arms without a time limit.

i like the part about holding each other without a time limit. i too have a little house that i'm in the process of remodeling right now. home will be a big thing--because after 15 years of being on the inside--when he first gets out he is not going to want to go to too many places-- we've actually been through this before. he last bid was 12 years, he was home for 8 and now he will be back in for 15. we will either reopen our cleaning service, or he will join me in my stained glass window making and repair. we'll order in for delivery (alot! :) )

Where would I take him? To the park. Thats right..the park... no crowds, no fancy clothes, no long trips... why? Because I once asked him what he missed the most... His answer: "Being able to wake up in the morning, and drawing a breath of "freedom" and deciding what I WANT to do for the day...instead of being told what to do.... " I would take him to the park, let him breath in the fresh air, and have him decide where he wanted to go, or what he wanted to do....

He wants to come to France by boat and not on a plane, just to have some time together. Hopefully, I could afford a good cabin on the Queen Mary 2. :)

I spend a lot of vacations in South West France, and I sent him a lot of pics, and he would like us to buy a small farm with a yard and remodel it, and our dream would be to turn it into guest rooms during summer.

Before this dream comes true, I don't really know concerning the job. First he will have to learn french, and it's not possible in prison, even if I pay for private classes. He will need tapes or CDs, and it's a big NO NO !!! :mad: The manager of the security at the flea market kinda likes me, so I guess he could work there for a start. After all; he's got big muscles !! :D

We will also go to Italy since he's Italian, but has never been there. Bella and her man are supposed to welcome us over there. :)

Phil

James and I would take a couple of weeks and go to the Virgin Islands. Then we both want to build a log cabin on a secluded piece of land in North Georgia. near his family, not too near though. He has done construction/capenter work for most of his life. He would like to do that again. But he also told me that he would love to be the captain of his own charter fishing boat. So I told him it didn't matter to me what he wants to do. I will support him. I mean I can do my photography any where. But we have a whole list of places we want to go and see and do together. And knowing him we will do it all once he's home!! Its good to have dreams and someone with which to make them all come true!! :) Spikeswife

We have so many plans and talk about all the different things we are going to do, but I have to say the first place I want to take him (when he's ready to leave the house) is to Disney World, he'd love it and i can't wait to see the expression on his face. He's never seen a place like Disney :) (he went in when he was 16, he hasn't been to many places).

We would probably go rent a motel for a couuple of nights, then go around to all the family so they could meet him and get to know him and the same on his side. He is looking forward to just spending some quality time together at first, then he will have to find a job or go to work for his brothers. They have construction businesses. He wants to do all the cooking for me, he is a good cook, he also said he would help me with the housework if I need help. I love him so much I cant hardly say it in words. Mine has possibly 12 more years to do , but hopefully we can get a sentence modification soon or an early parole review. Keep us in your prayers! :)

Hopefully he will move to canada with me. Which I know would be better for him and he is leaning that way. then we would tack up my horses and go for ride.
~~Ride Free~~
As for work he is very talented. But I work for two different companies so he can do that or pick whatever his heart wants to do. I just can't wait to chill and hang with him and talk talk talk... without the $4000.00 dallor phone bills...
Wow I miss him
Believe in yourself and you will be the creator of your destiny..
Witty

Well I would love to say that our first stop will be the hotel but it's not going to be that way. The first thing he wants to do is go visit his grandmom grave she died while he was locked up and he wants to go to her grave. Than I guess we will have time than he wants to see his son. Our after prison plans are to get married if we don't get married before he gets out. He put in the paper work we are waiting for the word back. He's mom owns over 15 homes so she wants him to work for her. She told him that she would give us one of her homes to live in. His dad also has a job for him and a house for him so I guess it which one is better. I live with my mom so this will be a big change for me. We are going to rent a cabin in the mountains some where and just be alone no crowds no kids just us. We plan on sitting at home and watching 13 years of movies he has missed lol.

My husband told me that on the way home I have to take him to Wendy's so he can have a real cheeseburger, lmao! So after our romantic dinner at Wendy's who knows where we'll go. lol

My Boo, he also wants to go to the park. He wants to spend a couple weeks quiet, close to nature, maybe rent a cabin. I hope in seven years, that I will be teaching, I also write, my book is going through its final rewrite now. He wants to work with Juvenile Offenders, and to speak out on the system. We will live, some where around Atlanta, I'm going to be finishing up stuff, in New England and selling my house, over the summer. When he's off supervision, we want to go on a cruise, he's been on several, and Baby grew up a military brat, so he has, lived all over the world. I've only been here, in the US Mexico, and PR, PR and PR! He just said to me, on the phone; Baby, I need a year, to be with just you, I don't even want to talk, to anyone else.