terrysheart
01-28-2004, 05:13 PM
As a few of you may know, I am new to PTO, and I love this site..
My boyfriend, Terry is set to come home in 12days and a wake up call.
We thought it would be about a month and a half, because he got a DR and got time in the hole, but Thank God, he's on the 65% and they didn't take Jan
gain time from him, so he gets to come home sooner than we thought.
I am having so many mixed emotions, such as I have to hear from him, everyday to know he's alright or I freak and think the worst. ( I dont mean to but, he''s been in trouble recently alot) or I worry that, I won't have everything he needs when he gets home. Or how hes going to adjust and how I am going to adjust. Do I give him space? Or do I be there at hes every need?
I love him so much and I am so scared, that something is going to happen to him or that the adjustments for both of us is going to be hard. We talk about it all the time. And he says, he will be fine, but hes coming home to me, a new baby and a step daughter and our son.
If anyone has any advice PLEASE post ASAP.. I know to love him and give him support, what else should I or shouldnt I do.
Thanks for listening and Thanks for PTO.. I love you all.............Tina
He had me from hello...........
He's home in 12 days and a wake up call......
My boyfriend, Terry is set to come home in 12days and a wake up call.
We thought it would be about a month and a half, because he got a DR and got time in the hole, but Thank God, he's on the 65% and they didn't take Jan
gain time from him, so he gets to come home sooner than we thought.
I am having so many mixed emotions, such as I have to hear from him, everyday to know he's alright or I freak and think the worst. ( I dont mean to but, he''s been in trouble recently alot) or I worry that, I won't have everything he needs when he gets home. Or how hes going to adjust and how I am going to adjust. Do I give him space? Or do I be there at hes every need?
I love him so much and I am so scared, that something is going to happen to him or that the adjustments for both of us is going to be hard. We talk about it all the time. And he says, he will be fine, but hes coming home to me, a new baby and a step daughter and our son.
If anyone has any advice PLEASE post ASAP.. I know to love him and give him support, what else should I or shouldnt I do.
Thanks for listening and Thanks for PTO.. I love you all.............Tina
He had me from hello...........
He's home in 12 days and a wake up call......