HELLO:

JUST A FEW MINUTES AGO, BUTCH WAS ABLE TO CALL ME FINALLY... HE IS OUT OF LOCK UP TODAY.... THE PRISON SUPERINTENDANT PROMISED ME FAITHFULLY THAT HE WOULD BE MOVED TODAY FROM SHELBY, NC TO ASHEVILLE, NC.

OF COURSE, HE HAS NOT... NOW THEY CLAIM THEY DO NOT HAVE ANY BEDS AT ALL IN MEDIUM CUSTODY... IN ANY PART OF THE STATE, SO, HE IS JUST ON THE YARD AGAIN WITH NO JOB AND NO VISITATION UNTIL NOV 16TH...

OF COURSE, COMMING OUT OF SEG, HE IS NOT IN ANY GOOD SPIRITS.... BUT I GOT HIM CALMED DOWN, BUT NOT BEFORE HE TOLD ONE OF HIS PROGRAMMERS OFF ABOUT THE STUPID WRITE UPS HE WAS GETTING...

HE WANTED ME TO THANK YOU ALL FOR THE POSTS THAT YOU GAVE HIM. HE SAID TO TELL YOU THEY REALLY HELPED HIM HANG ON DURING HIS SEGREGATION TRIP...


I SURE WISH HE WAS LESS LIKE ME RIGHT NOW THO AND WOULD KEEP THAT LITTLE MOUTH SHUT.... IF NOT, HE IS GOING TO BE LOCKED UP AGAIN... HE IS NOW TO THE POINT THAT HE DON'T CARE ANYMORE.... AND HE IS REALLY LETTING THEM HAVE IT.

PRAY FOR US, WE NEED IT RIGHT NOW..

MY LOVE
DONNA

Donna....
Well I am happy to hear that Butch is out of seg and that you were able to talk to him today....
Gosh... he just sounds soooo much like JD!!! ;)
Perhaps it is time I drop him another note.....
Hang in there Momma Donna.....

Hang in there - my thoughts and prayers are with you both! Glad you got to talk to him!

Donna- glad to hear Butch is out of seg- hope he gets his transfer soon-how's Renee ? You know all of you are always in my prayers.

Donna. I'm glad you got to talk to Butch and glad he's out of seg. I'm going to pray, right now.

Donna, Greay news. I got a letter from him, & I'm responding to it this week, & I'll tell him hi from everyone. I know what Butch is going through right now & two things will happen, they will come down hard on him again to try & prove some point, or they will realize that it doesn't do any good & will only cause them more work so they blow it off. Once they realized that it didn't bother me to go to Ad Seg anymore, they lightened up, & that meant I lightened up too. Hopefully things will mellow out for everyone. Take care-------Ken

Ms. Donna,
I am glad that Butch is out of Admin. Seg. . I hope, the System will leave your son alone and let his time be easier. I wish he could get a job of some kind for it would help pass the time. "Idle mind is the devils workshop."....38 Special..

you're in my thoughts, take care!!

so happy he's out of seg!!!! here's hoping to a quick transfer....

*hugs*

Soooo glad he's out of seg Donna!!! :) I hope his transfer follows quickly....you guys hang in there.

Good news. Tell Mr. Butch that it is better to file those grievances on forms than to verbally file them! LOL

I know how hard it is to keep your cool on the inside... Hopefully Butch will get that transfer soon. Im' prayin for ya both.

Jodygirl

Donna,

So happy to see Butch is out of seg, now hopefully this transfer will happen quickly. You are all in my prayers, keep us updated!

Val

THANKS SO MUCH GUYS.... YOUR SUPPORT HAS BEEN A HAVEN FOR HIM... ALSO, KEN, HE TOLD ME HE WROTE YOU A LETTER. HE SAID HE HAS ANOTHER ONE IN THE MAIL TOO.

WHEN HE GOT OUT ON MONDAY 9/16, HE TRIED TO CALL RENEE ALL DAY AND COULD NOT GET HER. HE FINALLY GOT HER ON TUESDAY 9/17 AT 10:00. THEY DID NOT TALK BUT 10 MINUTES. I TRIED TO GET HER ALL DAY TOO AND SHE WAS NOT AT HOME NOR DID SHE LEAVE HER ANSWER MACHINE ON. OF COURSE, SHE WAS THE FIRST ONE THAT HE WANTED TO TALK TO. I HAVE TALKED TO HIM FOUR TIMES NOW AND HE REALLY FEELS THAT SHE IS OUT OF HIS LIFE. HE SAID SHE WOULD NOT TALK TO HIM AT ALL ABOUT THEM AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP. SHE ONLY ASKED HIM QUESTIONS ABOUT HIS TIME IN SEG AND WOULD CHANGE THE SUBJECT EACH AND EVERY TIME THAT HE BROUGH UP THE SUBJECT OF HE AND HER. OH WELL, I HAVE TRIED TO GET HIM TO UNDERSTAND THAT THIS MAY HAPPEN. RENEE HAS GOTTEN TO THE POINT THAT SHE CANNOT HANDLE ALL THESE PROBLEMS. HER DEPRESSION LEVEL IS VERY LOW TOLERANCE AND SHE HAS HAD NOTHING BUT PROBLEMS SINCE HER RELATIONSHIP EVOLVED TWO YEARS AGO WITH BUTCH. OF COURSE, HE HAS HAD NOTHING BUT PROBLEMS TOO. I THINK THERE MAY BE ANOTHER MAN INVOLVED. I KNOW SHE IS A VERY LONELY YOUNG LADY (42) AND SHE WANTS HER LIFE TO GO ON. BUTCH WILL HURT FOR AWHILE, BUT HE WILL SURVIVE..

LOVE YA ALL FOR CARING

DONNA

donna- please know that we are with you and butch all the way.Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help in any way. I love you guys!

Hey, this is great news! I heard through the grape vine that Butch was out of seg. Now things can settle down for a change.

Tell butch that we are still here for him.. I do realize that doing the time is hard but waiting is hard too.. I will be praying for him to keep his cool... Hedge of protection around him and you... Love ya MOM

Hello Guys,
I just what everyone to know that everything Donna just posted about Butch and I not talking and me having someone else is a TOTAL OUT AND OUT LIE! BUDWOMAN has gone off on one of her crazed episodes again and Butch is very upset with her right now. I have stood by Butch for almost two years now and I will never walk away. I love him and he loves me.

Ken you know personally how Butch and I feel and if you what to hear the real truth just write Butch and ask him about his mother. She is a real piece of work and I guess she was stupid enough to think I wouldn't respond to this.

Donna, I don't appreciate your lies and your constant need to control your son's life along with mine.

Renee

By the way I have printed all of this for BUTCH so he can see what his Mother is doing.

Budwoman...

Sorry about your stress and worry over your son......but am happy for you and him that he got out of seg....pass on to him what Kconners and torrey said ...perhaps it will help him get through all the crap...I'll be prayin' for you both.

God Bless

RENEE CERNEGLIA

I ASK YOU TO GET OUT OF HIS LIFE NOW BEFORE YOU REALLY DO MORE DAMAGE.... PLEASE.

THIS IS BETWEEN YOU AND I... PTO ALREADY HAS FIGURED YOU OUT.

DONNA

Woah Woah Woah.. Lets not all go there... I don't think anyone has tried to figure anything out; I know I have not.
This is not a personal battle zone for anyone, two or three..
Keep it on support or take it someplace else. We're all concerned about how Butch is doing, and Renee & Donna as well.. But, I for one don't want to see a family conflict spread all over this thread.. I'm sure Butch wouldn't be happy to hear about it either. He has enough problems inside without having to worry about his mother and lady going at each other.

Well said, David.

David,

WELL SAID and I can't agree with you more. Such behavior is completely and totally inappropriate. To air another persons situation, regardless of whether right or wrong, is completely uncalled for.

I am a member of PTO and I have not figured out anything about Renee. I have no cause to judge her at all on this or any other issue.

No further comment, but trust me, opinions abound.

Jim

Thank you Fed-X for saving me the trouble! Because there was a louded gun sitting here!!!!!!!!!!!

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