Turns out my baby is not getting out untill March 04th. Now I'm pissed. Either he doesnt know or he's lying to me. I got a letter from him reminding me to hurry & send his parole clothes cause hes getting out feb 4th. Well I called the prison just to confirm the date because i'm picking him up and so have to take off work and they told me no, he gets out March 4th! I'm so frustrated. I've been waiting for 3 years so whats another month right? Well I was so excited that he would be here for Valentines Day, and maybe I'm just being selfish but my heart was so set on being with him sooner. Turns out he's in the hole right now for something " HE DIDN'T DO" (sure) and thats why he has another month.Its like, what is he sub consiously sabotaging himself, Screwing it up cause hes scared...or maybe hes telling the truth. I dont know maybe im over analyzing. It just makes me wonder if hes even changed. Its always him against the world ya know, a big conspiracy against him, thats why hes always getting in trouble while the rest of the world live moderately normal lives and stay OUT of jail. Its a big cop out & a lot of bullshit that I dont want to deal with. I just don't want to deal with shit like this when he gets out. I wont. Ok well im pissed and tired, maybe i;ll feel better in the morning...Sorry, had to vent! Well let me know if you think im over reacting.
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I don't think you are over reacting, you know this man and apparently you see he is using his situation as a cop out.. That woa is me attitude. My son is only 14 years old and he try's to do that is is never his fault..even when it is so clear he is at fault. I am trying to nip that in the bud now. I know you love your man and maybe he is not lying..Find out fact's first and if he is it's better that you know now... it is no big secret to you, You know what you have to look foward too.. Give a half a chance, and if he blow's it it's on him not you. You know you did everything in your power to make it work.
And as for the 30 day's... Now you have 30 more day's to figure out what you really want..
Good Luck i hope it all work's out..
And remember try to stay positive!!!! :)

I know just how you are feeling...my husband should have been home for Christmas, but he got a ticket and now has to stay until his actual release date of March 18, very disappointin...but compared to alot of very brave women on this site, the time that our men have left is nothing...Joy

I feel so bad for you.. My guys coming home in three weeks .. I know if he does anything to catch a ticket now.. I’d be devastated. I’ve waited 16+ yrs for this day to come, counting each and every day to his release date. Girl, I don’t know how I’d act if he ended up in seg now.. But I know what I’d have to say to him, couldn’t be posted here!!!

I don't think you're over reacting but also looking at it from inside, I've heard that when guys are getting ready to come home, alot of times people (other inmates, COs) try to sabotage them and do things intentionally to keep them there. My guy has been down for a very long time and he's told me stories about it over and over again ... as much as we hate to think it, it does happen. Thankfully, it's only another month, it will be here before you know it! :)

I know it is disappointing, I just had to add 60 days to my counter myself b/c my guy is in the hole. But realize it's a prison, and you don't know what happened, he could be telling you the truth. I told my man I'm on his side, I don't know what it's like to be in there, sometimes fights are almost unavoidable. Hang in there he'll be home very soon

I'm sorry sweetie...I hope you're feeling better. My man gets out on Sunday and if I had to wait even another month I would go crazy! My gosh...don't even want to think about it. But my prayers are with you. Don't give up hope on him...maybe he's just having a hard time with things. Good luck and God bless.

I am so happy for you all who's loved ones are coming home. I am going in next week, and wont be home for a good while.

Hi Everyone, Thanks For Your Support. I Guess I Am Lucky I Only Have To Wait A Month. It Could Be Alot Worse. Well, I Already Sent Him His Dress Outs, I Was Really Fun Shopping For Him & Being Able To Buy Him Clothes That I Like!! Anyhow, Im Over Being Mad, My Babygirl Can Be My Valentine! Another 37 Days And My Baby Comes Home!! Im Preparing & Hoping For The Best. Thats As Much As I Can Do Right? Talk To U All Soon!