emme
08-30-2002, 11:22 AM
Perhaps this is something someone knows something about...I know that I know nothing :)
My BF is going back for re-sentencing on Tuesday...he violated parole & expects the judge to sent him back to prison for the remainder of his sentence...his argue hopes to argue that what he did to violate parole was so minor that it is unreasonable for him to go back to prison...and keep him out of prison this time, or perhaps reduce the amount of time he has to go back for, or maybe get him sent back to a halfway house...or what have you...
I hope I have presented that accurately...
The lawyer admits that it might be "helpful" if I write a letter on my BF's behalf..."it probably won't do anything..." but...I'm certainly willing to give it a shot...
I'm uncertain about what to say, however...
I know not to be emotional and say "Oh, he's great, I want to be with him so let him come be with me...":)
So I'm thinking things along the lines of: he can live with me; I'm a "good" person (never been in trouble with law); (What makes me a "good" person anyway?); I could provide him with a place to live, stability, financial support for a little while at least, he'd be better off with me than in prison because it would be more rehabilitative (?), we'd be saving the taxpayers money, he could pay his restitution sooner...I don't know. Am I on the right track? ANY advice would be so WELCOME.
I am kind of freaked out about all of this and I appreciate your support.
Thank you.....
Emme
My BF is going back for re-sentencing on Tuesday...he violated parole & expects the judge to sent him back to prison for the remainder of his sentence...his argue hopes to argue that what he did to violate parole was so minor that it is unreasonable for him to go back to prison...and keep him out of prison this time, or perhaps reduce the amount of time he has to go back for, or maybe get him sent back to a halfway house...or what have you...
I hope I have presented that accurately...
The lawyer admits that it might be "helpful" if I write a letter on my BF's behalf..."it probably won't do anything..." but...I'm certainly willing to give it a shot...
I'm uncertain about what to say, however...
I know not to be emotional and say "Oh, he's great, I want to be with him so let him come be with me...":)
So I'm thinking things along the lines of: he can live with me; I'm a "good" person (never been in trouble with law); (What makes me a "good" person anyway?); I could provide him with a place to live, stability, financial support for a little while at least, he'd be better off with me than in prison because it would be more rehabilitative (?), we'd be saving the taxpayers money, he could pay his restitution sooner...I don't know. Am I on the right track? ANY advice would be so WELCOME.
I am kind of freaked out about all of this and I appreciate your support.
Thank you.....
Emme