Thumper81
12-16-2003, 09:28 PM
ok my soon to be husband in 15 hours was sentenced to 6 years flatten in 4 years and i was wondering i mean i know the transition is awful and takes a while to get used to but is EVERYTHING hard to adjust to i mean will i or he forget how to make love i know that sounds crazy or stupid but i already know how hard it is to find a job and the looks people give him when they find out he's a felon i was just worried that i may forget or he may forget something that gave us so much pleasure at one time i dont want to make him or myself uncomfortable about that part of our lives because i know a lot of other little things will thanks for listening jayme
dkr55
12-16-2003, 09:31 PM
i think not it's like riding a bicycle you never forget might be a little shaky on the first take off but soon you'll have your balance.don't fret.
You know, my boyfriend gets out of prison next month. His total amount of time gone will be about 18 months. Not long by ANY means, however, I am nervous about that aspect of our relationship too. When he was home, we never had any problems. But now.....
Hey, it's just like riding a bike right??? :)
Thumper81
12-16-2003, 09:35 PM
thats what im hoping thanks
toi_ama
12-17-2003, 09:46 AM
Just relax and let nature take its course. Nobody ever forgets how to make love. They even know how on the first time they ever do it, so why would they forget? LOL
Thumper81
12-18-2003, 12:06 AM
i know i sounded stupid i am just worried about making everything as easy and normal for his tranxition you know and sex is a big part of his coming home at least thats what his letters say lol