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rosy961
12-07-2003, 01:33 AM
:pissed: Hi to all,I have lost my husband to a murder about 2 years ago .It seems like yesterday and we have 2 daughters now listen to this one.He gets his pay as he is a welder in the ironworkers union,and goes out for a beer /well this girl who sorta knows him is into coke bigtime.Well she invites him to her house for a beer so why not/at the time we had separated/.Now drugs were not his thing and being generous was so he spend oh about $100 or so on her drugs and some beer.Well 1 hour to 1 1/2 hours go by and he says this stuff doesn't do anything for me and he was going to be picking up one of his daughters the next day /something he never misses/.So i think he was going to go BUT she decides to take an axe and hit him 8 times in the head with the blunt end and proceeds to rob him of his money and car.O .K .Long story short /she is picked up 1 week later as his body was at her house and is charged with 2nd degree well the cops in this town were at fault as they pressured her into a confession as it goes.Now this girl is free and I am :pissed: What do I do?Someone has to pay for what was done to him as he was a good good man .Any advice would be great.This seems like a good site and I am new so it will take some time in getting to know all the goings on.Rosy

flygirlaa2
12-07-2003, 01:41 AM
Rosy, I wish I knew what to say. Unfortunately, in my beliefs, this world is unjust. There will never be justice in this life. She will pay the day she stands before God. I know that is not much comfort, but it is all I have to offer. I will keep you in my prayers. Please do not let her rob you of your inner peace as she has already robbed you of the father of your children.

tebkrg
12-07-2003, 07:49 AM
Rosy,

I have to agree with flygirlaa2 - she has spoken wisely!

Please also however recognize that as much as we feel your pain and your suffering in losing a loved one and your daughter's father, this is a site supporting the family, loved ones, and friends of Prisoners.

You are welcome here, but I wonder if this is your best resource for support?

My prayers go out to you and your family over your loss and your pain.

toi_ama
12-07-2003, 08:38 AM
Well, there's always a civil suit, but if she's a drug addict, you wouldn't get anything. This is a horrible story and I really don't know what to tell you. Sooner or later, though, one of several things will happen----

1. She'll do this to someone else and not get away with it.
2. She'll try to do it to the wrong person and they'll do her in.
3. She'll default on a drug debt and someone will kill her.
4. She'll die of her addiction or a disease gotten as a result of her lifestyle.

So any way you look at it, she's going to most likely pay for her crime in the long run.

stevesboo23
12-08-2003, 07:10 PM
HEY HUN,

I FEEL FOR YOU !! Unfortunatly , I dont think there is much you can do if they have already let her off! But liek someone else mentioned, don't let it rob you of your inner peace ! It sucks that it happened but you have to keep strong for your Girls!!!
Take care and if I can be of any help at all, send me a private message!!
Love,
Stevesboo23

sheera
12-10-2003, 05:23 PM
Hello,
this is my first time in this forum. I was wondering if someone could help me with a personal reference letter for my brother. My brother is in an facility for substance abuse and he has applied for a parole hearning. I would like to write a reference for him.
Any suggestions would be great

rosy961
12-11-2003, 06:21 PM
Thanks for all of the replys and yes some of them are so true.This woman who walks free and shouldn't will pay for what she did all in time.I do belong to a different forum helping me deal with this issue and it's working out good.Thanks again Rosy