Script Hey Everyone !!

I had a rough time the weekend before I got married because of course my family didn't approve of it. my grandmother really tripped. She said she isn't gonna do nothing else to help me financially with my nursing classes or get me a winter coat because I wanted to marry Amp. My mom even said she was gonna take my christmas gift back.i know in my heart that is what I wanted to do and I stuck to it no matter how much negative stuff was being said.

It was a very beautiful ceremony. We read our own vows and I saw a tear in his eye when I read my vows to him and I also had tears in my eyes when I heard his vows they really touched my heart and made me feel so good. We took alot of pictures there. I was so nervous I couldn't believe it. He tried to say he wasn't nervous but we all could tell he was. We had an hour visit after the ceremony.

awww. i am soon to be on that road!! we are considering NOT telling our parents until he gets out. My mom will have to know of course becasue she handles my financial situation, but i don't think he's ready or willing to tell his family yet.... we both know we are going to get earfuls!

Congrats!!! Very happy for you both!!

I honestly thought about not telling them at all and now I wish I had stuck to it because right now my family thinks i didn't marry him and I did. I just couldn't take their pressure anymore and I graduate from nursing school on the 22nd of January and I don't want to screw up on my grades because I have had the highest average in my class from the beginning and I don't want it to drop because of uneeded stress. I would have loved for them to be a part of this but they didn't want to hear my side of things.

CONGRATULATIONS to you and your husband! My best wishes to you both.

Congrats!!

mrs. d

Congrats!!!!!

Deb

CONGRATS

Congratulations! Your family has a choice. They can accept it or risk a relationship with you. My fam doesn't approve of my boyfriend but there isn't a damn thing they can do about it. Hey I figure if they can deal with my monster in law opps I mean sister in law they they can tolerate and learn to accept my man. I wish the best for you and Amp. When he gets out and you have children there tune will change no matter how much they disapprove. Just don't use a child as levereage my sister in law does that to my parents for the hate she has in me! Best of Luck!
Backshots Angel

Congrat. my man would love to marry me today but i think it is best to wait til he is out. My family don't really like it that i am seeing him now let alone get married to him. I feel like I am already married to him, I feel that close to him. Good luck, I wish ya the best.

My boyfriend and I are planning our wedding for when he gets out, which will be very soon. We decided that that's best. Some members of my family approve, some don't. It's not their choice to make. We are happy with each other and it is OUR life, OUR happiness and OUR choice to make. No one elses. Our wedding will be small and elegant. Frankly we don't care if anyone approves. We both are thankful to have met at this stage of our life after previous failed relationships that were approved of by friends and family because they APPEARED normal. In my case, both of my marriages were abusive. People make mistakes. My boyfriend made some bad choices, and he has paid dearly for them. He DOES NOT deserve to pay for those mistakes for the rest of is life. I am a very forgiving person, that's why God gave of the gift of meeting each other. My boyfriend is a real MAN and GENTLEMAN, and would never cheat on me or hurt me in ANY way. We trust and believe in each other. We know that we have what it takes to be together for life. The now over two years that we have spent getting to know each other have held many moments of rare beauty, beyond words. We write almost everyday, and I visit him every week. No sex to get in the way of our emotions. We have gotten to know each other for who we really are inside out. Yes, it has been rough, but we wouldn't trade all that we have experienced nad shared for anythibg in this world.

Our time to be together is just around the corner. The prison will file for his pre-release on 1/18/04. Just 35 short days from today is the begining of the end. We are now well on our way to realizing our dream of marriage and spending the rest of our life together.

So, all of you out there in waiting, I am praying for you. Pray and keep the faith, and GOD will answer your prayers. Please pray for us as well.

Blessings,

We are trying to gather info on how to get marreid in in each state and we dont have Virginia. Here is a list of questions I have for you and if there is anything else you could add that would be very helpful

1. Did you have any counsling
2. How long did the whole process take
3. Did you have to find your own minister
4. Were you allowed any flowers or disposable camera
5. How many guests were allowed to be there
6. What was the process to get the marriage license
7. What were the costs you had to pay
8. What were the two of you allowed to wear
9. Were you allowed to bring a wedding band in for him or did it have to be mailed and what was the value limit

congratulations!!!