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worleysgirl 11-29-2003, 05:08 PM Hey guys! I am SOOOOOO excited! I got my first contact visit today on accident! I went with his parents to visit, yesterday and today....and they were supposed to have a contact visit today, but they wouldn't let me cuz a fiance is not immediate family. But the guard screwed up and let me in!!!!! I got a hug and a kiss, and I got to tell him I love you face to face instead of through that damned glass wall!!!! But then the guard realized he messed up and made me leave, at first I was upset, but then I just thanked God for what little time I did have with him!!! I thought my heart was gonna pound out of my chest! His dad told me to calm down before I hyperventolated and passed out on him. Then when I got in there Ronnie kept telling me "breathe Babygirl, breathe!" I was trying but was just soooo happy and sooo excited. Just thought I would share with everyone.....we are going to get married ASAP so that they can't make me leave again!!!!!
kezcat 11-30-2003, 03:54 AM So glad you got to hug and kiss him. This is a beautiful post, made me grin from ear to ear!
:) :) :)
shiva65 11-30-2003, 07:20 AM That was great.. i would of done the same thing.. :))) i am so happy for you .. you must be on cloud 9 . Good luck with future viisits . I wont' be seeing or feeling any contact visits for a while..
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Donna
LeaAnn 11-30-2003, 08:26 AM Well that is really great to hear that you got to spend a little time with him. I get my visits back real soon and I cannot wait to get my kisses and hugs.
louise conrad 11-30-2003, 03:36 PM ALSO VERY HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BryansGRRL 12-01-2003, 02:47 PM THAT's something to be thankful for!!!:D I am VERY fortunate to have always gotten contact visits,its great can't wait till you can sit by him and hold hands all the time:)
ellipanitz 12-01-2003, 03:38 PM Ralf went to jail just 4 months after we were married and then I spent the next 2 1/2 years talking to him for 2 hrs every week through glass. It took over 3 months for my visitation to be approved when he went to state prison. I was on cloud nine when I finally got to see him and actually touch him and kiss him. We were both so nervous. It was almost like a first date,LOL. I only wish that Florida had conjegal visits.
stevesboo23 12-27-2003, 09:31 AM I was on cloud nine the day i walked into the federal penn and I got to hold my baby's hand and get a hug and a kiss!!! I am glad you got a moment of bliss!!!
stormierainn 12-28-2003, 10:15 AM every visit i get this contact high!!! all light headed. it last for days. than when i crash i cry.
stevesboo23 12-28-2003, 10:48 AM I always leave balling like a baby.... I am on a high for awhile then it hits me.. i am walking out the doors without him...:(
shiva65 12-28-2003, 02:28 PM Hey girls.. there is a possibility my baby may be moved to a diffrent prison i am psyched!! why.. contact visit. oh i am hoping and praying.. enough of glass visits..
Donna
stevesboo23 12-28-2003, 03:04 PM I'll be praying for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
qwerty 05-13-2004, 11:49 AM What a cool surprise!! Hope you all get those contact visits soon!
worleysgirl 05-15-2004, 09:57 PM I'm praying for you Donna....Ronnie was just moved to the PRISON so I will be getting contacts all the time very soon!!! i can't wait
You are in my prayers !!!
rottn 05-16-2004, 06:14 AM Gary has always had contact visits, but going to that first one was something. First of all, I had to check out of the motel at 11 and visiting wasn't till 2:30 so I had to entertain myself for a while. Then I got so nervous I threw up on the way to the prison. It went great, and I felt better when I found out he was more nervous than me!!!
spyda 05-16-2004, 08:33 AM Hey guys! I am SOOOOOO excited! I got my first contact visit today on accident! I went with his parents to visit, yesterday and today....and they were supposed to have a contact visit today, but they wouldn't let me cuz a fiance is not immediate family. But the guard screwed up and let me in!!!!! I got a hug and a kiss, and I got to tell him I love you face to face instead of through that damned glass wall!!!! But then the guard realized he messed up and made me leave, at first I was upset, but then I just thanked God for what little time I did have with him!!! I thought my heart was gonna pound out of my chest! His dad told me to calm down before I hyperventolated and passed out on him. Then when I got in there Ronnie kept telling me "breathe Babygirl, breathe!" I was trying but was just soooo happy and sooo excited. Just thought I would share with everyone.....we are going to get married ASAP so that they can't make me leave again!!!!!
:D I'm cheesin for you!! The 1st time is always that exciting, just the fact you have no glass in the way is the most thrilling part.
Best wishes!!!! :)
LeftHereAlone 05-17-2004, 12:41 PM :cry: Havent had one yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MsChiku 07-12-2004, 09:08 PM Wonderful news!! thank you for sharing :) Not only did my heart pound on the very 1st contact visit, mine still does :D
jasonsmyhoney 07-12-2004, 09:40 PM Well Jason And I Always Did Have Contact Visits, So Theres Nothing To Ever Get Over Worked Up For. But I Admit That I Am Always Very Excited When I Get A Visit With My Baby. It Feels Like Such A Gift Just To Be Able To Hold Him And Touch Him And Talk To Him Other Than Letters And The Phone. Oooh I Love My Baby. I Miss Him So Much. I Havent Seen Him Since February 19th And This Wait This Killing Me....but When August 19th Comes I Know It Wll Be Almost Time To See Him Again And You Just Dont Know How Excited I Will Be!!!!
myjutebe 07-26-2004, 10:19 AM That is so great you got a contact visit. I just got my first contact visit this weekend and it was the best. It took about 3 months for me to get approved and my husband called on Thursday and said guess what, You are approved. Well I spent all day Saturday making sure we have everything ready so we would get in, thanks to all the information I have learned on PTO. We rented a car because we had to drive to Ironwood and saw him Sunday.
I know how you feel, it is the best feeling on earth. It has been 3 1/2 months since we saw him in county, behind glass of course and 8 1/2 months since we have touched him.
Our daughter was beaming ear to ear and still is. She looks absolutely beautiful with a glow on his face. It is like they never spent a second apart, they were just as close has they have always been. It was the most special day on earth. Our daughter said this was the best day of her life, even better than her birthday.
Laurie
BRIAN'S GIRL 09-15-2004, 10:22 AM to me it was the best feeling in the world we hadn't be able to hug each other for 3 months then we did and i didn't want to let go and niether did he all the other inmates were actually taken back and we were still hugging the co told him that you didn't have the heart to break are embrace cause she could see the love in both are eyes she actually had tears in her eyes he said when she took him backto his cell and told him that she had never seen two people that in love before....................... and he rubbed my stomach to for the first time
titantoo 12-25-2004, 11:54 PM I am so glad you got your contact visit!
So normally his parents don't have contact visit?
COTDCJ 12-26-2004, 12:21 AM lol........congratulations!
missingmyhubie 02-22-2005, 11:44 AM The first one after along wait is the best. Wooooo hoooooooooo!
love&misshim 03-20-2005, 01:53 PM I can't wait until we get our first one. :D
~StArFiSh~ 03-30-2005, 11:20 PM :( dont get contact visits
monet420 03-31-2005, 10:24 AM Wow i never realized that i take contact visits for granted. I am so very happy for you :) I wish you the best :)
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