Today I visited my husband for the first time. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Everyone was so helpful. I guess I had that deer caught in the headlight look so some of the ladies who met me were nice enough to direct me in the right direction. You never know when you'll meet an angel. Know what I mean. After all we are all in the same boat. Just trying to survive having our hearts taken away and locked up. It sure wasn't much fun going thru hell to get in to hell to see my love but it sure was worth it. I feel so much better now knowing that my husband is ok. Being able to see him has lifted so much weight off my shoulders. I just wanted to share with you all.:)

TearsHeaven,,, thank you,,,, our first visit since June with our Son is on the first Sat. Next month, at WGYCF... seems so far away, His Mother and I are weighted down with not seeing him. I read your post with hopes that we too can be enlighted as you have been.
Thank You again.