I'm nervous, need advice.....
Hello! Tomorrow I'm going to pick up a guy from prison. He is my good friends cousin and I've been writing to him for about a year. Just as friends. (and that's the way I see it)
I have no clue as what to say to him when I see him! I've never seen him before. What do I say? What should I talk about? Should i invite him somewhere?Do I hug him? Shake his hand ??????

please help!!!

well, I know if it was me, i would hug his neck. :) I have had a couple that c\got out and when i met them, i hugged their neck. :) they are really good friends as well

good luck

Yeah, a hug would be nice. I'm sure he would appreciate that.

A congrats hug sounds good to me! He'll probably be excited and happy so go with the flow as far as what to talk about....

Deb

Hello everyone! I know this is two months later but I thought I'd tell you how things went with this guy that I picked up.... When I picked him up it was kinda odd since I never met him before. He was dazed out looking around everywhere. We went to have lunch and from there I dropped him off at home. That night we went to Santa Monica to walk around in the pier ( and a couple of miles on the beach!) For not know him, we hit it off great. Ever wince then we've been spending almost everyday together, and I Love it! We have been to so many places together. I only want him to enjoy life and all the 8 years lost in that place. I love this guy so much that first I was scared to meet him and now I'm scared to ever lose him. Thanks for your advise!

what's this Liz? no Ruben? hmmm. oooh girl. :confused:

Hello girls! (& guys) Well I'm 1 day short of having been with my baby for seven months... Since the day he got out. ;) I'm writing this so that all those girls that are nervous can see that this can be a beginning of a new beautiful life for two people. I'm so happy i decided to go get My baby that day. Thanks to the girls who gave me advice & I will keep u posted.... :thumbsup:

HELLO! ITS ME AGAIN... i'M GOING ON 9 MONTHS WITH MY BABEE.... I AM SO HAPPY! HE WAS JUST A FRIEND THAT I WAS WRITING TO FOR A YEAR WITH OUT SEEING NOT EVEN A PIC OF HIM AND NOW ITS GETTING CLOSE TO A YEAR! I'M GLAD I FOUND THIS SITE, CAUSE IT PREPARED ME TO GO GET HIM AND IT GIVES ME LOTZ OF INFORMATION OF WHAT HE WENT THROUGH FOR THOSE EIGHT YEARS! BYE!

Wow!! Thanx for the update!!! I am sooo happy that things worked out for you!! It is sooo good to hear a success story!! Rona

awww, ya see, I love this...thanks for coming back to share and I hope you both keep doing well!

Glad things are working out great :)