I just wondered if you ever just have a bad day for no apparent reason??

I am having one of those right now. I do not understand why? I just feel yucky and sad. Normally I am very upbeat and happy. Right not I am lonely and sad I even started to cry. This does not make any sense. So I wondered if this is normal or if I am just weird.


:confused: :(

I am a little curious about the poll. Shouldn't the options be "Yes" and "No" or am I reading this wrong?

Yes
and
No

It doesn't take much to unbalance your hormones. Yes mood swings are normal. No your not weird. You'll be OK..... don't watch sad movies right now or carry a box of tissues.

I was wondering the same thing..it seems my mood can shange from one minute to the next..I can be real happy and then BAM! I Am on the verge of tear for no "obvious" reason..But I assume this is all part of the process! Hang in there and remember we are all here for you!!

Shortie....
I say you are totally normal... but really, I don't think any of us can have a mood swing "for no apparent reason".... one of the factors that can contribute to more dramatic changes in mood is stress.... something all of us know a thing or two about.... and I know that you are going through the process of trying to make an important decision which is most likely causing you A LOT of stress whether you realize it or not.... Sometimes we just need to have our little "funky" times and let some tears flow just to release a little bit of the pent up tension... like I said, I think sometimes we get so used to dealing wtih the stress our situations create that we forget just how much we pick up going through what for us is everyday life....
Hang in there....

SHORTIE-HEY, YOU ARE NOT WIERD, YOU ARE HUMAN. AND ALL OF THE MEMBERS ON THIS SITE ARE HAVING TO DEAL WITH SOME REAL DIFFICULT "STUFF" --MOODINESS IS TO BE EXPECTED--IT IS A LOT TO DEAL WITH-- I WOULD ONLY GET WORRIED IF SAD AND HOPELESS FEELINGS START TO INTERFERE WITH YOUR DAILY FUNCTIONING--IF IT GETS TO THAT POINT YOU MAY BE SUFFERING FROM CLINICAL DEPRESSION AND COULD POSSIBLY BENIFIT FROM AN ANTIDEPRESSANT MEDICATION-- BUT THAT IS NOT UNUSUAL OR WIERD EITHER--- THERE ARE A LOT OF CLINICALLY DEPRESSED PEOPLE AROUND--HEY, LIFE IS TOUGH, AND LIFE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE AWAY FROM YOU MAKES IT EVEN TOUGHER-- HANG IN THERE SHORTIE- I KNOW YOU HAVE GOT A LOT OF STRENGTH; I CAN TELL FROM YOUR POSTS--WE ALL CRY SOMETIMES

SHERRI

Shortie,I have to agree,you are totally normal.I have seven sisters,and they are always grumpy......(that was intended to make you laugh) If it didnt you can slap my hand.Seriously,hang in there,and keep the faith.We have an Awsome God,and He will not let you down.God Bless....................................Spencer

I am dealing with so much right now and I am not sure which end is up between death, prison, work and kids I am overwhelmed and just not sure which way to go first.. I want to go back to just being happy.. Until the death of my friend and grandma I was balancing everything pretty well. I guess I am feeling funky cuz my world got turned upside down when I was finally getting calmed down.. It is frustrating and I am just needing to vent I guess.

YOU WILL COME OUT ON TOP SHORTIE

I KNOW IT

HANG IN THERE

SHERRI

i am really trying but when i start to make progress something comes and brings it all right back to my face... Like today her mom sent me her obituary.. I just cna't breathe. It hurts...

Any day is a good day if I wake up! Somedays I don't wake up till noon, others at 3am. Someday things never go write but I still have a pulse. I wake a up and get a new chance at a new day! no I never have a bad day, at least not yet.

nice web site Joey...the slamming of the prison door sounds made me silent

I agree with you, Joey! Inside or out..

I to agree that is a good day when you wake up, but sometimes you just have a hard day. that is what I mean.. I am a very happy and positive person as most of you know but I do have my days..

Each of us is just a thread of a multi-colored suit called humanity. Woven together by a painstaking seamstress of time we look upon our new clothes each day. Should I wear the blue shirt? Maybe, will it be acceptable to the fashion Gods? Who knows, each thread makes a whole wardrope, all together it makes the clothes we wear, acceptance of our fashion sense beginning with the simple decision, What will I wear today?

it's all about perspective--

that is so true...

That's me EVERYDAY. The only times that I'm happy is on payday and when I go to visit Steven.

I too long for the day i get to see anthony.. he is my world

I long for the weekends, when Darrell calls me.

It's kinda funny, everybody on here, who's in a relationship with a prisoner, is in a difficult situation, and still I never found people who love their man so much, like you guys here! Puts a smile on my face

When was the last time you saw him Shortie? Are you guys far away from each other?

I love it when someone else is in love, especially when it's the exact same situation that you are in. I think that's why I stay on here so much!

addicting, huh? :D

Shortie,

You sound pretty normal to me and not whiney at all. This is not the easiest thing that you will ever do and it's ok to shed a few tears.

Morrigan

Shortie, ur not alone! Today was one of those days that I just wanted to go to sleep & not wake up until Todd came home.

And last night I was lol cuz of the stuff David was writing during the chat.

Just remember, God will not give you more than u can handle.

Carla

>>>Just remember, God will not give you more than u can handle<<<

That is true, but I wish He didn't trust me so much some times!

GOD ONLY GIVES TRUST WHERE TRUST IS DUE

THAT'S A COMPLIMENT, B-RAY--HE KNOWS HE CAN COUNT ON YA

>>>THAT'S A COMPLIMENT, B-RAY<<<

Yah, but how many time have I let Him down because? It ain't easy, walk'n da line with all these "better" idea we can come up with, ya know.

we are 4 hours apart and I ususally drive it at lease 2 -3 times a month.. I can see him for 2 hours per weekend. it is very hard for me but i do cherish our visits..

thanks for letting me know that i am normal today is one of those hard days..

YES, You are whiney...weird...and an emotional wreck...but,...so am I...welcome to the world....every..day...is ..an ...adventure...of...un..N...tell...ah...Bul,...no. ..non..sense....Uhmmm...your ....OK....hahahahaha....(this message brought to you by our sponsors of anti-depressants and federal pressure). Be careful not to opperate any heavy emotions when tissuses are not in hand...you are fine,fine,....fine.